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"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

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A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

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ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

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  • ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

    OK, this happened over a year ago and I kept forgetting to post it..

    Last spring I was looking for a new car and settled on a 4-dr Jeep Wrangler. I had done my research, knew what I wanted to pay, knew what my trade was worth, etc. So, I was visiting local dealers to figure out the last few details and buy.

    One Saturday I went to Kahlo Jeep in Noblesville. I stood around for a while before somebody came and helped me. That was a little strange, since most time car salesmen almost open the car door for you when you pull in.

    Anyway, I take a test drive, come back and sit down with the salesman. I explain what I'm looking for - and I mean exactly what I'm looking for. I know exactly what options, what color, etc, I want. They take my trade out for a drive to evaluate it. Then my salesman goes off for a while with my specs and comes back and says he found one at another dealer and it's $35K.

    That's certainly more than I wanted to pay. In fact, I know it's more than the list price of what I want. I look, and sure enough it's sticker price, and it's got $2000 in options I don't want. Then, he offers me wholesale price for my trade.

    I thought I explained to him I had done my research, but yet he comes to me with "sticker price"? Damn, I must look stupid.

    So, I counter with invoice price and the "private party" value of my trade. I can play the game that way, too.

    He goes away and comes back with the sales manager.

    Well, I think, at least things are accellerating a little bit now.

    So, the (very greasy looking) sales manager extends his hand and says "I just wanted to thank you for coming in." I say something about how I'm just about ready to buy and know what I want and so on. Then he interrupts with

    "No, I mean thanks for coming in."

    It took me a second to understand what he meant. They basically kicked me out of the dealership at that point. Didn't even counter.

    I wasted two hours of my time there. I'll never be back. That's the type of arrogance that has given car dealers the reputation they have, and put the auto industry in the shape it's in.

    I ended up getting my Jeep (love it, by the way) at a different dealership for considerably closer to what I wanted to pay.

    Morons.
    You're caught up in the Internet / you think it's such a great asset / but you're wrong, wrong, wrong
    All that fiber optic gear / still cannot take away the fear / like an island song

    - Jimmy Buffett

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    Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

    I feel you and I am very happy that you finally got what you wanted.

    I was wooed by a salesman at Bedford Ford earlier this month. He told me he could get me into a 2009 Fusion, even after I told him how much my payoff of my 2007 Cobalt SS was. He told me that he would get me within the low $400 range that I wanted.

    He asked me to come in and had me test drive a Milan. He told me he wasn't selling me a Milan, he just didn't have a Fusion on the lot for me (yet). After I test drove that car, which they are very, very similar, I went in for the credit app. I have excellent credit by the way.

    So then they took my car in for the appraisal. The salesman d!cked around a little and then finally came to me and said that since I didn't have a down payment I couldn't get the Fusion he found for me.

    I failed to mention that he promised me that I could use the $3,000 rebate that they were offering as the down payment.

    So I wasted two days dealing with this jerk off and all he could say was "sorry". I told him on the phone the day before to not bother wasting my time if they can't get me into a car. I also said if they could get me into a Fusion, that my mom's significant other would be coming in to get an Escape later this month.

    Eventually, this guy blew two sales and a potential customer for life.

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      Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

      I have a story that can top both of those. It's a long one so bear with me.

      In fact this happened over seven years ago to an ex girlfriend and it STILL makes my blood boil every time I think about it.

      This happened at one of those dealerships on Pike Plaza near 38th and Lafayette.

      My ex girlfriend drove this god awful heap of a car. She knew going in that she wouldn't get anything for it. But she only owed like $1000 on it and she figured she'd get at least that. We go into the dealership looking for a used car. Now you and I and everyone else on God's green earth knows that dealerships make an absolute KILLING buying and selling used cars. They buy in bulk dirt cheap at auto auctions all over and move the cars to different dealerships with markups twice what they paid for that car. Or they will low ball one sucker, spit shine the ride they just stole off of him, then sell it high to the next sucker. So, she goes in and asks to see what used cars they have on the lot. She had a few different models in mind and found a loaded red 1999 Dodge Intrepid (at the time only 3 years old) that had 41k on it. My ex loved it. She asks the guys to value her trade. It's in bad shape and we knew it. They offered her $900 for it. They figured they could rape it for parts if nothing else. She figures that's not actually too bad and agrees, figuring she'd just make up the difference at the end with J.D. Byrider where she had bought the car. So we go to dealing on the Intrepid. Her credit wasn't great. They wanted $8100 for the car. She talked them down to $7700 which I thought was a wonderful price for that car. She had $700 to put down. They told her they could do the deal no problem if she had $1000. I pony up the extra $300. Done deal, handshakes all around. She calls J.D. Byrider to get the payoff information. The dealership calls and pays off the car and she makes up the difference with a check which was around $90. Her car is gone. They take it to the back. The salesman comes up and says we have a problem with the deal. Her credit is worse than we thought and we need $2000 down. We say no, we don't have that it isn't possible, we don't have that, and if the deal is dead she needs her car back. They say sorry, that's OUR car now. We paid it off, we already have the title. I say then you are going to honor the deal you made as agreed or we're calling the police. It was a HUGE scene. The police came and told us there was nothing they could do, we'd have to get a lawyer or call the BBB. I told the guy we've got the $1000 on us that we were going to use on the Intrepid. Bring her car back, we'll give you the grand, or we're calling the BBB, a lawyer, the Indiana Attorney General, Raphael Sanchez, whoever it takes to make sure you never pull a stunt like this again. They wanted $1500. We took the bus home and called all of those people. By the end of the next day, when they had been called by all of those people, they GAVE her car back to her. All in all it actually COST us money to enter their dealership that day. She lost the $90 she paid to pay off her car, plus the cost of the bus ride home, and she still drove that steaming pile of an automobile when we broke up a year later. I can't for the life of me remember which dealership this was. I do know that I have never even looked at a car in that zip code since though.
      Last edited by travmil; 05-28-2009, 12:22 AM.

