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Rule #1

Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

"People with intelligence will agree with me when I say that __________"

"Only stupid people think / believe / do ___________"

"I can't wait to hear something from PosterX when he/she sees that **insert a given incident or current event that will have probably upset or disappointed PosterX here**"

"He/she is just delusional"

"This thread is stupid / worthless / embarrassing"

"I'm going to take a moment to point and / laugh at PosterX / GroupOfPeopleY who thought / believed *insert though/belief here*"

"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

In general, if a comment goes from purely on topic to something 'ad hominem' (personal jabs, personal shots, attacks, flames, however you want to call it, towards a person, or a group of people, or a given city/state/country of people), those are most likely going to be found intolerable.

We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

If you see a problem that we haven't addressed, the best and most appropriate course for a forum member to take here is to look over to the left of the post in question. See underneath that poster's name, avatar, and other info, down where there's a little triangle with an exclamation point (!) in it? Click that. That allows you to report the post to the admins so we can definitely notice it and give it a look to see what we feel we should do about it. Beyond that, obviously it's human nature sometimes to want to speak up to the poster in question who has bothered you, but we would ask that you try to refrain from doing so because quite often what happens is two or more posters all start going back and forth about the original offending post, and suddenly the entire thread is off topic or otherwise derailed. So while the urge to police it yourself is understandable, it's best to just report it to us and let us handle it. Thank you!

All of the above is going to be subject to a case by case basis, but generally and broadly speaking, this should give everyone a pretty good idea of how things will typically / most often be handled.

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If this is done the wrong way, those comments will be deleted, and if it's a repeating problem then it may also receive an infraction as well.

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When you ignore a user, you will unfortunately still see some hints of their existence (nothing we can do about that), however, it does the following key things:

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Regarding infractions, currently they carry a value of one point each, and that point will expire in 31 days. If at any point a poster is carrying three points at the same time, that poster will be suspended until the oldest of the three points expires.

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  • A plea for civility....

    I am ending my self imposed ban of this forum to speak to each of you as politely as I can.

    We came within a hairs depth of losing this board because it was seen as being to personal and insulting. Not something that as a group we want to have.

    However I asked and have recieved permission to keep this board up because I honestly feel a place like this is both wanted and needed.

    If we did away with this, these topics would just pop up on the main board. Something none of us want.

    I am asking for all of your help here because I cannot and will not play police man every hour of the day.

    Please help regulate yourself. Nobody wants to stifle your opinion or your ability to express it, no matter how much we may agree or disagree with it.

    But for the love of God please do not resort to name calling. Telling someone they are an idiot or an imbicile, no matter if they are one or not, does not help anything. It may make you feel better but at the end of the day it only will cause the other person to respond in kind or start other problems.

    Today is Monday March 17, 2008 and we are going to start fresh.

    We are resetting the whole thing today. I am not going to read one single post of any thread from before this day. All previous transgressions are forgiven and forgotten.

    However starting today this forum will now be monitored daily, or as close to daily as I can.

    I will not participate in the threads, I just feel that with topics as diverse and opinionated as these tend to be that it is best that whoever moderates this should stay above the frey.

    I do reserve the right to speak though on special occasions ie. elections, attacks, etc. I am only human after all.

    Also for full disclosure, which I truely believe in, I am a Republican. I have never hid that fact. I am not a die hard conservative, not by a long shot. But usually I agree with most of the party's stances.

    However I promise that I will not allow that to sway what I do here. I have zero interest in stemming the ebb and flow of a conversation at all. I am only going to be watching for threads that break down into insults.

    I am open to any suggestion you guys have that will help keep this place alive and thriving.

    BTW, I do not believe that this is a cest pool of insults btw. I fully understand that people have deep opinions and try to express them the best way they can.

    So having said that let me start by asking for a couple of things.

    1. Agree to disagree. Make your case, make it again, if you have something new to add then make it again. But at some point in time you are not convincing anyone and they are not convincing you. So walk away. Feel free to state that you are done with the conversation because you don't feel you are making any progress or even that the other person is not changing thier minds.

    2. You know who's posts offend you. Ignore them. If you feel you can't ignore them than follow the above guideline. You can make your point of disagreement, but understand that at some point in time they are not going to change thier mind. Remeber they have as much right to thier opinion as you do, no matter how wrong they are.

    If you are having any trouble with a poster, remember from today forward not backwards, please p.m. me. I will look at the situation and respond the best way I can. It may or may not be what you want done but I won't ignore it.

    Ok, that's what I'm asking for. As I said I am open to ideas here, either p.m. me or just state it below.

    Thank you all for your co-operation in this matter.

    Peck


    Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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    Re: A plea for civility....

    A plea for civility eh?

