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  • Re: Hardaway's Comments on Homosexuality

    But forgiven


    It still goes back to the original post. No one is saying that just because he is gay, he's thrown into hell for the rest of eternity, no matter what he does.

    His sin carries just as much weight as the rest of them, and he still has the New Covenant available to him, if he already hasn't taken part.
    Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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      and I have read interpretations of thos lines about "put to death" and such as meaning losing your eternal soul. Condemnation to Hell if you will.
      also:

      I'm paraphrasing the quote that says... "Cast not thy seed upon the ground nor in the belly of a whore." as meaning no masturbation, no fornication. Why not? Again it is putting your desires above those of God.
      Ever notice how friendly folks are at a shootin' range??.

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        Originally posted by Since86 View Post
        "Speaking against the Holy Sprit" is saying that you deny that Jesus was the Son of Christ, and that he died for our sins.
        Sorry I split it up but I had to restart my computer before finishing. I have to disagree with what you said. Look at the verse again.

        "And so I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come."

        The holy spirit is a connection between God and us and to permanently deny the graces or God himself acting through the HS cannot be forgiven because you are rejecting the forgiveness. The best I heard as a test was if you are asking yourself if you are rejecting the Holy Spirit, then chances are really good that you are not.
        Originally posted by Natston;n3510291
        I want the people to know that they still have 2 out of the 3 T.J.s working for them, and that ain't bad...

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          Originally posted by Since86 View Post
          But forgiven
          But can be lost. As the parable illustrates that we as sinners of just about everything can lose our forgiveness by going and condemning a gay man because he is gay.
          Originally posted by Natston;n3510291
          I want the people to know that they still have 2 out of the 3 T.J.s working for them, and that ain't bad...

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            Originally posted by naturallystoned View Post
            But can be lost. As the parable illustrates that we as sinners of just about everything can lose our forgiveness by going and condemning a gay man because he is gay.
            Where does it say he will be turned away from Heaven?

            The most famous Bible passage says the exact opposite of what you're saying.

            Originally posted by John 3
            16"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,[a] that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
            Which is followed by this
            Originally posted by John 3
            17For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son.[g] 19This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. 20Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God."[h]
            Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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              Originally posted by Will Galen View Post
              He says he will give everlasting life to those obeying him. Not to those who only obey went THEY want to.
              So do you willingly sin or not?

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                Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                There is no unforgivable sin for a Christian. There is an unforgivable sin, in a nonbeliever, and that is not believing.

                "Speaking against the Holy Sprit" is saying that you deny that Jesus was the Son of Christ, and that he died for our sins.
                Okay I understand you now although I disagree. The scripture you quoted clearly says you can speak against Christ.

                "31And so I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. 32Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come."
                Matthew 12:31-32 NIVMatthew 12:31-32 NIV

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                  I don't disagree as what you pointed out is the foundation for Christian salvation however there are verses that certainly point out that you there is not an assurance of salvation.

                  Consider Romans 11:22

                  Consider therefore the kindness and sternness of God: sternness to those who fell, but kindness to you, provided that you continue in his kindness. Otherwise, you also will be cut off.

                  Or 2 Peter 2:20-21

                  If they have escaped the corruption of the world by knowing our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and are again entangled in it and overcome, they are worse off at the end than they were at the beginning. It would have been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than to have known it and then to turn their backs on the sacred command that was passed on to them.

                  Hebrews 10:26-29

                  If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God. Anyone who rejected the law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished who has trampled the Son of God under foot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the Spirit of grace?


                  Matt. 7:21

                  "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.


                  I can go on and on. The point is, if all we have to do is "accept Jesus as our personal Lord and Savior", then that final judgement that we keep hearing about is trivial at best.
                  Originally posted by Natston;n3510291
                  I want the people to know that they still have 2 out of the 3 T.J.s working for them, and that ain't bad...

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                    Originally posted by Hicks View Post
                    So do you willingly sin or not?
                    The best answer I can give is to echo the Apostle Paul. (Romans 7:21-25) 21 I find, then, this law in my case: that when I wish to do what is right, what is bad is present with me. 22 I really delight in the law of God according to the man I am within, 23 but I behold in my members another law warring against the law of my mind and leading me captive to sin?s law that is in my members. 24 Miserable man that I am! Who will rescue me from the body undergoing this death? 25 Thanks to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So, then, with [my] mind I myself am a slave to God?s law, but with [my] flesh to sin?s law.

                    That pretty much sums it up for everyone trying to obey God.

                    I spoke before about the Israelites agreeing to be God's nation or people. The laws they were given, the bible explains, was a tutor leading to Christ.

                    What's that mean?

                    It means they has exact rules/laws laid out in front of them. They didn't have any doubts about what was right or wrong, still they couldn't keep them because they, the Israelites, were imperfect, having inherited that imperfection from Adam.

