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K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

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  • #46
    Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

    Martin needs to learn to watch what he says in public and not say things that might offend anyone in attendance. I would be mad at Cuban too if he started talking about me behind my back and to my own mother. He needs to learn to grow up and take it easy and discuss with Cuban in a calm way.

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    • #47
      Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

      Cuban crossed the line.

      Actually, he flew over the line at Mach 5.

      Heck, I'd think it was over the line for a FAN to say that to a player's mom.

      Let alone an owner. We want to hold our players to a higher standard of conduct because they are 'public figures' and 'role models'. The standard of conduct should be even higher for an owner.

      The fact that, IMO, it's true, really has no bearing on it.

      Of course, Kenyon Martin could have / should have taken the 'high road'. Or maybe even the middle. But he didn't. What do you expect from a **** *** ***** ***** ** *** like him?
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      • #48
        Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

        Originally posted by ABADays View Post
        As far as I am concerned Stern hasn't been antagonized enough. He's a front runner, a liar and a cheat.
        And he's ugly. Oh, so ugly.

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        • #49
          Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

          Both Cuban and Martin need to just go away. Preferably taking Stern and Stu Jackson with them.

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          • #50
            Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

            Originally posted by TroyMurphy3 View Post
            Martin needs to learn to watch what he says in public and not say things that might offend anyone in attendance. I would be mad at Cuban too if he started talking about me behind my back and to my own mother. He needs to learn to grow up and take it easy and discuss with Cuban in a calm way.
            This is not about saying things that might "offend anyone in attendance." Resorting to the whole political correctness is a copout and simply continues the victim mentality.

            The whole thing would never have occurred if Mark Cuban hadn't acted like a jerk. He did, and in insulting Kenyon Martin's mother he crossed a line that he (Cuban) should be well aware of, since he's been around professional athletes for years.

            It's Cuban's fault, not Kenyon's. And let me make it clear - I do not like Kenyon Martin, never have. Thinking/hoping that Kenyon Martin is going to "grow up and discuss something with Cuban in a calm way" is beyond naive. He used the vernacular of his peers. I'm actually surprised he only used three choice words. I can think of a whole bunch more he might have said...and I'm just a sweet little old lady who lives in the middle of a national forest and loves basketball.
            NBA basketball - taking my breath away since 1963.

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            • #51
              Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

              Originally posted by VF21 View Post
              This is not about saying things that might "offend anyone in attendance." Resorting to the whole political correctness is a copout and simply continues the victim mentality.

              The whole thing would never have occurred if Mark Cuban hadn't acted like a jerk. He did, and in insulting Kenyon Martin's mother he crossed a line that he (Cuban) should be well aware of, since he's been around professional athletes for years.

              It's Cuban's fault, not Kenyon's. And let me make it clear - I do not like Kenyon Martin, never have. Thinking/hoping that Kenyon Martin is going to "grow up and discuss something with Cuban in a calm way" is beyond naive. He used the vernacular of his peers. I'm actually surprised he only used three choice words. I can think of a whole bunch more he might have said...and I'm just a sweet little old lady who lives in the middle of a national forest and loves basketball.
              BAM!!! Right on the money.
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              • #52
                Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                Originally posted by VF21 View Post
                He used the vernacular of his peers. I'm actually surprised he only used three choice words. I can think of a whole bunch more he might have said...
                That in itself speaks volumes of where we are in the NBA society. Sad, sad, sad. Cuban was wrong, Martin was worse.
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                • #53
                  Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                  Cuban was really wrong to tell Martin's mother that her son is a thug.

                  Now, it is a completely true statement, mind you--- K-Mart has always been into cheap shots, retalliation, and dirty plays. But... you don't say that to his Mom.

                  Then K-Mart reacted like K-Mart does. Totally unacceptable, a reaction worse than Cuban's action. It was provoked, sure. Artest was provoked in the Palace. But the reaction in each case was a lot worse.