    I know this thread came a couple weeks ago, but in the time since then and now, I've really been taken aback by the dive the discussion here has taken, and the speed at which it has happened. I don't come to this board and expect to find nothing but things I agree with, that's not my point. My point is that I not only disagree with the main content of nearly every thread, but am also quite shocked and disgusted by most of it. That isn't right. It seems that this board has become a haven for what I consider to be small minded opinions on race and religion, and those that feel like voicing their displeasure with those opinions are ridiculed. It reminds me very much of the situation we had here a couple of years ago, when the board was nearly shut down. There is no respect for alternate opinions whatsoever. Valid points are raised, and shouted down or ignored. Opinion is shouted from the mountaintops as if it were fact, and it's expected to be accepted as such without argument. This politics forum is usually quite enjoyable, but is fast becoming an irrelevant source of news and debate. I really hate to see it happen.

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      Re: A plea for civility....

      Originally posted by travmil View Post
      A plea for civility eh?

      I know this thread came a couple weeks ago, but in the time since then and now, I've really been taken aback by the dive the discussion here has taken, and the speed at which it has happened. I don't come to this board and expect to find nothing but things I agree with, that's not my point. My point is that I not only disagree with the main content of nearly every thread, but am also quite shocked and disgusted by most of it. That isn't right. It seems that this board has become a haven for what I consider to be small minded opinions on race and religion, and those that feel like voicing their displeasure with those opinions are ridiculed. It reminds me very much of the situation we had here a couple of years ago, when the board was nearly shut down. There is no respect for alternate opinions whatsoever. Valid points are raised, and shouted down or ignored. Opinion is shouted from the mountaintops as if it were fact, and it's expected to be accepted as such without argument. This politics forum is usually quite enjoyable, but is fast becoming an irrelevant source of news and debate. I really hate to see it happen.
      Thank you for your concern.

      It is a very tight rope that I am trying to walk here. On the one hand I do not want to over regulate the board and stifle opinion (no matter what my opinion of the opinion is). However I can not let this become a cest pool of personal insults either.

      While I have cringed at some of the very recent topics that have graced our board I have also not made any effort to repress these either. As long as people talk about the topics and not each other that is pretty much all I can hope for.

      At the end of the day it is a board dedicated to the two things that you really are never supposed to talk about in public (religion & politics) so you know that there are going to be topics that are at the very least touchy.

      My main edict from TPTB is to quell any and all personal insults. I have been given a very large chunk of discression to do this.

      Have there been a few posts that have bordered on the insult trail here? Yes.

      I probably should have stepped in on a couple of them before but I am really not trying to be repressive here either.

      I stick up a drawing of the watcher when I get concerned about a thread and pretty much to let people know that we are getting to close to the boundrys and so far everyone has done a very good job about self correcting in those threads.

      What I would encourage you to do is to use the ignore feature. I have a feeling your problems are not with a vast majority of posters, just a few. If you put those people on ignore then the problem will be solved.

      Yes I know that is not the best option, but it is really the only option that I can think of at the moment.

      But rest assured I am watching each thread and if anyone needs to report something to me please feel free to do so.


      Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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        Re: A plea for civility....

        Originally posted by travmil View Post

        I know this thread came a couple weeks ago, but in the time since then and now, I've really been taken aback by the dive the discussion here has taken, and the speed at which it has happened.

        ... yeah. What he said. This board isn't nearly as fun anymore. And I don't think it's because of the push for civility--I feel like we really needed that. Something else stinks.
        You, Never? Did the Kenosha Kid?

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          Re: A plea for civility....

          I for one would like to really and truly cast my vote that this board be closed. I see this section of the Pacer's digest as nothing but a waste of time and a source of closed minded contentiousness.

          I very, very, rarely post here, but every time I do, there's no debate, just strong opinions backed by an unwillingness to listen to another viewpoint.

          This is a truly disappointing and disheartening section of PD. It's my strongest hope that it to be done away with.

          (I peek in from time to time and the recent Obama thread finally sealed the deal for me.)

          Burn this mutha down!
          Hey! What're you kicking me for? You want me to ask? All right, I'll ask! Ma'am, where do the high school girls hang out in this town?

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          • #6
            Re: A plea for civility....

            I think the important thing to do is to not get weighed down with all of the stupid crap that happens here. Find the good threads, post in those. Stay away from the inane or stupid threads. Try to use rationale when posting in a thread. Easy.

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            • #7
              Re: A plea for civility....

              Originally posted by Skaut_Ech View Post
              I for one would like to really and truly cast my vote that this board be closed. I see this section of the Pacer's digest as nothing but a waste of time and a source of closed minded contentiousness.

              I very, very, rarely post here, but every time I do, there's no debate, just strong opinions backed by an unwillingness to listen to another viewpoint.

              This is a truly disappointing and disheartening section of PD. It's my strongest hope that it to be done away with.

              (I peek in from time to time and the recent Obama thread finally sealed the deal for me.)

              Burn this mutha down!
              I've quit reading any thread having anything to do with Obama - I've pretty much given up on any of them having anything worth reading.

              I've had better luck with the energy threads.
              The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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              • #8
                Re: A plea for civility....

