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  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

    I can wait for the outcome, and I think Bird will do the right thing.

    What really interests me at this time is who is going to be the first to make "Are you kidding me?" his or her Pacers Digest custom user title.
    And I won't be here to see the day
    It all dries up and blows away
    I'd hang around just to see
    But they never had much use for me
    In Levelland. (James McMurtry)

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    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

      [QUOTE=danman;1052033]I don't have a selective memory. If memory serves, Nick Harper was the stab-ee, not the stab-er. [QUOTE]

      http://coltsnews.9f.com/harperarrested.htm

      Nick Harper had a domestic violence charge prior to stabbing incident. And, to my knowledge, none since.

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      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

        Originally posted by Swish View Post
        Once or over and over and over again like these two fellas?
        Lance was once before Sunday.

        According to the logic you're using, I'm doomed to the same fate because I've done it before. No other outcome is a possibility, I'm still alive, I'll relapse sooner or later.

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        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

          Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
          Lance was once before Sunday.

          According to the logic you're using, I'm doomed to the same fate because I've done it before. No other outcome is a possibility, I'm still alive, I'll relapse sooner or later.
          You should probably do some research. There was a reason he was sitting there in the middle of the 2nd round, you know.

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          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

            Originally posted by pwee31 View Post
            I was doing the same thing .


            Remember when we could have gotten 1-2 solid players and a possible Top 3 draft pick in the 2017 NBA Draft by trading away Paul George?

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            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

              Originally posted by Swish View Post
              You should probably do some research. There was a reason he was sitting there in the middle of the 2nd round, you know.
              Of course.

              The only other possible way to have an opinion differing from yours, is ignorance, or head in the sand. Understood.

              You keep up that open minded, non head in the sand way of thinking. Enjoy.

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              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
                Of course.

                The only other possible way to have an opinion differing from yours, is ignorance, or head in the sand. Understood.

                You keep up that open minded, non head in the sand way of thinking. Enjoy.
                Um...huh? You said that this was his first run in with the law, and I am telling you it is not. I have no idea what your reply has to do with that, but ok.

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                • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                  Originally posted by Hicks View Post
                  The more I think about this, the more I realize it's not as simple for me as I originally thought.

                  To me, without confirmation from the law (which I expect, though perhaps not), he's a scumbag. Total jerk. Think very lowly of him.

                  Perhaps the law will adjust my way of thinking, but probably not. He's a (so to speak) wife beater. I have lost an enormous amount of respect for him as a human being.

                  However...

                  I think to myself, "As much as I love what I've seen of Roy Hibbert as a person, I'd still want him cut if he couldn't play basketball." No matter how nice of a guy Roy Hibbert is or appears to be, if he couldn't ball, I wouldn't want him on the Pacers.

                  So then I think to myself, "So what am I actually cheering for and wanting out of players who are on the Indiana Pacers?"

                  The answer: I'm cheering for people who can help the Indiana Pacers win ball games. Be they athletic, highly skilled, tough, strong, or any number of combinations, I'm cheering for them to play good offense and play good defense on the basketball court.

                  When Roy Hibbert hits his hook shot, the fact that he's likable and seemingly a good guy makes it much more satisfying. But if he can't hit his hook shots, I still want him gone. (So to speak).

                  So then I think of a guy like Lance Stephenson.

                  Say the Pacers decide to go the "he's very sorry for what he's done and will learn from this" route.

                  What am I going to do about this?

                  My first instinct is to say "**** him. I'm not going to root for him. I'll either do nothing or boo."

                  But then I think again. The only reason I care about Lance Stephenson in the first place is because I liked the basketball talent I've seen in him, and I'm (or was?) excited to see him use that talent while trying to help the Indiana Pacers win games.

                  So the dilemma is this: Can I remind myself that I'm rooting for his basketball actions, and not, in fact, rooting for him as a man?

                  It's a much harder question to answer than I sometimes want to think.

                  I can almost seeing myself looking past it because, while I think very lowly of him, he still might make the Indiana Pacers a better basketball team.

                  If a terrible person invents the cure for cancer, I think we still ought to use the cure for cancer, even if we disapprove of who came up with it. You know what I mean?

