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  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

    Originally posted by ksuttonjr76 View Post
    If charges were pressed against me every time I grabbed a woman's butt, I would serving a life sentence right now for being a habitual offender.
    Wow, I just wow. Not sure what it says about me. Perhaps I am just not a butt grabber,

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    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

      Originally posted by ksuttonjr76
      If charges were pressed against me every time I grabbed a woman's butt, I would serving a life sentence right now for being a habitual offender.



      Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
      Wow, I just wow. Not sure what it says about me. Perhaps I am just not a butt grabber,

      Aw, Buck. Go ahead and say whay you know is true.

      Declaring "I molest women every chance I get" is a new low for this forum.

      Sutton has expressed a loathsome opinion. The rules of the forum permit him (unless the moderators decide otherwise) to say what he said, but every discerning member ought to IGNORE him.
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      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

        Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
        Wow, I just wow. Not sure what it says about me. Perhaps I am just not a butt grabber,
        People just came into the conference room where I'm working to find out what had me laughing so hard!

        I couldn't explain that I was on a message board.
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        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

          Originally posted by cgg View Post
          That was my third post or so. I'm just listing things that show that just because someone is accused or arrested doesn't mean that they are guilty. Of course they can be guilty, but its not always the case and it happens a lot more than people think.
          You implied the cops could have covered it up
          During an investigation you don't think the DA
          is going to pull both of there phone records to see if calls were made, and those people will be interviewed to find out Lances state of mind before the attack, you don't think they're there
          going to find out that the victim had witnesses that observed this,or how many trips the cops have made to that house over the years for domestic disputes and of course the medical report finding.Domestic Violence cases are some of the easiest cases to prove in court.In my opinion lance will be wishing there was a plea deal.


          One more thing.It's very easy to prove when people lie during investion.You see when people lie it is very hard to re-tell that story the same way twice.In this case the victim gives a written statement to Police officers,then Detectives come a couple hours later and they record her story, A couple days later she has to repeat that story to a District Attorney then to a Distict Attorney Supervisor a couple of days after that.I'm not even going to get into Trial hearing.If she lied on the complaint report it will come out well before trial
          Last edited by nyballer31; 08-17-2010, 10:15 AM.

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          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

            Originally posted by Putnam View Post
            ... has expressed a loathsome opinion. The rules of the forum permit him (unless the moderators decide otherwise) to say what he said, but every discerning member ought to IGNORE him.
            Please do me a favor and use the full forum name here, as I wish in no way shape or form to be accidentally associated with that opinion.
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            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

              Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
              Wow, I just wow. Not sure what it says about me. Perhaps I am just not a butt grabber,

              It says to me your parents brought you up properly to respect the opposite gender and instilled positive morals and values in you.

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              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs


                From the NBA twitter page. We now have visual evidence. Ugh. As far as I can tell this picture was just taken today.

                http://twitter.com/NBA
                Last edited by BPump33; 08-17-2010, 10:41 AM.
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                • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                  Originally posted by USF View Post


                  From the NBA twitter page. We now have visual evidence. Ugh. As far as I can tell this picture was just taken today.

                  http://twitter.com/NBA
                  This is interesting.

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                  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                    Originally posted by nyballer31 View Post
                    You implied the cops could have covered it up
                    During an investigation you don't think the DA
                    is going to pull both of there phone records to see if calls were made, and those people will be interviewed to find out Lances state of mind before the attack, you don't think they're there
                    going to find out that the victim had witnesses that observed this,or how many trips the cops have made to that house over the years for domestic disputes and of course the medical report finding.Domestic Violence cases are some of the easiest cases to prove in court.In my opinion lance will be wishing there was a plea deal.


                    One more thing.It's very easy to prove when people lie during investion.You see when people lie it is very hard to re-tell that story the same way twice.In this case the victim gives a written statement to Police officers,then Detectives come a couple hours later and they record her story, A couple days later she has to repeat that story to a District Attorney then to a Distict Attorney Supervisor a couple of days after that.I'm not even going to get into Trial hearing.If she lied on the complaint report it will come out well before trial
                    Sure it will come out. But would it come out already? Which is my point. We don't know for sure yet.
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                    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                      Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
                      Wow, I just wow. Not sure what it says about me. Perhaps I am just not a butt grabber,
                      Nope,

                      To me it says he has yet to grab the wrong butt

                      If he were to grab the butt of someone like my childrens mother,

                      Honestly he would probably get sliced with a box cutter

                      No, I am not exagerating (sp?)