                Originally posted by BoomBaby31 referring to Reverend Wright View Post
                Do they all spit venom of hate speech that is reminiscent to a Ku Klux Klan rally?
                And with this comment I have to finally throw in the towel.

                That is so beyond inappropriate I'm beside myself.

                I second (third?) the opinion that this board should be closed. This will only get worse as the Pacers go into the off season and the election draws nearer.
                “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill

                “If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning.” - Catherine Aird

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                • #9
                  Re: A plea for civility....

                  Don't do it!

                  The people who post crap are just going to take it to the Shout Box and the people who ACTUALLY care about politics will just stop responding.

                  The only benefit would be that the political crap will be lost in all the other Shout Box clutter, and that does NOT outweigh the loss of Good Politico OR the convenience of the news, IMO.

                  The obviously pointless threads should just be deleted. And I know that doesn't solve all the problems but as long as we make it past the election we'll be fine.

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                  • #10
                    Re: A plea for civility....

                    Originally posted by Los Angeles View Post
                    And with this comment I have to finally throw in the towel.
                    Same here. I almost responded to that, but it would have been a rash and mean response.

                    I check this forum still out of habit, but I'll eventually get over that. Kinda sucks, since outside of the Colts forum during the season this in the only part of the board that really interested me. (I don't really get to see many P's games anymore.) Oh well.
                    You, Never? Did the Kenosha Kid?

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                    • #11
                      Re: A plea for civility....

                      Originally posted by SoupIsGood View Post
                      Same here. I almost responded to that, but it would have been a rash and mean response.

                      I check this forum still out of habit, but I'll eventually get over that. Kinda sucks, since outside of the Colts forum during the season this in the only part of the board that really interested me. (I don't really get to see many P's games anymore.) Oh well.
                      Maybe you should come back to the Shout Box...
                      Word on the street is he doesn't want your money, he only wants to please your ears...
                      Bum in Berlin on Myspace

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                      • #12
                        Re: A plea for civility....

                        Originally posted by Los Angeles View Post
                        And with this comment I have to finally throw in the towel.

                        That is so beyond inappropriate I'm beside myself.

                        I second (third?) the opinion that this board should be closed. This will only get worse as the Pacers go into the off season and the election draws nearer.
                        WOW - that was one I hadn't read. The blessing of not reading any Obama-related thread. It used to be, out of all the PD Boards, this forum was the one where I read what someone wrote and and thought this would be an interesting person to sit down and have lunch with. Someone who made you think and you could have a civil and educational disagreement with.

                        It's now become a board where I read a post and think that if I ever found out that person was affiliated with anything I was a part of I'd be completely disgusted.

                        I'm not saying the forum should be closed but it sure has become full of garbage.
                        The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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                        • #13
                          Re: A plea for civility....

                          How about the admins lock the threads that are deemed inappropriate? Maintain a level of control.

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                          • #14
                            Re: A plea for civility....

                            Ok, I am going to respond here so I don't have to keep responding in private to everyone.

                            First please re-read my initial plea for civility.

                            I made a point of saying that I am not here to stifle opinions, ideas or thoughts. That is not what I was tasked with doing.

                            I am here to to stop the poster on poster violence, so to speak.

                            If something or someone offends you, put them on ignore.

                            Locking threads is an option, one I have already used. But I only want to use this when it becomes apperant that the discussion has shifted so far away from the topic at hand and to a personal nature that it will not come back.

                            It is a political board, some people are going to have wild far out ideas. That is thier right and I don't want to stomp on that. No matter how far out there it is.

                            What you find wild and far out or even offensive others don't.

                            If I lock every single thread that offends people about Obama I will then have to lock every single thread that offends people about Bush.

                            I understand and am very sympathetic that some of these threads are going to be racial in nature. I will keep an eye on them, but it is a very tough job determening what is racist in nature and what is racially insensative.

                            Again to everyone, I am sorry that some of you find the place in a shambles right now.

                            I would encourage you to post more often, not less.

                            We need new threads to be honest with you. Right now we seem to keep beating the same ones over and over.

                            As always I am open to ideas. I just hope you all understand that I do not want to try and control what people think or say on a topic.

                            Peck


                            Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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                              Re: A plea for civility....

                              Peck,

                              I understand your positon here, I really do. But at the same time, there has to be a well defined line that everyone knows not to approach. I understand that you are closing threads when you think the line has been crossed. But by the time that happens, the discussion is already far beyond any and all hope of repair. The Obama TV Ads thread marks the second time BB31 has made the comment that finally breaks the camel's back and closes the thread. I'm not saying ban him or anyone else, but obviously some people are having a problem knowing where the line is. As I said, I understand where you are coming from and appreciate the effort as I'm sure all do. I just think there needs to be a more concrete idea of what's acceptable and what's not. I know defining that is difficult as you have pointed out that what people think is acceptable difffers greatly. I think the racial and religious stuff though in particular we can say the majority find it unacceptable, as can be obviously seen in the comments here and in the Obama Ads thread after that comment was made.

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