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  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

    Originally posted by vnzla81 View Post
    I think we just need to wait and see.
    Seriously, people need to get a grip.

    Think about it, pushing your GF against a wall, and down a flight of stairs is extremely violent, borderline psychotic behavior. Lance has no documented history of this and I find it hard to believe that growing up in the neighborhood he grew up in, he wouldn't have if he was really that violent. Show me a violent past, and I'll listen. Until then, you are just talking. His only previous charge was way overblown IMO, and it was dropped anyways so what is the point in even mentioning it? It is pretty silly to ignore that simple yet crucial detail. How hard is it to prove he grabbed a girls butt? Which is, by law, plenty to be convicted of sexual assault and be actually punished. You couldn't prove that, and you want me to throw him under the bus for it? Maybe it didn't happen? Did that ever occur to you?

    People just blindly jumping to conclusions is ridiculous. Believe it or not most of the time these kind of stories turn out to be much different than the first reports. I ain't making excuses, it very well could be even worse than it sounds. But lets wait and actually see. Send him to the D-league this year and reevaluate the situation next year, unless you can use him in a trade before then.This team can't afford to throw away talent, even if it doesn't fit into the big scheme of things.

    He is a pretty well off guy. I have heard plenty of stories of people doing insane things to people if they think they can get some money out of it. It is not out of the realm of possibility AT ALL, that this isn't what it appears to be right now. If you don't think so, you need to get your head out of the sand. Let it all play out.

    Originally posted by Kstat View Post
    You realize it's the job of Lance's agent to put the best possible face on this story....there could be hi-definition video of this and his agent would still be saying he didn't intentionally harm anybody.
    But there isn't Kstat, so what is your point? Just because his agent has a job doesn't mean he is always spinning everything. He is there to support Lance and his career, not lie.
    Last edited by Taterhead; 08-16-2010, 08:03 PM.
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    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

      Originally posted by Taterhead View Post
      If you don't think so, you need to get your head out of the sand.
      Irony. At its finest.

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      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

        Originally posted by Swish View Post
        Irony. At its finest.
        Thank you, lol

        But do you have a point? Or just wisecracks?
        "Don't get caught watchin' the paint dry"

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        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

          Originally posted by GizzyStardust View Post
          Did I miss something? What is that about?
          His coach cut him for 1) attitude issues and 2) team play.

          Stephenson, the 6-foot-5, 200-pound swingman out of Brooklyn Lincoln known as "Born Ready," did not make the final cut Monday night. He was left off the team after repeatedly clashing with head coach Bob McKillop over his attitude and behavior.

          http://web.sny.tv/news/article.jsp?y...=35023&vkey=50

          Source: SNY.tv

          Edit: My point is that EVEN if he's innocent, you have to wonder if you want this kind of guy on your team. He's got strike 4 in my book.

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          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

            Originally posted by Taterhead View Post


            But there isn't Kstat, so what is your point? Just because his agent has a job doesn't mean he is always spinning everything. He is there to support Lance and his career, not lie.
            He's there to support Lance, which includes lying.

            I'm not saying that he isn't just doing his job. But for now, I'll take out I'll take the word over two witnesses combined with the woman's injuries, plus the word of her father.

            If Lance had multiple people from different walks of life all saying he did nothing wrong, I'd be inclined to believe that too.

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            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

              Originally posted by Swish View Post
              Irony. At its finest.
              .... because entertaining the possibility of anything other than Lance charging her like a brute, chasing her down the stairs and slamming her head on a concrete step is .... having your head in the sand.

              Strange, I thought entertaining multiple possibilities without committing to one particular viewpoint without all the information being available was pretty cut and dry example of not having your head in the sand.

              Irony, indeed.

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              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/0..._n_683356.html

                TOM HAYS | 08/16/10 07:18 PM |
                NEW YORK — Indiana Pacers draft pick Lance Stephenson, after pushing his girlfriend down a flight of stairs, grabbed her and hit her head on the bottom step, prosecutors said Monday.


                A judge released Stephenson, 19, without bail late Sunday night after his arrest on assault, menacing and harassment charges. Prosecutors had asked for $7,500 bail.


                In a lengthy statement issued Monday, Pacers president Larry Bird called Stephenson's arrest "very disappointing to the Pacers franchise and to me personally." A defense attorney said Stephenson didn't harm his girlfriend.


                Authorities say the confrontation occurred around 5 a.m. Sunday when the woman, Jasmine Williams, was returning home to her apartment building with two friends. Witnesses said Stephenson was waiting for her and yelled, "Are you kidding me?" before pushing her down the stairs.


