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  • #91
    Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

    Originally posted by Mackey_Rose View Post
    I don't think he should have been penalized at all, but just for perspective sake for those saying it's excessive, fining Kobe $100 grand, is like someone making $50,000 a year getting fined $185.
    I agree with many of your posts, but not this one. In fact, this is precisely what I disagree with about this fine. I don't believe that fines of any kind should be tied to how much money you make. WAY more than enough things are already tied to that. I'm tired of the concept that if you make more money the government and other monopolies like the NBA can force people to pay more. Why don't we all stay home and watch cable and live off the govment?

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    • #92
      Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

      Originally posted by Kstat View Post
      If it were a player dropping N-bombs on a referee, people would say 100K is not nearly enough. The point needs to be made.
      N-bombs and I'm sure there's other language, too. Look, Kobe got caught so he has to pay up. When you drive 80 or more, sometimes you get caught, sometimes you don't. But when you do, there's no denying it. I don't agree with that particular language, but being completely pragmatic, people needs to control themselves enough when they're in public arenas...at least.
      I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

      -Emiliano Zapata

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      • #93
        Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

        Originally posted by Kuq_e_Zi91 View Post
        This is a touchy subject, and one I understand isn't meant for this board, but I just felt the need to say that comparing the non four letter F word and the N word is absolutely ridiculous. It is not the same. Period.
        Explain, please.
        I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

        -Emiliano Zapata

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        • #94
          Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

          Originally posted by Kstat View Post
          The term n***er is not an exclusive insult to black people. Feel free to explain that to everyone you use that word against.
          I'm confused by your wording.

          If you're using the word against someone, then surely it's meant as an insult, no? Any non-insulting alternative definitions are irrelevant in that situation. On the other hand, I wouldn't expect a black person to be offended if I was using the word in a non-insulting manner, and I don't think they would be unless they wanted to be, in which case I'd say they're the one with the issue, not me.

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          • #95
            Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

            Originally posted by Thingfish View Post
            All I kept thinking while reading this thread was:

            http://www.flamewarriors.com/warriorshtm/weenie.htm


            Weenie is a very sensitive guy, and it angers and saddens him that everyone isn't just as sensitive as he. An admitted male feminist, Weenie is ever vigilant against anti-progressive attitudes. Though he seldom comes into personal contact with the working classes, he keenly feels the pain of their oppression nonetheless . Weenie's chief antagonists are Troglodyte, Evil Clown, Capitalista and sometimes Ideologue. Because of his natural petulance Weenie can easily be goaded into battle, but he is encumbered by a tendency to throw temper tantrums when severely pressed.
            Just keep perpetuating an anti-aware, pro-caveman world I guess.
            I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

            -Emiliano Zapata

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            • #96
              Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

              Originally posted by graphic-er View Post
              Actually it is, i know technically the word just means one who is ignorant, but it is exclusively meant in reference to blacks. Nobody in that era was going around calling Indians or Chinese people ******.

              You can't say the same about the word ***got. Its totally different. The world describes an emasculation of the male persona. A sissy if you will. Its like when you are a kid and you and your friends are crossing a busy street and one kid is scared to go. You would all chide him and call him a ***got. That does not mean you are calling him a gay. Its just that stereotypically gays exhibited behaviors that are considered emasculate.

              So one word was used to define a race for just being, the other was used to define behavioral patterns.
              So we'll just keep letting it go so that stereotype can continue being reinforced? I don't like either the term for either of the two signifieds.
              I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

              -Emiliano Zapata

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              • #97
                Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                Originally posted by BlueNGold View Post
                I agree with many of your posts, but not this one. In fact, this is precisely what I disagree with about this fine. I don't believe that fines of any kind should be tied to how much money you make. WAY more than enough things are already tied to that. I'm tired of the concept that if you make more money the government and other monopolies like the NBA can force people to pay more. Why don't we all stay home and watch cable and live off the govment?
                Also, the value of that 100K is the same no matter who has it. So overall I agree with your point.

                ... of course for consistency the fine could be a percentage of the contract... So a player making a 2 million could be levied the same fine... in percentage... for the same offense in the future....

                But to pull a random $100,000.00 number out of the air just strikes me as wrong and excessive.

                But again I go back to the point I tried to make earlier- Fine him for disrespecting game in an amount consistent with similar offenses.... not the word(s) he used. Let the PR hit he gets from that be the punishment and lesson for it.
                Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

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                "A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player. Losing yourself in the group, for the good of the group, that’s teamwork."

                -John Wooden

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                • #98
                  Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                  Originally posted by 90'sNBARocked View Post
                  The funny thing is growing up I was called the "N word" by my friends who called each other , and me the N word.

