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  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

    1. This appears to be an assumption for many but: Has there actually been a clear link to legal incidents and attendance (separate from win/loss record)?

    2. If so... how much less damage would caused by:
    a. near immediate cut
    b. cutting him after another legal incident or for failure to fulfill what I would hope to be strict conditions to continue with the Pacers
    c. Lance not having anymore legal incidents and playing well
    d. Lance not having anymore legal incidents and not playing well

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    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

      Originally posted by Bender View Post
      This is all funny, I almost posted this last week but decided not to....my friend was at a party last Saturday where Paul George, Magnum Rolle and Lance Stephenson were present and he said Lance Stephenson was "disrespecting the woman" there. My freind knows NOTHING about sports, Pacers and especially Lance Stephenson's past. When he told me that me and a few of my freinds looked at each other like, "uh oh."

      True story.



      Awful news.
      I'm not going to "rush to "judgement", but I think there really is something to the "where there's smoke, there's fire.

      Now something you guys should think about, coupled with bender's info, is this:

      1. In his prior arrest for assault, and these are facts, he groped a girl's breasts and butt. When she tried to fight back, he threatened to "slap the hell out of her" for trying to defend herself against his behavior. I believe he was also charged with threatening her, too.

      2. Apparently, he was charged with a form of "menacing" again.

      Also, I gotta call BS on this;

      Originally posted by taterhead
      He was a HS kid who grabbed a girls butt Kstat. But I really doubt you are a psychologist so stop pretending to be one. I have seen literally hundreds upon hundreds of men commit that form of sexual abuse in my life.
      I don't mean to call you out, and I don't mean offense, but simply saying he grabbed a girl's butt is more than a little oversimplification. Check out the facts on the incident, since, as you say, you "refuse to talk out of my anal cavity."

      Also, you say, "I have seen literally hundreds upon hundreds of men commit that form of sexual abuse in my life." Really. I'm just curious. How is it that you have seen hundreds and hundreds? I'm honestly asking.

      Folks, This is definitely a wait and see situation and there are ways to gather some compelling facts on the incident, IF the investigators want to make the effort. What does the 911 call (is there one?) say? Any neighbors hear anything? Were there any defensive wounds on either party? Damage to the wall? Were taped statements taken at the scene, locking the participants into their version of events.

      There's been a pretty strong push to investigate domestic situations as crime scenes, collecting evidence as you would a murder, or major felony type crime. Question will be if that is actually done, or whether once there is a cooling off period, the alleged victim decides maintaining financial standing with the LS supercedes her assisting with prosecution.

      I can tell you from past experience (old timers on here know what I do for a living), that situations like this rarely stem from a guy trying to defend himself. It's possible, but unlikely. Personally, I'm going to just wait and see what comes from this and just take the incident for what it is, as few "facts" as have been presented so far. I'm not going to spaz and call for LS's head, but it truly seems there is something problematic going on with LS.
      Hey! What're you kicking me for? You want me to ask? All right, I'll ask! Ma'am, where do the high school girls hang out in this town?

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      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

        Send him off to Alaska until the season starts.

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          Woke up today still feeling the same as I did last night I heard this horrible news. Cut him, do what ever it takes, we can't have this crap going on period, too much history involved. I was one of those cats screaming his praises during Summer League and now I just want to throw it all up. I feel sick with this. No matter how it started (the fight), it's press this franchise can't afford to have. Bird must of have had a rough night of sleep, I know I would have weighing Lance's incredible upside with this domestic violence mayhem. I hope and pray there is an out clause in the contract he signed for the Pacers. Because he must go, we don't have time for this. We're supposed to be riding high from getting DC and now we are saddle bagged with his crap! Goodbye!
          Avatar photo credit: Bahram Mark Sobhani - AP

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          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

            There was some confusion earlier in this thread about how many years his contract was guaranteed. Not sure it was ever cleared up in this thread.

            Appears Wells is saying it is 2 years.

            http://www.indystar.com/article/2010...nd-down-stairs

            INDIANA PACERS
            Draft pick Stephenson arrested in New York

            By Mike Wells Posted: August 16, 2010



            A negative light is shining on the Indiana Pacers again.

