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LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

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  • #31
    Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

    Originally posted by Pacers2012 View Post
    lebron looks alot like his mom though. so he wouldnt look like his dad very much if this is to be his dad. look at his mom on google before she had her nose job
    And you speak for human genetics, how?

    C'mon man!

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    • #32
      Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

      Might as well lock this goofy-a$$ thread down.

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      • #33
        Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

        My daddy left home when I was three
        And he didn't leave much to ma and me
        Just these old sneakers he used to wear off and on.
        Now, I don't blame him cause he run and hid
        But the meanest thing that he ever did
        Was before he left, he went and named me "Bron."

        Well, he must o' thought that is quite a joke
        And it got a lot of laughs from a' lots of folk,
        even when I was a star in high school, college, and so on.
        Some gal would giggle and I'd get red
        And some guy'd laugh and I'd bust his head,
        I tell ya, life ain't easy for a boy named "Bron."

        Well, I grew up quick and I grew up mean,
        My fist got hard and my wits got keen,
        I'd roam from town to town to hide my shame.
        But I made a vow to the moon and stars
        That I'd search the honky-tonks and bars
        And kill that man who gave me that awful name.

        Well, it was up in Cleveland, mid-July
        I was a free agent and my value was high,
        You could even call me the NBA sine qua non.
        At an upscale bar near the Gund Arena,
        doin' a dance that looked like the Macarena,
        Was the dirty, mangy dog that named me "Bron."

        Well it had to happen, sooner or later,
        Some leach'd come along, claiming to be my pater,
        Infringing on my world like a hellish demon.
        I knew he cause a lot of bother
        Claiming to be my biological father
        Sayin' he prove his right with a squirt of [ ]

        Well, I hit him hard right between the eyes
        And he went down, but to my surprise,
        He come up with a knife and cut off a chunk of my bling.
        He said, 'Just gimma a share of the wealth,
        and I'll leave again and wish you good health,
        I just wanna get in on a real good thing.

        I tell ya, I've fought tougher men
        But I really can't remember when,
        He kicked like Bruce Bowen and he elbowed like Ron Artest.
        I heard him laugh and then I heard him cuss,
        He went for his gun and I pulled mine first,
        He stood there lookin' at me and said, "You're the best."

        And he said: "Son, this league is rough
        And if a man's gonna make it, he's gotta be tough
        And I knew I wouldn't be there to coach ya along.
        So I give ya that name and I said goodbye
        I knew you'd have to learn to ball or die
        And it's the name that helped to make you strong."

        He said: "Now you had one hell of a season,
        Your gonna get a max contract, and you know the reason
        is the biological gifts you base your game upon,
        But ya ought to thank me, with a load of cash,
        So I can buy me a car with a bit of flash,
        Cause I'm the son-of-a-***** that named you "Bron.'"

        I got all choked up and I threw down my gun
        And I called him my pa, and he called me his son,
        And for no good reason, this line ends with Kazakstan.
        And I think about him, now and then,
        Every time I play and every time I win,
        And if I ever have a son, I think I'm gonna name him
        Bill or George! Anything but Bron!
        I still hate that name!
        And I won't be here to see the day
        It all dries up and blows away
        I'd hang around just to see
        But they never had much use for me
        In Levelland. (James McMurtry)

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        • #34
          Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

          If I was on LeBrons legal team I'd draw up documents asking for 18 years of back child support in the amount of $4 million should he turn out to be LeBrons father. I mean by all accounts he is a successful guy so maybe that's not far off.

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          • #35
            Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

            Originally posted by HC View Post
            Sounds to me like you are drawing conclusions that you don't have enough information to substantiate. How do you know that it isn't his mother's fault that his father wasn't a part of his life? I was raised without a father myself, but a lot of it had to do with the fact that my mom wanted to make my father out to be a bad guy so that she could claim all the credit for raising me herself. This type of thing happens all of the time, and at the very least needs to be taken into consideration. In fact, some of the comments she made according to the article above would lead me to believe that the aformentioned may very well be the case. Furthermore, whether he was there for him or not the man has a right to know if he is in fact the father. If the tests were tampered with, then he has a case.
            I didn't draw conclusions, I said "what if". It was obvious that it was a made up scenario. Your scenario would have just as much (if not more) of a screwed up effect on a person.

            To the other comments, I'm down with making fun of or joking about 99% of the things on the here. Hell, laugh when he gets dunked on, hope he loses every game the rest of his career. Whatever. But to make light of something that could potentially screw with someone emotionally when it was not of their own making .... that's just not right.

            God forbid someone in life have a conscious. If this is hilarious, some of you should get a job at your local hospital delivering bad news to patients families in the waiting rooms. You could go home and giggle about all the hilarious stuff you did at work. I severely doubt any of you would find humor in this scenario if it was your life.

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            • #36
              Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

              Just FYI...

              last time I checked LeBron has ben LeBron for like 5-10 years and been rich enough in that same amout of time.... why now.... I ask.........
              Ya Think Ya Used Enough Dynamite there Butch...