                      You grab a street wise aggressive women who doesnt play that and I guarantee it will be a costly mistake

                      Now griding on a female Im dancing with , Im all for that
                      Last edited by 90'sNBARocked; 08-17-2010, 11:09 AM.
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                      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                        I'm throwing this out here, just know I'm as disgusted by this as anyone and I am purely playing devils advocate. God, I feel dirty already for even playing this game...

                        What if?

                        She called him, said meet me at my apt at 4:30 a.m.. She wasn't there, locked him out of the apt. , told him earlier that he was never going to see his child again and that she's going to take every dime he had, if he doesn't meet her and talk about it.

                        She got home, he's still there, she's drunk starts going off. He says, i'm leaving, she blocks his exit down the stairs, he continues to try to leave and she gets knocked down the stairs. As he's leaving, she grabs his leg and he keeps moving and she falls away causing her to hit her head on the bottom step.

                        Her equally drunk friends call the cops and tell the story we know. Lance is stone cold sober. Lance actually stayed there to not be running from the scene.....

                        Dude, I don't believe any of this for one second. It's just my nature to turn this around in my mind to play devils advocate.

                        Even in this scenario, he's in a volatile situation at 5 a.m., so there's no situation I can think of that counters that, at least that I can think of.

                        Also, I know his history.

                        My question is this, if this is his story; does this change anything?

                        Take it a step further, what if this is his story and he's exonerated in court?

                        I'm sorry, I expect to destroyed for even posting this, but again, it's just my nature to think of all possibilities and is no way minimalizing victims of domestic violences
                        Last edited by Speed; 08-17-2010, 11:16 AM.

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                        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                          Originally posted by Hicks View Post
                          The more I think about this, the more I realize it's not as simple for me as I originally thought.

                          To me, without confirmation from the law (which I expect, though perhaps not), he's a scumbag. Total jerk. Think very lowly of him.

                          Perhaps the law will adjust my way of thinking, but probably not. He's a (so to speak) wife beater. I have lost an enormous amount of respect for him as a human being.

                          However...

                          I think to myself, "As much as I love what I've seen of Roy Hibbert as a person, I'd still want him cut if he couldn't play basketball." No matter how nice of a guy Roy Hibbert is or appears to be, if he couldn't ball, I wouldn't want him on the Pacers.

                          So then I think to myself, "So what am I actually cheering for and wanting out of players who are on the Indiana Pacers?"

                          The answer: I'm cheering for people who can help the Indiana Pacers win ball games. Be they athletic, highly skilled, tough, strong, or any number of combinations, I'm cheering for them to play good offense and play good defense on the basketball court.

                          When Roy Hibbert hits his hook shot, the fact that he's likable and seemingly a good guy makes it much more satisfying. But if he can't hit his hook shots, I still want him gone. (So to speak).

                          So then I think of a guy like Lance Stephenson.

                          Say the Pacers decide to go the "he's very sorry for what he's done and will learn from this" route.

                          What am I going to do about this?

                          My first instinct is to say "**** him. I'm not going to root for him. I'll either do nothing or boo."

                          But then I think again. The only reason I care about Lance Stephenson in the first place is because I liked the basketball talent I've seen in him, and I'm (or was?) excited to see him use that talent while trying to help the Indiana Pacers win games.

                          So the dilemma is this: Can I remind myself that I'm rooting for his basketball actions, and not, in fact, rooting for him as a man?

                          It's a much harder question to answer than I sometimes want to think.

                          I can almost seeing myself looking past it because, while I think very lowly of him, he still might make the Indiana Pacers a better basketball team.

                          If a terrible person invents the cure for cancer, I think we still ought to use the cure for cancer, even if we disapprove of who came up with it. You know what I mean?

                          Signed,

                          A conflicted conscience.


                          This is a reasonable thought and I think it says a lot, while not really taking a side. I am just generalizing when I say that most fans of any sports team would feel this way if said player was on their team.

                          Can you hate the man but love the player?

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                          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                            Originally posted by cgg View Post
                            Sure it will come out. But would it come out already? Which is my point. We don't know for sure yet.
                            Well considering that the first cops on the scene have her statement then the detectives recorded her statement, They have statement from the victims friends and Lances friends all basically telling the same story,yeah there's a great chance if there were making up stories we wouldn't have gone gotten as far as we have so far.

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                            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                              Originally posted by nyballer31 View Post
                              Well considering that the first cops on the scene have her statement then the detectives recorded her statement, They have statement from the victims friends and Lances friends all basically telling the same story,yeah there's a great chance if there were making up stories we wouldn't have gone gotten as far as we have so far.
                              Wait, did Lance have friends there?

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                              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                                Where has it been said all these people were there and have made statements? I haven't seen this.
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