                  There is no way I would ever want K-Mart on my team at any price (hhmmm... unless they took Tinsley ). By contrast, if the Simons were selling the franchise and Cuban was the buyer (assuming he sells Dallas first), I wouldn't mind him as an owner. It wouldn't thrill me either, but I'd feel that he'd be working hard to improve the franchise despite his flaws in temperment.
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                  • #54
                    Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                    Originally posted by ABADays View Post
                    That in itself speaks volumes of where we are in the NBA society. Sad, sad, sad. Cuban was wrong, Martin was worse.
                    But Martin was being Martin. I'm not saying he was right or that his actions should be condoned BUT his reaction to what Mark Cuban said and did was totally and completely predictable.

                    In other words, when Mark Cuban made that comment to Kenyon's mom he was most likely pretty sure what the possible outcome could be. Cuban owns an NBA franchise; he's dealt with players from all over the world from as diverse a background as you could possibly imagine.

                    I do not like Mark Cuban. I do not like Kenyon Martin. I would honestly like to see them fight to the death with nerf bats in a tank with sharks. But, having said that, in this case I do not think you can blame Martin for doing what anyone else from his background in his situation would do. He responded to words with meaner words.

                    There's a song (originally recorded by Al Wilson) that says, in part:

                    "I saved you," cried the woman.
                    "And you've bitten me, but why?
                    You know your bite is poisonous
                    and now I'm going to die"

                    "Oh shut up, silly woman,"
                    said the reptile with a grin.
                    "You knew damn well I was a snake
                    before you took me in."

                    My point? It's not surprising that Kenyon Martin would respond to insults to his mother with hostility and anger.

                    On the other hand, Mark Cuban is not a thug. He's not from the streets. He acted not like a millionaire, but like some kind of redneck lunatic. For him to take his grievances to an opponent's mother is so off-the-wall, so ridiculous, so beyond the norm as to be almost jaw-dropping.

                    Just like in The Sopranos, you don't mess with family.

                    I totally agree there are a lot of anger issues and problems in the NBA. I think a lot of it is directly attributable to the obscene amounts of money these young men are suddenly given - for playing a stupid game. There is also the "respect" concept, where kids who can play a game assume they should automatically be treated as grown-ups even though they've yet to prove they can act like it.

                    This isn't that kind of situation, however. Cuban took it out of the game and into family. That is NOT okay.
                    NBA basketball - taking my breath away since 1963.

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                    • #55
                      Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                      Originally posted by VF21 View Post
                      This is not about saying things that might "offend anyone in attendance." Resorting to the whole political correctness is a copout and simply continues the victim mentality.

                      The whole thing would never have occurred if Mark Cuban hadn't acted like a jerk. He did, and in insulting Kenyon Martin's mother he crossed a line that he (Cuban) should be well aware of, since he's been around professional athletes for years.

                      It's Cuban's fault, not Kenyon's. And let me make it clear - I do not like Kenyon Martin, never have. Thinking/hoping that Kenyon Martin is going to "grow up and discuss something with Cuban in a calm way" is beyond naive. He used the vernacular of his peers. I'm actually surprised he only used three choice words. I can think of a whole bunch more he might have said...and I'm just a sweet little old lady who lives in the middle of a national forest and loves basketball.
                      Sorry, but I think you can't be any further than the truth.

                      I happen to believe in the concept of personal responsibility. Should Cuban have said it? No, that's on him and that's his fault. Should K-Mart have reacted the way he did? No, and that's on him.

                      Cuban is responsible for his own actions, and so is K-Mart. With your line of thinking I can make the argument that K-Mart is the root of the problem with his foul on Dirk in game 2 (I believe).

                      Where does it start and where does it end? Each individual is responsible for their own actions, and the actions of someone else doesn't give you an excuse to react a certain way.

                      Both of them were in the wrong, and both should be held accountable for their own actions. Don't give one of them an excuse for behaving like an idiot.

