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Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

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"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

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  • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

    Originally posted by graphic-er View Post
    What is so Douchey about it? He waited 6 years after the mother's death. With the proper pretext, it was was established that Aunt Robin had been over for many dinners over the years. I think the major mistake they made was rushing through the romanticism of that moment. It deserved more than a happy gaze down from her window.
    That was a a re-do of the pilot scene, showing it went full circle. Just like the yellow umbrella.
    Last edited by Since86; 04-02-2014, 09:42 AM.
    Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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    • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

      Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
      What makes the How I Settled For Your Mother finale unlikable to some is that Robin showed time and time again through the 9 years of the series that she never loved Ted like he loved her. I mean she married freaking Barney even though he was about 0.000001% as stable and loyal as Ted. The only time Robin really showed romantic interest is when she couldn't have him, such as when she wanted to run off with him before the wedding, or when she was looking at him and his wife at the roof Halloween party in the future. Yet as a 50 year old who seemingly didn't meet a single new romantic interest despite being a world famous reporter, she's finally willing to settle for widower Ted? It's just a bit....meh. With Ross and Rachel in Friends, you always got the sense that the love was pretty equal between them, so them ending up together at the end made sense, even if it was very predictable. But with Ted and Robin, it was always severely one sided. Ted chased her around like a puppy, but she never really reciprocated like him.
      This is where I found myself not liking the series finale. All 9 seasons Ted has always loved Robin and chased her and chased her. Then finally this season they have an episode where they literally show Ted letting her go. As you said there were only two times where Robin really showed her feelings for Ted and that is when she wanted to run away from the wedding and at the Halloween party when she saw how happy Ted was with his wife. Yet, at the very end Ted is holding the blue french horn outside the girl's house that never loved him like he loved her.

      I think how quickly he went after Robin after going over with his kids about how he meet their mother bothered me to. I realize she had been gone for six years, but you just went over how you meet the love of your life and the mother of you two kids and you are like you right kids I need to go steal the french horn again and profess my love to your aunt. The whole mother deal felt more of a bump in the road to get Ted to Robin.

      I think the ending could have been better if throughout the series Robin and ted were going back and forth with loving each other and not it being mostly Ted always loving her and her not being available. If it switched back and forth and it felt like they were on the same level like say Ross and Rachel in Friends then it would be more palatable.

      I think had they just ended it with the scene of him in his 50s finally finishing the story and never showing them so excited about him calling Robin and him going after Robin I would have felt better about the finale.

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      • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

        This is a good review that covers much of how I feel about the finale:

        http://www.avclub.com/review/does-ho...all-tim-202906

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        • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

          Originally posted by thewholefnshow31 View Post
          This is where I found myself not liking the series finale. All 9 seasons Ted has always loved Robin and chased her and chased her. Then finally this season they have an episode where they literally show Ted letting her go. As you said there were only two times where Robin really showed her feelings for Ted and that is when she wanted to run away from the wedding and at the Halloween party when she saw how happy Ted was with his wife. Yet, at the very end Ted is holding the blue french horn outside the girl's house that never loved him like he loved her.

          I think how quickly he went after Robin after going over with his kids about how he meet their mother bothered me to. I realize she had been gone for six years, but you just went over how you meet the love of your life and the mother of you two kids and you are like you right kids I need to go steal the french horn again and profess my love to your aunt. The whole mother deal felt more of a bump in the road to get Ted to Robin.

          I think the ending could have been better if throughout the series Robin and ted were going back and forth with loving each other and not it being mostly Ted always loving her and her not being available. If it switched back and forth and it felt like they were on the same level like say Ross and Rachel in Friends then it would be more palatable.

          I think had they just ended it with the scene of him in his 50s finally finishing the story and never showing them so excited about him calling Robin and him going after Robin I would have felt better about the finale.

          Exactly. Why would Ted want to be with Robin? That's the question I keep asking myself. This woman never reciprocated his love throughout a 9 year span. She then married his childlike sociopath friend who any sane woman would have run far far far away from. That ended in divorce. After that, she spent the next 15 years as a world famous reporter and apparently met no new friends or love interests. This is the woman who you go limping back to?

          Also, Robin travels the world as a reporter, and that's one of the reasons the marriage with Barney ended. I'm supposed to believe that romantic Ted who yearned for the comfortable all American life with the picket fence house would be OK with that? He's going to go travel the world with her while his kids stay at home?

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          • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

            I just can't be happy with how that show ended. It was How I Met Your Mother, not Your Mother Is Really Just A Means To An End With Aunt Robin.

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            • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

              Part of the reason I disliked the ending is because, despite her brief stint, I actually grew attached to Tracy. She seemed to fit seemlessly into "the group." To me it was like losing any other member of the group at the end.

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              • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
                Exactly. Why would Ted want to be with Robin? That's the question I keep asking myself. This woman never reciprocated his love throughout a 9 year span. She then married his childlike sociopath friend who any sane woman would have run far far far away from. That ended in divorce. After that, she spent the next 15 years as a world famous reporter and apparently met no new friends or love interests. This is the woman who you go limping back to?