                  Signed,

                  A conflicted conscience.
                  I would agree that we should use the cure for cancer. Unfortunately the analogy breaks down after that because using the cure doesn't mean we automatically have to heap accolades on this terrible person or give him a great new job (or in Stephenson's case welcome him to the team and cheer him on because he is talented). We can't somehow extract the good his talent could bring but kick him to the curb in the same way as we could with the scientist.
                  "Freedom is nothing else but a chance to be better." - Albert Camus

                  "Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well." - Voltaire

                  "Everyone's values are defined by what they will tolerate when it is done to others." - William Greider

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                  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                    Wow...that was a lot to read. Everything that I wanted to say has already been said...except. When I was young man in my late teens and 20's, I know that I grabbed a many of *sses. I really do believe that his first "run-in" with the law is overblown. On the real, how many times have you seen dudes get cussed out in the club when they grab a woman's butt? Actually...I will still grab a woman's butt in the club if it looks juicy enough.


                    Remember when we could have gotten 1-2 solid players and a possible Top 3 draft pick in the 2017 NBA Draft by trading away Paul George?

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                    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                      WOW is all I can say. Kid is 19 YEARS OLD!!! We have no facts at this point and everybody is crucifying the kid. Maybe his wife is taking drugs and acting crazy and he is worried about the health of his unborn child...maybe his wife threw herself down the stairs knowing that she was going to blame him just to get him in trouble. The "witness" could be her best friend, there is a lot we do not know and frankly I am extremely dissappointed in how everyone is acting about this.

                      How about we SUPPORT THE KID! We as fans should let it be known that we believe in second chances and we want Lance to succeed as an Indiana Pacer.

                      I am 25 years old and manage a vey successful business...when I was 17 I was charged with BURGLARY (can't believe I did it but I was young, stupid and had a bad group of friends).

                      That was my one and only run in with the law, I learned from it and now I am a law abiding citizen. All I can say is everybody needs to chill out, if Lance plays like an All Star and the Pacers start winning basketball nobody will remember this. (assuming he can stay out of trouble)
                      *removed* Just keep politics and religion completely out of it, please.

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                      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                        Originally posted by ksuttonjr76 View Post
                        Actually...I will still grab a woman's butt in the club if it looks juicy enough.
                        LMAO! hehe thanks for the good laugh ... that was a good one ..
                        "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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                        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                          Originally posted by ksuttonjr76 View Post
                          Wow...that was a lot to read. Everything that I wanted to say has already been said...except. When I was young man in my late teens and 20's, I know that I grabbed a many of *sses. I really do believe that his first "run-in" with the law is overblown. On the real, how many times have you seen dudes get cussed out in the club when they grab a woman's butt? Actually...I will still grab a woman's butt in the club if it looks juicy enough.
                          It seems odd to me that someone would bring up charges against a butt grab. But the 'butt grab' follows a pattern of behavior with women. That's undeniable.

                          a 19 year old knows not to do this. A TEN year old knows not to do this. If it's true, it truly makes him a disturbing person. I really can't understand why SO many people are on this "he can have a second chance" mantra. Seriously, do people not take domestic abuse that seriously?

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                            Originally posted by Swish View Post
                            Um...huh? You said that this was his first run in with the law, and I am telling you it is not. I have no idea what your reply has to do with that, but ok.
                            I said he had one run in with the law BEFORE Sunday. That would now mean, TWO times.

                            I type with fairly good grammar, and while not impeccable, my English isn't bad either. No idea what the deal is with your comprehension of what's on your screen.

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                            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                              Originally posted by Sookie View Post
                              It seems odd to me that someone would bring up charges against a butt grab. But the 'butt grab' follows a pattern of behavior with women. That's undeniable.

                              a 19 year old knows not to do this. A TEN year old knows not to do this. If it's true, it truly makes him a disturbing person. I really can't understand why SO many people are on this "he can have a second chance" mantra. Seriously, do people not take domestic abuse that seriously?
                              Let's keep it in perspective on the sexual harassment charge. He grabbed the wrong butt. Nothing more, nothing less. That incident was in no shape or form an indication of his character. In some states, a 18 year-old can be charged with statutory rape for having sex with a 16 year-old. Does that mean the man is an rapist going forward? No...he just ran into that one set of parents who was willing to press charges. It is what it is. If charges were pressed against me every time I grabbed a woman's butt, I would serving a life sentence right now for being a habitual offender.


                              Remember when we could have gotten 1-2 solid players and a possible Top 3 draft pick in the 2017 NBA Draft by trading away Paul George?

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                              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                                Originally posted by ksuttonjr76 View Post
                                Let's keep it in perspective on the sexual harassment charge. He grabbed the wrong butt. Nothing more, nothing less. That incident was in no shape or form an indication of his character.
                                I would have agreed with this.... until I got more details that Skaut_Ech shared earlier in this thread.

                                Apparently, when this girl told him she didn't care for what he was doing, he said something back to the effect of "I should hit you for that."

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