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              • #37
                Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
                I didn't draw conclusions, I said "what if". It was obvious that it was a made up scenario. Your scenario would have just as much (if not more) of a screwed up effect on a person.

                To the other comments, I'm down with making fun of or joking about 99% of the things on the here. Hell, laugh when he gets dunked on, hope he loses every game the rest of his career. Whatever. But to make light of something that could potentially screw with someone emotionally when it was not of their own making .... that's just not right.

                God forbid someone in life have a conscious. If this is hilarious, some of you should get a job at your local hospital delivering bad news to patients families in the waiting rooms. You could go home and giggle about all the hilarious stuff you did at work. I severely doubt any of you would find humor in this scenario if it was your life.
                I read this and then got hungry for a hamburger. Not sure why. Pretty random. I think I need ice cream now. Maybe an Oreo or two.

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                • #38
                  Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                  Originally posted by xBulletproof View Post
                  I didn't draw conclusions, I said "what if". It was obvious that it was a made up scenario. Your scenario would have just as much (if not more) of a screwed up effect on a person.

                  To the other comments, I'm down with making fun of or joking about 99% of the things on the here. Hell, laugh when he gets dunked on, hope he loses every game the rest of his career. Whatever. But to make light of something that could potentially screw with someone emotionally when it was not of their own making .... that's just not right.

                  God forbid someone in life have a conscious. If this is hilarious, some of you should get a job at your local hospital delivering bad news to patients families in the waiting rooms. You could go home and giggle about all the hilarious stuff you did at work. I severely doubt any of you would find humor in this scenario if it was your life.
                  The point is that you are seemingly picking sides and taking offense on a topic that none of us have enough information about to draw any real conclusions. Therefore, a light-hearted joke is not that big of a deal.
                  "The greatest thing you know Comes not from above but below" Danzig

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                  • #39
                    Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                    Originally posted by Stryder View Post
                    I read this and then got hungry for a hamburger. Not sure why. Pretty random. I think I need ice cream now. Maybe an Oreo or two.
                    Watch those calories.
                    "The greatest thing you know Comes not from above but below" Danzig

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                    • #40
                      Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                      Originally posted by travmil View Post
                      If I was on LeBrons legal team I'd draw up documents asking for 18 years of back child support in the amount of $4 million should he turn out to be LeBrons father. I mean by all accounts he is a successful guy so maybe that's not far off.
                      Not necessarily, how do we know that Bron Bron's mother didn't deny this man of his parental rights all of these years?
                      "The greatest thing you know Comes not from above but below" Danzig

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                      • #41
                        Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                        Originally posted by HC View Post
                        Not necessarily, how do we know that Bron Bron's mother didn't deny this man of his parental rights all of these years?
                        Maybe she did, but he'd have to prove it in court, which LeBron's legal team would not as they would have rock solid DNA evidence on their side. The guy has a law degree so he has to know how stacked the legal system is in favor of the mother in custody related matters. So he could try to argue that she denied him his parental rights, spend a LOT of money doing it, lose, and still owe the back child support which he would then have to pay before he ever collected a dime from LeBron or his mom. By the time he did all that he might have to sue them for $10 million.

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                        • #42
                          Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                          Originally posted by Los Angeles View Post
                          Everything sounds fairly reasonable until I get to the $4 Million part. I'd like to hear why he thinks he's owed money. Perhaps the fraud led him to lose a high paying job or something?
                          No kidding... so what if he is Bron's dad? If anything he is lucky he does not have to pay back support... He is owed nothing ...

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                          • #43
                            Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                            Originally posted by travmil View Post
                            Maybe she did, but he'd have to prove it in court, which LeBron's legal team would not as they would have rock solid DNA evidence on their side. The guy has a law degree so he has to know how stacked the legal system is in favor of the mother in custody related matters. So he could try to argue that she denied him his parental rights, spend a LOT of money doing it, lose, and still owe the back child support which he would then have to pay before he ever collected a dime from LeBron or his mom. By the time he did all that he might have to sue them for $10 million.
                            Exactly, which leads me to believe he thinks he has a case. Otherwise, why would he bother?
                            "The greatest thing you know Comes not from above but below" Danzig

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                            • #44
                              Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                              Originally posted by HC View Post
                              Exactly, which leads me to believe he thinks he has a case. Otherwise, why would he bother?
                              The hopes of settling out of court to prevent a potential PR nightmare for Lebron.


                              Remember when we could have gotten 1-2 solid players and a possible Top 3 draft pick in the 2017 NBA Draft by trading away Paul George?

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                              • #45
                                Re: LeBron being sued by man claiming to be his father

                                Originally posted by ksuttonjr76 View Post
                                The hopes of settling out of court to prevent a potential PR nightmare for Lebron.
                                Could be, but he seems educated enough to have his i's dotted and t's crossed. Maybe he is just broke and desperate though.
                                "The greatest thing you know Comes not from above but below" Danzig

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