                  I would never say that to someone I dont know but the dudes who called me one , I would use the word back in the same context they used it

                  The word ***got though to me is universal. I dont even think , at least to me, it means gay

                  nowadays to me, ***got means, a soft guy, or just a plain dikhead
                  I may not agree, but for you to use ****** between friends is different that Kobe using it publicly against a ref. That's precisely the point, you wouldn't have used ****** with someone who was not very close. That's my issue here. Same as the poster who talked about using any of these potentially derogatory terms in a professional, or otherwise inappropriate context.
                  I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                  -Emiliano Zapata

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                  • #99
                    Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                    Originally posted by D-BONE View Post
                    I may not agree, but for you to use ****** between friends is different that Kobe using it publicly against a ref. That's precisely the point, you wouldn't have used ****** with someone who was not very close. That's my issue here. Same as the poster who talked about using any of these potentially derogatory terms in a professional, or otherwise inappropriate context.
                    He didn't scream it in his face he said it from far away while on the bench I doubt that the ref even heard him.

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                    • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                      Originally posted by Jared Sullinger View Post
                      Context is key. When words have multiple meanings, we must look at the context in order to determine the specific usage.

                      Knowing that the word f***** is used both as a slur for homosexual males and as a term roughly synonymous with "idiot," when looking at the context in which Kobe used it (a referee he believed made a bad call), it seems obvious to me that it was the latter. He could've been more tactful in his choice of word as to not offend the willfully offended, yes, but like he said, it was in the heat of the moment. People usually don't take the time to choose their words wisely in such emotional situations.

                      Perhaps those smearing Mamba with the label of "homophobe" (a term that I'd argue, itself, has become a slur) should be the ones issuing the apologies?
                      Yes, context is key. Kobe's a professional in the public eye insulting another person in his profession. Plus it's being nationally broadcast. Kobe needs to learn to control his temper and how he expresses it. That's the point. Kobe, of all people, should know better.
                      I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                      -Emiliano Zapata

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                      • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                        Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
                        Can I say this here - it has little to do with this topic. My brother and I roomed together for 3 years, It was when I was in the 1st, 2nd and 3rd grade. he was 3 years older than me .

                        One night I guess I was goofing around and being a pain (maybe I was up listening to a Pacers game) but he wanted to go to sleep, so he said "take off your clothes and get in bed you f** without the ot. of course at the time I had no idea nor did he that what he said had any meaning besides - be quiet and go to sleep.
                        Sure, but Kobe's a grown man.
                        I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                        -Emiliano Zapata

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                        • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                          Originally posted by D-BONE View Post
                          Yes, context is key. Kobe's a professional in the public eye insulting another person in his profession. Plus it's being nationally broadcast. Kobe needs to learn to control his temper and how he expresses it. That's the point. Kobe, of all people, should know better.
                          Wow, it seems as though some people have never played a game of basketball to know how emotional it gets. A swear is a swear I don't care if he called him a m***** f***** or a n***** or a fa**** it was in the heat of the game and I seriously doubt he walks around calling people it.

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                          • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                            Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                            Missed. The. Point.

                            How shocking you would.

                            EDIT: Is it any less offensive if I just change out the slur for a more direct name?

                            I guess Tosh's joke about his idea that the NCAA should give one more point to white players who score a basket isn't racist, because he didn't use the the N-word in it.....

                            I mean, his reasoning behind the idea is to let the other black players know that the white man will still be worth more and to let the white players know that they still have value in athletics.

                            But NOOOO, that's not racist at all. There's no slur in the joke!!!!!
                            Kobe's not a comedian. Whether it's justifiable or not, some forms of art and entertainment are allowed more leeway in terms of taboo subjects. Kobe just needs to control himself. He know what the limits are.
                            I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                            -Emiliano Zapata

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                            • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                              Originally posted by graphic-er View Post
                              This is very true, I've always felt that minorities are too quick to act like victims of nothing but words, but they do not exhibit the same amount of political correctness the expect towards themselves.
                              Never had a a minority call me a cracker to my face. If they did, I would be disappointed.

                              EDIT: Wouldn't dwell on it, but would be disappointed.
                              Last edited by D-BONE; 04-14-2011, 07:54 PM.
                              I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                              -Emiliano Zapata

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                              • Re: Kobe Fined 100k for Gay Slur

                                Originally posted by MarvelousMarvin View Post
                                Wow, it seems as though some people have never played a game of basketball to know how emotional it gets. A swear is a swear I don't care if he called him a m***** f***** or a n***** or a fa**** it was in the heat of the game and I seriously doubt he walks around calling people it.
                                So I'm in my office at work, I'm pissed at a coworker I don't get along with, and somebody walks in just as I'm venting about the ****ing ***got. I or anyone else wouldn't be in hot water if reported? I know people are going back and forth in the hall and could be stopping in at any point. It's professionalism and common courtesy. Know your surroundings. I'm must talking common sense here.
                                I'd rather die standing up than live on my knees.

                                -Emiliano Zapata

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