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Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

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"Only stupid people think / believe / do ___________"

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"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

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  • #76
    Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

    Originally posted by 90'sNBARocked View Post
    He is in my prayers brah

    its always darkest before dawn, this too shall pass
    Thank you bro..

    I am so scared right now..

    I googled on infection and complications after a coronary bypass and I had to close out the page... I couldnt read anymore..

    I am waiting on any word from my sister after they get down to Indy ..
    "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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    • #77
      Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

      Originally posted by Kemo View Post
      Thank you bro..

      I am so scared right now..

      I googled on infection and complications after a coronary bypass and I had to close out the page... I couldnt read anymore..

      I am waiting on any word from my sister after they get down to Indy ..
      True Story (think I might have said before)

      My Grandma had a tripple bypass and the gave her 4-6 years to live at best. Happy to say that she died peacefull in her sleep a couple months ago at the ripe age of 95. SHe had the surgery when she was 73



      Also, not sure if you have tried but I would go to the FHA website , there are numerous programs available by the federal government designed to keep people from losing their house

      Good luck fam
      Sittin on top of the world!

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      • #78
        Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

        Originally posted by Kemo View Post
        Thank you bro..

        I am so scared right now..

        I googled on infection and complications after a coronary bypass and I had to close out the page... I couldnt read anymore..

        I am waiting on any word from my sister after they get down to Indy ..
        another thing, I would try not to google and read up too much on his condition, if your like me, it will make it worse and you will become a nervous wreck. Easier said then done of course
        Sittin on top of the world!

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        • #79
          Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

          Kemo, check at Social Security office in Anderson for benifits for your Dad. Also, Mike Carwash is opening soon in Anderson, goto http://www.mikesexpress.com/MikesHR/Positions.aspx?p=1 and fill out a resume. My thoughts and prayers with you, especially a fellow Andersonian (that a word?).
          Bambam

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          • #80
            Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

            here are their other opening, not just the new Anderson carwash.

            http://tbe.taleo.net/NA11/ats/career...SCARWASH&cws=1
            Bambam

            Follow me on Twitter @http://twitter.com/brockhubble

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            • #81
              Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

              Sorry to here about everything, I know it's hard to go through any health issues with family.

              I can't be much help, but i've heard on the radio that the IBM call center in Anderson is hiring 200 new jobs. It's a call center, so you'd be trouble shooting, but i'm pretty sure it's just basic computer knowledge. ACS is also hiring in the anderson area.

              I know call centers suck, but i think they start at $10 and hour

              Good luck on your interviews!

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              • #82
                Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                ok, so after being at St Vincents for last few days, dad is starting to feel better .. Apparently, just as I thought, they sent him home way to early.. They ended up draining a full bottle, and almost a half of fluid in his lung from the surgery..
                Probably from the breathing tubes and anasthetic I would imagine...

                So he got to come home today!

                How he is now compared to how he was a few days ago, is like night and day ...
                Thank you all for praying for my dad , with the way you all came together on here and showed me moral support , and a few, financial support.
                The gratitude my family and I have for you all , cannot be properly expressed, and really goes to show how great everyone here at Pacer's Digest is ..
                "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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                • #83
                  Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                  I'm glad that your Dad is feeling better.
                  Ash from Army of Darkness: Good...Bad...I'm the guy with the gun.

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                  • #84
                    Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                    Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                    ok, so after being at St Vincents for last few days, dad is starting to feel better .. Apparently, just as I thought, they sent him home way to early.. They ended up draining a full bottle, and almost a half of fluid in his lung from the surgery..
                    Probably from the breathing tubes and anasthetic I would imagine...

                    So he got to come home today!

                    How he is now compared to how he was a few days ago, is like night and day ...
                    Thank you all for praying for my dad , with the way you all came together on here and showed me moral support , and a few, financial support.
                    The gratitude my family and I have for you all , cannot be properly expressed, and really goes to show how great everyone here at Pacer's Digest is ..
                    Thata what we do for each other- PD Family
                    Sittin on top of the world!

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                    • #85
                      Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                      Originally posted by CableKC View Post
                      I'm glad that your Dad is feeling better.
                      Thanks CableKC ...

                      He about had a stress attack when he found out today, that his trucking company is with-holding his Christmas bonus..

                      Now what kind of heartless b@sterds do that to someone?
                      Knowing the financial situation our family is in, him going through cardiac rehabilitation , and that bonus being for CHRISTMAS!!

                      The hits just keep on rolling ..


                      Their "reasoning" was they were doing it to ensure he comes back after his 12 week medical leave..

                      Seems to me, that just makes him want to drive for someone else when he is able to and say the heck with them..


                      So ya , I have to drive him out to their business office next week when one of the bosses come back from vacation, so he can try and get them to give it to him..
                      Like he really needs this crap right now...