                    Adam, before he sinned was a perfect man, no children were born to Adam and Eve before they sinned, thus mankind needed a redeemer or someone to ransom them. That, the bible explains took a corresponding sacrifice. That's why Christ Jesus had to die. It took another perfect man to ransom mankind from sin and death. He gave up his life so that we might live.

                    Thus God provided a set of rules and laws for mankind that none, (but one) could keep. Thus those laws were a tutor leading to Christ.

                    Thus Christ Jesus died so that Adam's offspring can have a chance at what Adam lost for us. The chance for everlasting life.

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                      According to Brian Flemming -
                      "Jesus was a great guy! He'd forgive you for anything. Lying, murder, Internet pornography, anything. He'd even forgive you for speaking against Jesus himself. But apparently just to make things interesting, Jesus did add one extra rule to the mix. There actually is one unforgivable sin: denial of the Holy Spirit. If you do that, you are eternally damned. It says so right there in the Bible, twice. It's a doubly infallible rule. Deny the Holy Spirit and you can never, ever, go anywhere but Hell. And as luck would have it, the Holy Spirit is the easiest thing in the entire Doctrine to doubt. God is out of your reach, Jesus was two thousand years ago, but the Holy Spirit is with you, right here, right now, so you'd better really actually feel the Holy Spirit. You can't deny it in your thoughts, because Jesus is *in* your thoughts. And if your mind starts to wander to the fact that there's no more evidence for this Holy Spirit than there is for the existence of unicorns? Guess what you may have done. The greatest crime in fundamentalist Christianity is to think. And when I was a Village Christian, I was terrified that I'd accidentally done this."
                      "Ever wonder what it's like to wonder what it's like to wonder, they get up out of bed but can't awaken from their slumber, they know what they've been told by those who know what they've been told, you see this hand me down knowledge generated ages ago, and I know what they've been told because I've been told the same thing, I had to broaden my horizons to expand on greater things..." Many Styles

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                        Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                        Unforgivable means you won't be forgiven no matter what you do. If you ask for forgiveness, and recieve it, how is it unforgivable?
                        You've missed my point - one of them anyway since I went on a tangent because I think I've been in on this discussion three times in the last year on this board.

                        Someone who is gay and engaging in intimate relations with a person of the same sex can hardly be a person who is repentant. He or she won't be forgiven unless they give up their lifestyle and repent.

                        Once you get to the base assumption that being gay is a sin anyway. The Bible doesn't leave much doubt of that. Neither does most of Christianity.

                        The question then becomes, is being gay a level of sinful behavior which God would send someone to hell for?
                        The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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                          Originally posted by DisplacedKnick View Post
                          You've missed my point - one of them anyway since I went on a tangent because I think I've been in on this discussion three times in the last year on this board.

                          Someone who is gay and engaging in intimate relations with a person of the same sex can hardly be a person who is repentant. He or she won't be forgiven unless they give up their lifestyle and repent.

                          Once you get to the base assumption that being gay is a sin anyway. The Bible doesn't leave much doubt of that. Neither does most of Christianity.

                          The question then becomes, is being gay a level of sinful behavior which God would send someone to hell for?

                          God's forgiveness and grace is never-ending and is boundless. God forgives sin - it is washed away - he doesn't keep a record of it - it is forgotten. If someone truly accepts Jesus as their personal lord and savior, believes Jesus is God. Technically once a person does that with all their heart - and God will know if it is sincere - that person is guaranteed eternal life in heaven. I don't care if they kill ten people - I don't care what they do - heaven is guarenteed.

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                            Originally posted by Unclebuck View Post
                            God's forgiveness and grace is never-ending and is boundless. God forgives sin - it is washed away - he doesn't keep a record of it - it is forgotten. If someone truly accepts Jesus as their personal lord and savior, believes Jesus is God. Technically once a person does that with all their heart - and God will know if it is sincere - that person is guaranteed eternal life in heaven. I don't care if they kill ten people - I don't care what they do - heaven is guarenteed.
                            Not according to Catholics as well as various other versions of Christianity.

                            Dogma is wonderful thing.
                            The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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                              Originally posted by DisplacedKnick View Post
                              Not according to Catholics as well as various other versions of Christianity.

                              Dogma is wonderful thing.
                              I realize that, I'm only speaking for what I believe.

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                                Originally posted by Will Galen View Post
                                I don't understand you here. You say there is no unforgivable sin, and then you quote a scripture that shows there is an unforgivable sin. Explain your thinking here please!
                                i once heard a Christian teacher give his idea of the "unforgivable sin". he felt that "the blasphemy of the holy spirit" was when a person is struggling with sin in his/her life (all of us), and that person can feel God working on their heart and wanting them to change, but that person continually blows off those feelings of guilt knowing that they need to change. and thats where sin becomes unforgivable, when God/His Holy Spirit (however you want to put it) is pushed away continually. kinda like God was doing His part but that person wouldn't meet Him halfway, so to speak. i can't explain it as well as the teacher did.

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