            Just days after feeling good about making what they believe is their best trade in years, the Pacers were knocked down Sunday when rookie guard Lance Stephenson was arrested and charged with third-degree assault after he allegedly pushed his girlfriend down a flight of stairs in Brooklyn, N.Y., early Sunday.

            "We have been made aware of a situation involving Lance Stephenson early Sunday morning in Brooklyn," Pacers president Larry Bird said in a statement released from the team. "We are currently in the process of gathering information and will have further comments as we learn more facts."

            Stephenson's agent, Al Ebanks, did not return a phone message Sunday.

            Stephenson's incident is a hard blow to the Pacers because they've spent years trying to repair their negative off-the-court image with the fan base.

            They raised eyebrows by drafting Stephenson in June. A schoolboy legend in New York City, he played one year at Cincinnati and fell to the Pacers with the 40th pick overall, in the second round of the draft.

            After an impressive showing in the Orlando summer league, the Pacers decided to sign him to a guaranteed contract, even though they weren't obliged to with a second-round pick. He received a two-year contract with an option on the third and fourth years.

            Sunday wasn't the first time Stephenson has had a run-in with the law.

            Stephenson was charged with sexual abuse for allegedly groping a girl at a bus stop near his high school in New York his senior year. The charge was dismissed and he ended up pleading to a lesser charge of disorderly conduct.
            The Pacers supposedly did their homework on Stephenson before drafting him in June. They hired a private investigator to do a thorough background check on Stephenson and his family.

            .

            Call Star reporter Mike Wells at (317) 444-6053.

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            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

              Originally posted by Sookie View Post

              Why did we give him guaranteed contract?

              B/c Bird doesn't learn from past history... James White.

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                Originally posted by BornReady View Post
                I knew I was gonna get mowed for this. Honestly, I don't know, and I'm not one to be able to say specifically. I just hate to see somebody's talent, and life, for that matter, get wasted away for making bonehead decisions that they should easily know better from. Do I think what he did was wrong? Absolutely. It is sick. But do I also think there is a slight chance we can work past this? Well, I don't know, but I certainly hope so.
                Man, Lance beats the snot out of his girlfriend and it's just a bone headed decision...What's the world coming to?

                A boneheaded decision is going 120 MPH at 3am and getting pulled over...

                A boneheaded decision is getting caught with a little bit of marijuana...

                A boneheaded decision is skipping a workout or practice...

                These are boneheaded decisions. They are minimal and really only impact yourself and are easily rectified.

                Tossing your girlfriend (and the mother of your kid) down a flight of stairs is a little bit more serious than a bone headed decision.


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                • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                  Not to ignore the PR and moral implications, but honestly as far as the on the floor product goes, I think cutting him has almost no immediate impact.

                  You still have 3 point guards, you can now easily sign Rolle. Ideally you still move TJ and then sign a Vet min. guy as your 2nd or 3rd PG, depending on AJ's status.

                  Otherwise,

                  -I wish they could get out of paying him a dime. Not likely.

                  -Now that I've slept on it, I think if a guy has this big of an incident, this soon. It's not likely this is a one time thing going forward, time to move on.

                  -I love his talent and he's potentially so good it's worth the risk, but if this is what you get a month into his rookie summer, again likely not going to be some epiphany, at least not right now. If they inable him and coddle him, it's probably worse for h im too.

                  Again the above is nothing to due with the PR side or moral side at all, just purely from a basketball standpoint and a basketball "team" standpoint. Sadly, imo, if with all the other stuff removed, it's not worth the risk.

                  It'd be hard, if I was Bird to not say, thanks LS for making me look like a fool for believing in you as a person. Not to get all Dan Gilbert, but I'd imagine Bird feels that way right now.
                  Last edited by Speed; 08-16-2010, 08:50 AM.