                A criminal complaint provided Monday by the Brooklyn district attorney's office said that as Williams lay at the bottom of the stairs, Stephenson picked up her head and slammed it on the bottom step.


                When police arrived, Stephenson told them the woman had fallen down the stairs, prosecutors said. The complaint said Williams suffered head and back wounds and possible damage to her neck.


                Stephenson's New York-based attorney, Alberto Ebanks, said Monday his client "did not maliciously, intentionally or in any other way cause harm to Jasmine Williams."


                Ebanks, calling the charges against his client "very serious," added: "Everyone, especially Lance, regrets that this incident occurred. We look forward to addressing these charges in the appropriate venues."


                Stephenson was one of the nation's top high school prospects. He played one season at Cincinnati before applying for early entry to the NBA draft.
                Bird said the organization was still waiting to hear all the facts.


                Still, Stephenson "should not have put himself in the position he was in early Sunday morning," the former Boston Celtics great added. "We have consistently emphasized to our players the importance of not putting themselves in situations where bad things can happen."


                Depending on the investigation's outcome, Bird said, "we will deal appropriately with Lance so that he, the team and the entire Pacers community understands that this message cannot be ignored."
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                • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                  Originally posted by ThA HoyA View Post
                  This part of the article makes me wonder.... The father of the girl knew this stuff happened before and didn't do anything.... To not ruin his basketball career?? Seems real odd.... As a man knowing someone is being abused let alone my daughter how can they just ignore it...
                  Excellent point my man

                  I have a daughter, and without going into details, I will say if it was my daughter, this LAST THING I would worry about is that mf'ers basketball career

                  In fact I would be worried about my impending jail time

                  real talk
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                  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                    623 posts and counting, quickly gaining on the trade thread about getting our point guard of the future. And 623 in 24 hours, as opposed to 692 in the trade thread over 5 days. Really interesting.

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                    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                      Originally posted by Chuck Chillout View Post
                      623 posts and counting, quickly gaining on the trade thread about getting our point guard of the future. And 623 in 24 hours, as opposed to 692 in the trade thread over 5 days. Really interesting.
                      If it bleeds, it leads.
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                      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                        Originally posted by Los Angeles View Post
                        If it bleeds, it leads.
                        Cue the 80's Don Henley....

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                        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                          I'm not sure if this has been posted yet, but this is the first that I've seen any mention of possible sentence length.

                          http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_1...38-504083.html

                          Lance Stephenson Arrested; Indiana Pacers Draft Pick Allegedly Pushed Mother of His Child Down Stairs

                          by Caroline Black

                          NEW YORK (CBS/AP) Indiana Pacers draft pick Lance Stephenson has been arrested after allegedly pushing the mother of his child down the concrete stairs of her Brooklyn home.

                          The 19-year-old, second-round draft pick has been charged with assault, reckless endangerment, and menacing after the violent scuffle which landed Jasmine Williams, 21, in the hospital early Monday morning with head and neck injuries, says NYPD spokesman Paul Browne.

                          According to The New York Post, if Stephenson is convicted on all counts - two counts of assault, two counts menacing and one count of harassment - he could face 12 years behind bars.

                          If Stephenson is convicted on the one count of felony assault, he will face a minimum of seven years in prison.

                          Unfortunately, this is not Stephenson's first run-in with the police.

                          Last year, he pleaded guilty to disorderly conduct for a groping incident which involved a 17-year-old female, reports The New York Post.

                          Thus far, his criminal past has not affected his career or his nearly $1 million NBA contract, says The Post, but Pacers president Larry Bird told the paper that the team will monitor the situation: "We are currently in the process of gathering information and will have further comments as we learn more facts."

                          Before signing with the Pacers, Stephenson played one year at the University of Cincinnati where he was named Big East's Rookie of the Year for 2010.

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                          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                            Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
                            .... because entertaining the possibility of anything other than Lance charging her like a brute, chasing her down the stairs and slamming her head on a concrete step is .... having your head in the sand.

                            Strange, I thought entertaining multiple possibilities without committing to one particular viewpoint without all the information being available was pretty cut and dry example of not having your head in the sand.

                            Irony, indeed.
                            This is not the guy's first run in with trouble. I swear that some of you learned absolutely nothing from Shaun Williams.

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                            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                              Originally posted by Swish View Post
                              This is not the guy's first run in with trouble. I swear that some of you learned absolutely nothing from Shaun Williams.
                              I got in trouble with the law once when I was younger.

                              Guess I'm like Shawn Williams too .....

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                              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                                Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
                                I got in trouble with the law once when I was younger.

                                Guess I'm like Shawn Williams too .....

                                Once or over and over and over again like these two fellas?

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