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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

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  • #76
    Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

    Originally posted by Lou Bega View Post
    Corey could be Uriah Clouse (Jill Behrman) If you remember, Uriah was the main suspect till Meyer was arrested and convicted of her [Jill's] murder.

    Jealous BF? I don't know, but you can't rule out anything.
    The boyfriend does seem to make a very quick assumption to go bust into her apartment. She disappeared at 4:30 am and by the next morning he's already worried about her? If it was me (and maybe I'm a bad person I dunno) I wouldn't be concerned about her until that afternoon or even the evening. I've had girls and guys go entire days without texting me back because they were passed out sleeping off a hangover.

    This guy is going over there within a couple hours of waking up? That's actually the most suspicious thing to me, now that I think about it. That's a very quick jump to believe she must be missing.


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    • #77
      Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

      Originally posted by Trader Joe View Post
      Yeah, I did some more research. I guess the woman who was murdered lead what some described as a shady life. There was a lot of speculation meth could have been involved and the story from the Star bends the truth a bit as she was actually last scene not in downtown Bloomington but out by lake Monroe or something like that. So they probably aren't related...still a sad story though.


      But if you are poor or down and out you get no search parties for you? Are search parties always organized by family and such? Such a shame.

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      • #78
        Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

        Originally posted by Since86 View Post
        That's true Bball, but I know here at BSU, we call Sundays, Sunday Funday.

        It's usually all day drinking, and like I said earlier, Sports has a sandvolley ball pit. Mix alcohol with sun, and Sunday during the summer, and competition, and there is the recipe for some serious arguments. I know it's silly, but I've seen my fair share of arguments over sand volleyball between drunk people.

        Not only that, but he could have suffered a concussion from the punch, which makes it completely plausible that he wouldn't remember anything.


        The more I read/hear, and the fact that they haven't released the names of the boys in involved in the fight, leads me to think they have something to do with it. It's just WAAAAY too random for someone to come up missing after they're in the middle of a fight. I'm really curious as to what the fight is over.
        Forget a concussion, the kid could have had enough to drink where he blacked out at a certain point from the amount of alcohol in his system.


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        • #79
          Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

          Originally posted by presto123 View Post
          But if you are poor or down and out you get no search parties for you? Are search parties always organized by family and such? Such a shame.
          That wasn't my point, but yes like it or not, 7 day volunteer searches do cost money. The Spierer search is paying for food, water, sunscreen, etc. for searchers. It is an unfortunate thing, but that is how it is. I also don't think we can underestimate the impact Lauren's friends made.


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          • #80
            Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

            I read the BF of Lauren met up with [lauren's] roommate @ her class the next morning/afternoon and got the key to Lauren's & her's apartment. Is this a way to cover your tracks? I was so worried about her .....

            I would look into how long they have been dating? If he already didn't have a key it probably isn't a very long time.

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            • #81
              Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

              Originally posted by Trader Joe View Post
              The boyfriend does seem to make a very quick assumption to go bust into her apartment. She disappeared at 4:30 am and by the next morning he's already worried about her? If it was me (and maybe I'm a bad person I dunno) I wouldn't be concerned about her until that afternoon or even the evening. I've had girls and guys go entire days without texting me back because they were passed out sleeping off a hangover.

              This guy is going over there within a couple hours of waking up? That's actually the most suspicious thing to me, now that I think about it. That's a very quick jump to believe she must be missing.
              If it was one of my friends, I wouldn't be worried. If it was my girlfriend, I would be. Anytime my gf would go out without me in Bloomington we would always be texting and what not throughout the night. If she was not responding I would be slightly concerned. If I saw her friend the next morning and she hadn't heard from her either, I'd start getting worried and would probably take the same steps he did.

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              • #82
                Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER



                Need links and authors for stories; this had neither

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                • #83
                  Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                  Originally posted by Trader Joe View Post
                  Yeah, I did some more research. I guess the woman who was murdered lead what some described as a shady life. There was a lot of speculation meth could have been involved and the story from the Star bends the truth a bit as she was actually last scene not in downtown Bloomington but out by lake Monroe or something like that. So they probably aren't related...still a sad story though.
                  I see.

                  I took a class about drugs at IU. One day, we had an undercover police officer talk to our class. He told us some crazy stories about all of the biker gangs and shady drug business that exists in Bloomington. Once you get away from the glitz and glamor of IU, Bloomington can be kind of "rough" in certain places.

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                  • #84
                    Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                    Originally posted by cdash View Post
                    If it was one of my friends, I wouldn't be worried. If it was my girlfriend, I would be. Anytime my gf would go out without me in Bloomington we would always be texting and what not throughout the night. If she was not responding I would be slightly concerned. If I saw her friend the next morning and she hadn't heard from her either, I'd start getting worried and would probably take the same steps he did.
                    Was her phone found at Sports? I forget. If it was he could have called/texted and someone from the bar answered/responded trying to locate who's phone it was.