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        Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

        Once when I was paying cash for a car I had the guy in charge of taking my mind try to talk me into financing and then investing my money in something else. I had to bite my tongue to keep from saying "If you're so great an investment tips why are you working for a car dealership?"

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        • #5
          Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

          This is true: I am a not-bad-off man of 37 years and I've never bought a car from a dealer. Not ever.

          I think after hearing these stories I'm not about to change this trend any time soon.
          “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill

          “If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning.” - Catherine Aird

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          • #6
            Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

            Wow, Doug I can't believe the sales manager would do that. Luckily I have had pretty good experiences, although one dealership I went to up in Fort Wayne was so high-pressured it was almost funny - in fact it was entertaining to be involved in.

            The last car I bought about 4 years ago, because of the company I was working for at the time I was able to get "employee pricing" which was exactly invoice - it really was I checked. But it was funny because I didn't tell the salesman about my discount until we had gone through a lot of the process. His demeanor changed completely - seemed like the pressure was off him and instead of trying to make "a sale" he was just trying to find me a car. He turned out to be a great guy and very helpful - I would buy a car from him again.

            My plan is to keep the car I have now until the wheels come off and then I plan to pay cash for any future cars I buy

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            • #7
              Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

              Cool, car buying horror stories, guess we all got one.

              Bought a brand new 1994 Mercury Capri with 7 miles on it. Part of the deal when dealing with the saleman was the first oil change was free and on them. Said he would check with the manager, got the ok for it, and $15,000 dollars an hour later we were driving off the lot.

              3,000 miles later we're back at the dealership for the oil change. No problem, and they just love us.

              3 months later we get a letter in the mail saying they are suing us for a $20 dollar oil change. Spoke to the manager, he doesn't remember, and the salesman well he's retired.
              Spoke to the next higher up (owner's wife) who is working behind the desk. Treats us like dead beats and says we need to pay up before we go to court. GRRRRRR.

              Took a couple of days but finally spoke to the owner of the dealership. Wasn't real helpful until I insisted he look up our name and take a look at the vehicle we bought parked in the lot.....OOOPPPPSSS I'm so sorry, we'll take care of that right away. Seriously we paid $15,000 and they were going to not only go back on the original deal we were going to have to go to court on $20 bucks. Shoot they never sent us a bill until we received the court summons......Needless to say they never received business from us again.
              You know how hippos are made out to be sweet and silly, like big cows, but are actually extremely dangerous and can kill you with stunning brutality? The Pacers are the NBA's hippos....Matt Moore CBS Sports....

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              • #8
                Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

                Hmmm.... well, I'm buying a new Acadia tonight (assuming that the financing works out fine, which it should.)

                Using GMS, UB is right, its really just a matter of "can I find the car you're looking for?". Only issue is that certain "retail" incentives can't be used with employee/ family/ supplier pricing, although that put us about $1,000 apart for a while yesterday until the salesperson got "creative."

                We're replacing an 11-year old Blazer that we drove until the intake manifold gasket started leaking and now we've got coolant/ water in the engine block. Ugh. Was hoping the Blazer would hang on a bit longer until I really could afford to pay cash for the Acadia, but no such luck...
                Why do the things that we treasure most, slip away in time
                Till to the music we grow deaf, to God's beauty blind
                Why do the things that connect us slowly pull us apart?
                Till we fall away in our own darkness, a stranger to our own hearts
                And life itself, rushing over me
                Life itself, the wind in black elms,
                Life itself in your heart and in your eyes, I can't make it without you

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                • #9
                  Re: ROT IN HELL-O KAHLO!

                  Bought a new Accord last week. It still runs.

                  Seriously, I could have gotten either the cheapest Lexus or Mercedes - or a loaded Accord for a bit less. Finally decided to go with the Accord. The kicker is that I KNOW if the Assessor goes by my house and sees a Lexus or Mercedes in the drive my assessment is going up. Plus the Accord rides pretty nice anyway and gets better mileage.

                  Third new car I've bought from a dealer and I can't say I've ever had a bad experience.
                  The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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