                Also, Robin travels the world as a reporter, and that's one of the reasons the marriage with Barney ended. I'm supposed to believe that romantic Ted who yearned for the comfortable all American life with the picket fence house would be OK with that? He's going to go travel the world with her while his kids stay at home?
                The problem with how the executed it is that all we saw was Robin not interested in Ted, marrying Barney, divorcing Barney, never being around for the big moments because of her job, and finally showing she is a lonely person at the Halloween party. What changed with Robin? Obviously, she comes around more because they treat her as aunt Robin, but we see none of that. Obviously, with how the kids reacted over that six year span Robin and Ted had got closer, but since we did not see any of that it just goes from the distant Robin to lets get back together Robin.

                Him getting back with Robin makes no sense based off how the rest of the series has gone. Robin did not want kids, she did not want the white picket fence life in the suburbs, her career was always first as shown with her putting her career ahead of Barney and her. She was the realest and Ted was the dreamer. What Ted wanted she did not want. Then to go from the girl that was perfect for him in every way to Robin who is not just does not feel right as an ending.

                I do have to say I love how they ended things for Barney. I really liked that the person that finally grounds him is his daughter. Lilly and Marshall was ended pretty good as well.

                I do not think the finale ruins the series or anything. To me it will go down as one of my all time favorites, but it definitely whiffed.

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                • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                  Originally posted by Shade View Post
                  Part of the reason I disliked the ending is because, despite her brief stint, I actually grew attached to Tracy. She seemed to fit seemlessly into "the group." To me it was like losing any other member of the group at the end.
                  Not only that, but she fit with Ted better than Robin. She shared his sense of humor, and was at least curious about the mundane things that fascinated Ted. She was his soulmate, and they basically made her rest stop on the highway of life.

                  I hated Ted and Robin from the beginning though. So I guess that's where I'm at on it. They were so incompatible, and I agree with Sollozzo that she never loved him until it was inconvenient for him.

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                  • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                    As for Robin going 15 years and never finding another meaningful relationship? Well we don't know that for sure, she could of had a world wind of lovers all across the globe. She was not a conservative woman after all. But this 15 year lull could easily be explained by a failed marriage. Maybe she just decided that she had enough of the idea of commitment and chose to engross herself in her career. That has become a very common theme for the modern woman. They have eluded over the years of the show that Robin eventually traveled the world for her career.
                    Whats more crazy to me is the idea that over that decade she was so easily gave up her friendship to Lilly. That does not make much sense. I've always thought they were a door always open type of friendship.
                    You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                    • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                      Originally posted by TinManJoshua View Post
                      Not only that, but she fit with Ted better than Robin. She shared his sense of humor, and was at least curious about the mundane things that fascinated Ted. She was his soulmate, and they basically made her rest stop on the highway of life.

                      I hated Ted and Robin from the beginning though. So I guess that's where I'm at on it. They were so incompatible, and I agree with Sollozzo that she never loved him until it was inconvenient for him.
                      I dunno if you can say she never loved him. She loved him a great deal in the 2nd season. I think its more accurate to say that Ted was her safe back up plan. Her character has always been one of little compromise.

                      The only thing I can point to as a reason as to why Ted and Robin would work out this time around in their late 40's/50's is that Ted has already experienced the love his is life, kids, and all the things that Robin could never give him. Now all he needs is love. That was the major theme of their break up back in season 2. Could it last only on love alone... well this time most likely.
                      Last edited by graphic-er; 04-02-2014, 12:45 PM.
                      You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                      • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                        I'm just surprised there is this much discussion on HIMYM. Can't seem to get that going for good TV, and then there is 1.5 pages discussing the conclusion to a completely average, bland sitcom that became undone only 2-3 seasons into its run.

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                        • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                          Originally posted by Dr. Hibbert View Post
                          I'm just surprised there is this much discussion on HIMYM. Can't seem to get that going for good TV, and then there is 1.5 pages discussing the conclusion to a completely average, bland sitcom that became undone only 2-3 seasons into its run.
                          I seriously didn't know people who were young enough to know what the internet was even watched any CBS programming.
                          "I had to take her down like Chris Brown."

                          -Lance Stephenson

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                          • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                            Originally posted by graphic-er View Post
                            I dunno if you can say she never loved him. She loved him a great deal in the 2nd season. I think its more accurate to say that Ted was her safe back up plan. Her character has always been one of little compromise.
                            I think you've summed it up perfectly.

                            She didn't want to be with Ted when she was young and still holding onto the hope that other things would work out. Ted is her "well I'm 50, divorced, and single, so I guess he's better than dying alone as an old woman" option.

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                            • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                              The main thing that sticks in my craw, other than the mother's death, is what was the point of this season? Pretty much the entire thing was undone in the finale.

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                              • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                                Originally posted by BRushWithDeath View Post
                                I seriously didn't know people who were young enough to know what the internet was even watched any CBS programming.
                                I will say that HIMYM is the last CBS show I had any investment in. Now I have closure on that part of my life.

                                As for the "Good TV" discussion that can't get dug up. I think that's too subjective really. I'd say the majority of this thread is dedicated to talking about Breaking Bad. Which I thought was good, but I still prefer to watch something that isn't purposely depressing and about something terrible that could be(or was, actually) mistakenly glorified by some watchers of the show.

                                What good TV would you like to talk about, Dr.?

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