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                  • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                    Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
                    You are missing my point. it is big news because it fits the narrative of what the Pacers have been for the past 8 years, so when something else happens, it is the lead story
                    You're right on point with this. I woke up with it still being dark outside here with this crap being the first thing on my mind and it's my b- day today! It does fit the narrative for the Pacers. No matters who's fault it is between Lance and his girl. It's a huge hit against everything that has been done to right the ship for the Pacers! I will say it again, you have to cut him, you have to do it! Many will say don't rush to judgement, but considering the recent history this has to be done, sorry! Bird must have been crying all night long, he and the Pacers have a tough decision to make.
                    Avatar photo credit: Bahram Mark Sobhani - AP

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                    • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                      Originally posted by Ozwalt72 View Post
                      Which was discussed....a lot....right after he was drafted. Seriously, if a kid in high school got reported every time he smacked/grabbed whatever a girl's ***, I know my school would have been a giant crime scene. The unfortunate, ridiculous truth.

                      Unfortunately, it doesn't say alot for today's society!
                      Last edited by Justin Tyme; 08-16-2010, 08:59 AM.

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                      • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                        Originally posted by odeez View Post
                        You're right on point with this. I woke up with it still being dark outside here with this crap being the first thing on my mind and it's my b- day today! It does fit the narrative for the Pacers. No matters who's fault it is between Lance and his girl. It's a huge hit against everything that has been done to right the ship for the Pacers! I will say it again, you have to cut him, you have to do it! Many will say don't rush to judgement, but considering the recent history this has to be done, sorry! Bird must have been crying all night long, he and the Pacers have a tough decision to make.

                        Sorry, buddy. Happy Birthday!!!
                        Passion. Pride. Patience. Pacers

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                        • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                          Originally posted by BornReady View Post
                          maybe 3rd times the charm?
                          Look, I know you probably don't want your username to have to change again, but seriously...no more chances.


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                          • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                            Originally posted by woowoo View Post
                            Well, he has game... that said I am sure he is now on a zero tolerance watch. He is simply too good to give up on now.

                            He is a young man, maybe he will tighten it up and maybe he wont....

                            Everyone deserves a second chance and LS is on his already. My advice to him would be to DUMP THE *****ES FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS....
                            Are you saying give him a second chance?

                            First of all, this whole Lance Stephenson is the most talented thing EVARRRRRR theory is absurd. The guy was 40th overall, he was never a lotto type talent. Yeah he had issues that held him back, but he was a good person in college so I really don't think the personal issues made him drop. Red flag? Yes. Reason to drop from lotto to second round as some are suggesting? Absolutely not.

                            Unless he just came off as completely insane in his interviews.

                            He might have been a solid rotational player for us, but the OJ Mayo and Wade comparisons were always ludicrous. He has never been that talented. Mayo had attitude question marks coming into the league and went to USC under questionable circumstances, and he was STILL a lotto pick.

                            The kid was never going to be a star. Maybe a backup, maybe. Maybe a spot starter.

                            We can find another Lance Stephenson. I promise all of you that. His talent is not that fantastic.


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                            • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                              Originally posted by woowoo View Post
                              This kid has got to understand a few things, he now has money.... he is a "target" now. He has got to stay away from his old crowd until he is mature enough to handle situations where people will try and bait him into screwing up.

                              If I am Bird, I am telling Lance to move his azz to Indy and not leave....... This kid is at a crossroads in his life, it lead to fortune and fame or it can lead to disaster... It's all on him...

                              At least he didn't have a bag of weed on him....
                              So getting lots of money=excuse for sending a woman down the stairs?

                              There is no excuse for this. If he did it...he must go. The reason the Colts don't get **** on by the media and fans for people acting like morons is because they get rid of them immediately afterward. Usually with no questions asked.


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                              • Re: Lance Stephenson Charged With Pushing Girlfriend Down Flight Of Stairs

                                Originally posted by Putnam View Post
                                Sounds like you should send away for a Charles Atlas bodybuilding course.
                                .
                                Sounds like he already has.
                                "Look, it's up to me to put a team around ... Lance right now." —Kevin Pritchard press conference

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