                      EDIT: Lord knows I'm not the most politically correct person. But come on. We all would be in argeement if races where reversed, and KMart called him by the n-word. I hate political correctness, but I understand it. I hate double-standards even worse, and don't/won't understand them.
                      Last edited by Since86; 05-17-2009, 11:15 PM.
                      Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                      • #56
                        Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                        We should not hold Cuban to a higher standard. Making excuses for either one is unfair to the 'good citizens' of the league. Oh, KMart is just a thug, so that's the way he deals with people? Well, Cuban is just a rich guy used to getting his way, and that's the way he reacts to frustration. They both come off like chuckleheads.


                        [~]) ... Cheers! Go Pacers!

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                        • #57
                          Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                          Some more ugliness has reared it's head:

                          http://sports.espn.go.com/nba/news/s...e=NBAHeadlines

                          The Denver Nuggets made dispatching the Dallas Mavericks look easy compared to this.

                          The feud simmering between the Nuggets' Kenyon Martin and Mark Cuban continued to boil this weekend, a week after the Mavericks' owner set off the acrimonious tete-a-tete by making an insulting comment to Martin's mother after a Game 3 loss.

                          "He's a coward," Martin said about Cuban, according to HoopsHype.com.

                          "He couldn't face it. You all read the only apology that he's made [on his blog].

                          "The world got to see it before the person who it was meant for got to see it. That tells you how that goes. I ain't never known nobody apology to somebody through other people."

                          For his part, Cuban called his blog apology a mistake, telling the Web site in an e-mail that he regretted not having contacted Martin's mother in person and in a timely fashion.

                          "I still intend to apologize to Ms. Moore," Cuban wrote of Lydia Moore, Martin's mother. "I made a mistake and will keep my commitment."

                          But Cuban reiterated that Martin needed to address his behavior, too.

                          "I would also like to know if Kenyon is going to take responsibility for his actions rather than hiding behind 'no comment,' " Cuban wrote. "Will he apologize to the wife of our staff member that he called a [expletive] fat pig' immediately after Game 3? Will he apologize to fans that he threatened to, and I'm paraphrasing here, '[expletive] beat the [expletive] down' during Game 4?

                          "Or to the fans he walked by after Game 4, [Martin] cursed and gave the finger to? Will he take responsibility for what he said and did? Is there some reason he has not?"


                          The Nuggets beat the Mavericks 124-110 on Wednesday night to win their second-round series in five games.

                          Denver will face the Lakers in the Western Conference finals starting Tuesday night in Los Angeles (9 p.m. ET, ESPN) after their Game 7 win over the Houston Rockets on Sunday.

                          Martin declined in the interview with HoopsHype.com to address his actions after Game 4.

                          "Me and my mom ain't going to lose no sleep if we don't talk to Mark Cuban" Martin said. "We're going to lay our head down and sleep well every night.

                          "I'm still playing right now. [Cuban's] got time to think about all that. I got games to win right now. So give [Cuban] time to think about [what he might do]."
                          If all of this is true, particularly in reference to Martin flipping off fans, why was he not suspended?

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                          • #58
                            Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                            Originally posted by Roaming Gnome View Post
                            You're probably right..."Two wrongs don't make a right." Too bad Martin couldn't keep his composure.

                            Fair or not, I hold an NBA owner to a much higher standard then a guy with red lips tattoo'd on the side of his neck. I'm sure Stern and the rest of the owners in the league probably agree!
                            Exactly what I was thinking. I'd also add two wrongs don't make a right but one of those wrongs was worse than the other. I don't condone using the kind of language he used but at least what K-Mart said was directed at Cuban and not his wife or mother.

                            Also, he was probably upset because of the way the fans followed his poor example and keyed in and treated his mother during that game. They had to basically surround her with security to get people to stop yelling at her. So taking all that into consideration, I'm not surprised he reacted that way after the game was over.

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                            • #59
                              Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                              Wow - after reading the article one has to say Martin is a well spoken gentleman. Must be that Huggins U. of Cincinnati education.
                              The best exercise of the human heart is reaching down and picking someone else up.

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                              • #60
                                Re: K-Mart Calls Cuban (some not very nice words)

                                does Cuban make mistakes? sure he does

                                but i wish that all owners were as passionate as he is about their team.

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