                      Well, I'm going with him , since he isnt allowed to drive at all for a month plus if they don't rectify the situation , they aren't gonna like what I have to say very well..

                      ... and they DON'T want me to start writing letters ..

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                      Last edited by Kemo; 11-19-2011, 07:56 PM.
                      "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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                      • #86
                        Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                        Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                        Thanks CableKC ...

                        He about had a stress attack when he found out today, that his trucking company is with-holding his Christmas bonus..

                        Now what kind of heartless b@sterds do that to someone?
                        Knowing the financial situation our family is in, him going through cardiac rehabilitation , and that bonus being for CHRISTMAS!!

                        The hits just keep on rolling ..


                        Their "reasoning" was they were doing it to ensure he comes back after his 12 week medical leave..

                        Seems to me, that just makes him want to drive for someone else when he is able to and say the heck with them..


                        So ya , I have to drive him out to their business office next week when one of the bosses come back from vacation, so he can try and get them to give it to him..
                        Like he really needs this crap right now...

                        Well, I'm going with him , since he isnt allowed to drive at all for a month plus if they don't rectify the situation , they aren't gonna like what I have to say very well..

                        ... and they DON'T want me to start writing letters ..

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                        Keep your cool so you don't complicate your dad's work situation. Let time take care of some of this and let the stress level subside a bit.

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                        • #87
                          Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                          I know speakout , you are right. But , it just burns me up ...
                          Last edited by Kemo; 11-19-2011, 08:20 PM.
                          "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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                          • #88
                            Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                            Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                            He about had a stress attack when he found out today, that his trucking company is with-holding his Christmas bonus..

                            Now what kind of heartless b@sterds do that to someone?
                            Knowing the financial situation our family is in, him going through cardiac rehabilitation , and that bonus being for CHRISTMAS!!

                            The hits just keep on rolling ..

                            .
                            Hang on for a second. Stress over the major things involving health; don't stress over this.

                            My wife was a payroll manager for 30 years. All companies have HR/Payroll policies. I can tell you that most companies do not award bonuses to employees on leave.

                            It sounds like either your father's company does award bonuses for employees on leave, or that they don't and have elected to award your father a bonus regardless. All that they ask is that he come back and work 1 day to show that he will continue his employment with them.

                            So, I really find your father's company to be commendable. More than likely, even though there policy may very well provide them with an out to not having to pay the bonus, they are going to pay him a bonus anyway.

                            So, I would not necessarily read into it that the company is heartless, when it is possible that just the opposite is the case.

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                            • #89
                              Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                              Thing is , he has been with them for around 5, maybe 6 years , perfect driving record, safety record. Policy is, an employee or driver has to be employed with them for at 6 months, and meet their criteria as far as miles driven, hours worked,overtime, and etc. .. and your bonus is determined on a combination of all those factors.. So it is EARNED .. not given ..

                              He should have got the christmas bonus, he worked for and earned yesterday on his last check of earnings.. So basically he went on leave cause he had the heart attack 2 days before that pay period in which employees get it .. He's been with them for over 5 years, and is one of their top long haul drivers.

                              This wasnt just the company being "nice" in giving Christmas bonus's ..
                              This is something that each employee works their as**s off for all year to be able to receive the payday after Thanksgiving. My dad is entitled to it , he earned it .. and worked his butt off to make sure it would be a pretty good sized bonus .. (around $400 to $500)

                              I am sorry but I disagree , I still think they are in the wrong..

                              See ,the way I take it ... the majority owner of Carter just recently put the wheels in motion in selling his remaining majority ownership percentage of Carter, to some Japanese named company.. can't think of name off hand ..
                              I think they are just cutting costs anyway they can before this aquisition which is supposed to happen sometime after the new year .

                              They started this summer with screwing the drivers over on layover pay..
                              They basically cut it right in half from $100 per day to only $50 per day ...that the driver is stuck in some far away state waiting on layover...

                              So they been sticking it to employees since the beginning of the summer when the rumors started of this company buyout.



                              But , I really thank you for your comment on your wife's experience , I just don't believe in my dad's case, what they are doing is right considering all the circumstances .
                              But again I appreciate what you had to say .. and of course you are right on not worrying about that stuff.. But sometimes that really is easier said than done ..
                              Last edited by Kemo; 11-19-2011, 10:28 PM.
                              "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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                              • #90
                                Re: My family is in a dire situation , need help ..

                                hey Kemo, keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm not an expert, but if you'd like, I'd be willing to take a look at your resume.
                                Peck is basically omniscient when it comes to understanding how the minds of Herb Simon and Kevin Pritchard work. I was a fool to ever question him and now feel deep shame for not understanding that this team believes in continuity above talent.

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