                    I can't remember if her phone was there, or they found it in the alley way with her keys. (Or even at all)
                    Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                    • #85
                      Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                      Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
                      I see.

                      I took a class about drugs at IU. One day, we had an undercover police officer talk to our class. He told us some crazy stories about all of the biker gangs and shady drug business that exists in Bloomington. Once you get away from the glitz and glamor of IU, Bloomington can be kind of "rough" in certain places.
                      It's no different from any other city in the country. All cities have their hidden, not-so-glamorous aspects. That's just life.

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                      • #86
                        Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                        Originally posted by cdash View Post
                        It's no different from any other city in the country. All cities have their hidden, not-so-glamorous aspects. That's just life.

                        I didn't say it wasn't. Trader Joe was commenting on a specific Bloomington resident who was murdered and that there was speculation of meth in her past. I was merely commenting that I had a cop come to my class and talk about the gangs and drug problems amongst some people in Bloomington, and that there are some "rough" patches in Bloomington that many IU students probably aren't aware of.
                        Last edited by Sollozzo; 06-10-2011, 05:42 PM.

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                        • #87
                          Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                          Originally posted by Trader Joe View Post
                          The boyfriend does seem to make a very quick assumption to go bust into her apartment. She disappeared at 4:30 am and by the next morning he's already worried about her? If it was me (and maybe I'm a bad person I dunno) I wouldn't be concerned about her until that afternoon or even the evening. I've had girls and guys go entire days without texting me back because they were passed out sleeping off a hangover.

                          This guy is going over there within a couple hours of waking up? That's actually the most suspicious thing to me, now that I think about it. That's a very quick jump to believe she must be missing.

                          Don't forget that she lost her phone though. So that means he could have been trying to text her for hours and hours without a response. It's likely they said something along the lines of "I'll text/call you tonight" like most couples would. So when he went hours and hours and hours without hearing a single thing from her, he understandably got worried. Especially if her friends told him they hadn't heard from her either.
                          Last edited by Sollozzo; 06-10-2011, 03:27 PM.

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                          • #88
                            Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                            Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                            Was her phone found at Sports? I forget. If it was he could have called/texted and someone from the bar answered/responded trying to locate who's phone it was.

                            I can't remember if her phone was there, or they found it in the alley way with her keys. (Or even at all)
                            I originally read that the phone was in the alley with the purse.


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                            • #89
                              Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                              The phone was at Kilroy's.

                              If you're going to speculate on the boyfriend's potential role in this you'd have to ask yourself what would a guilty person be most likely to do? I'd think letting the disappearance go as long as possible unreported would be the best thing for the guilty person. I'd also guess that a guilty person would not want to talk to the police any sooner than necessary, even if they did have a concocted story they planned to use.

                              Sending some texts and voicemails he knew wouldn't be answered is one thing, but I'd think coming forward to the police and reporting her missing early on wouldn't necessarily be the thing a guilty person would do. Of course none of that would let him off the hook. A guilty person could panic and act irrationally trying to cover his tracks.

                              The guy that claimed to blackout would still be more of a focus. At least based on what we think we know.
                              Think about it for a moment- The girl goes missing and he's one of the last ones to see her. He must have some kind of injuries which he has a story to explain... But the story does seem odd. And coincidental. And he conveniently is claiming to have blacked out in the time frame most important to him. Face it, the injuries could also be explained by a girl fighting back if he tried to act inappropriately. I know some would say his 'lawyering up' is also pointing to guilt but I'd say it could point to him realizing how bad this looks on him and how easily he could get caught up in a rush to judgment.

                              I'm not 100% sure there's actually confirmation of the fight or a punch with these unnamed individuals. There's allegedly a video showing an argument, or what we're told is an argument, but I've yet to see where anyone has claimed it shows anyone coming to blows. If it shows that it would likely be a good thing for this person at this point because it would help confirm his story and explain any injuries he has.

                              If OTOH, the alibi witness is the roommate it's not out of the realm of possibility for the two boys to have embellished the story if not flat out concocted a part of it because the one guy would be telling his roommate he needs to lie for him or else the police will suspect him. And the roommate might not be willing to believe his friend could be involved with a girl's disappearance and so would willingly help fabricate the alibi. The thing is, these type of scenarios typically don't end well because the lies are built on a house of cards that tend to fall apart under scrutiny. I bet the police are working hard to see if the alibi witness cracks or his story falls apart or checks out.

                              If either of them did lie just to try and make sure the one didn't look guilty, even if he's not guilty of anything, it's a shame because it wastes the time of the police in this investigation chasing snipes plus ultimately will make him look more guilty which is one way innocent people get convicted.
                              Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

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                              "A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player. Losing yourself in the group, for the good of the group, that’s teamwork."

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                              • #90
                                Re: PLEASE HELP FIND A FELLOW HOOSIER

                                I'm going to go ahead and move this over to market square. I think everybody who can help with this has had a chance to see it & now we are really just debating the specifics.


                                Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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