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  • Re: Jason Collins about to sign 10 day contract with Nets expected to start tonight vs Lakers

    Originally posted by Kstat View Post
    I add stuff to avoid cramming posts together. I do not ever subtract.

    Aside from that, 4th and 5th grade are elementary...I recall plenty of diagrams from those classes in sex ed.

    I'd also add that religious beliefs (and therefore abstinence) have even less business being taught in schools than homosexuality.
    fair enough..

    So they should teach it is A-OK to have sex to elementary school children k-6 (and not abstinence, abstinence even less-so than homosexuality)? ??? WOW
    Last edited by Kemo; 02-24-2014, 02:52 AM.
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      Originally posted by Kemo View Post
      fair enough..

      So they should teach it is A-OK to have sex to elementary school children k-6 (and not abstinence, abstinence even less-so than homosexuality)? ??? WOW
      Again, the article said the youngest children would be taught not to bully kids that look or act differently. The actual topic of homosexuality wouldn't be addressed until 5th grade, which is absolutely appropriate, considering that's the same age we address heterosexuality.

      Sexuality is a reality. Kids develop and need someone to explain to them what's happening to them. Sex ed, as laughably limited as it is, is important. It's also important to explain to the one or two kids in the class that are slowly discovering that they are attracted to the same sex that it isn't something to be ashamed of.

      Abstinence, on the other hand, is a belief. A parent may choose to preach that, just like they may preach politics or religion, but schools shouldn't be trying to train students in abstinence. Should they teach the risks and dangers of sex? Absolutely. Sex ed is a platform to inform, not to preach.
      Last edited by Kstat; 02-24-2014, 03:04 AM.

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      • Re: Jason Collins about to sign 10 day contract with Nets expected to start tonight vs Lakers

        I feel like I signed a 10-day contract with this thread.
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          Originally posted by AesopRockOn View Post
          I feel like I signed a 10-day contract with this thread.
          QUOTE OF THE DAY!!! You just WON teh internets
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            Originally posted by Kstat View Post
            Again, the article said the youngest children would be thought not to bully kids that look or act differently. The actual topic of homosexuality wouldn't be addressed until 5th grade, which is absolutely appropriate, considering that's the same age we address heterosexuality.

            Sexuality is a reality. Kids develop and need someone to explain to them what's happening to them. Sex ed, as laughably limited as it is, is important. It's also important to explain to the one or two kids in the class that are slowly discovering that they are attracted to the same sex that it isn't something to be ashamed of.

            Abstinence, on the other hand, is a belief. A parent may choose to preach that, just like they may preach politics or religion, but schools shouldn't be trying to train students in abstinence. Should they teach the risks and dangers of sex? Absolutely. Sex ed is a platform to inform, not to preach.
            Thing is , it is NOT the federal govt... thus the schools business to teach our kids about the birds and the bees and ESPECIALLY at such a young age . It is the parent's job to do that... Then in 7th grade health class they will learn the biology of procreation and etc.. That is my gripe...
            "Political Correctness is a doctrine fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end."

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              Originally posted by Kstat View Post
              Sexuality is a reality. Kids develop and need someone to explain to them what's happening to them. Sex ed, as laughably limited as it is, is important. It's also important to explain to the one or two kids in the class that are slowly discovering that they are attracted to the same sex that it isn't something to be ashamed of.

              Abstinence, on the other hand, is a belief. A parent may choose to preach that, just like they may preach politics or religion, but schools shouldn't be trying to train students in abstinence. Should they teach the risks and dangers of sex? Absolutely. Sex ed is a platform to inform, not to preach.
              Disagree, and have had a difficult time not jumping into the fray here... Sex is something that need not be taught in school to young children, and especially if I as a parent do not wish to subject my children through it... It should especally not be tought that homosexuality is ok... Teachers do not say that stealing is ok, nor is murder, so I dont feel that they have a right to teach that any sin is OK... That is my right as a parent...

              Abstinence is not just a beliefe, it is no less a practice than taking birth control or using condoms... If you are going to teach a child objectively, then they need to be taught both sides of the story, not the side that simply pushes one agenda over another... It is not up to a parent to "preach" this, rather to help guide them to become the best adults that they can be... If you want to subject your child to that, fine it is your right, and I am not one to take that away... But because you want your child subjected to it does not mean that every other child need be as well...
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                Originally posted by bballpacen View Post
                Disagree, and have had a difficult time not jumping into the fray here... Sex is something that need not be taught in school to young children, and especially if I as a parent do not wish to subject my children through it... It should especally not be tought that homosexuality is ok... Teachers do not say that stealing is ok, nor is murder, so I dont feel that they have a right to teach that any sin is OK... That is my right as a parent...

                Abstinence is not just a beliefe, it is no less a practice than taking birth control or using condoms... If you are going to teach a child objectively, then they need to be taught both sides of the story, not the side that simply pushes one agenda over another... It is not up to a parent to "preach" this, rather to help guide them to become the best adults that they can be... If you want to subject your child to that, fine it is your right, and I am not one to take that away... But because you want your child subjected to it does not mean that every other child need be as well...
                Okay here... First part.

                A lot of gay kids wind up killing themselves before they graduate because no one at any point explained to them that they weren't "broken." It's an epidemic and needs to stop.

                Sins are a religious topic. It's your right to teach your kid your religion, but unless you home school, you're not pushing that into public schools, nor should you.

                Second part. Abstinence is a belief. Condoms are a tool. There's a difference. Schools should not encourage nor discourage kids during sex ed, they should inform, so that as they get older they can make responsible, informed decisions. By informing a class of the dangers and drawbacks of sex, they are essentially providing the case for abstinence. All that's left out is a religious aspect that has no business in public schools.
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                  Originally posted by Kstat View Post
                  Okay here... First part.

                  A lot of gay kids wind up killing themselves before they graduate because no one at any point explained to them that they weren't "broken." It's an epicpdemic and needs to stop.

                  Sins are a religious topic. It's your right to teach your kid your religion, but unless you home school, you're not pushing that into public schools, nor should you.

                  Second part. Abstinence is a belief. Condoms are a tool. There's a difference. Schools should not encourage nor discourage kids during sex ed, they should inform, so that as they get older they can make responsible, informed decisions.
                  A. Do you have stats to back these up, where these kids are aware enough to truely be gay?? I would wager that this "a lot of" statistic that you speak of simply cannot be proven/disproven and is mostly speculation.

                  B. Sin is taught in schools, but it is not called sin... My son, who is in the second grade has been dealing with an issue where he is stealing from his classmates... The school does not appreciate that saying that it is "not nice"... Same with lying, same with cheating, same with killing and even pretend killing... I dont mind this being taught, but I will concede your point, because I know there are parents out there who dont want their child subjected to this for some bizarro reason...

                  C. Abstinance is most certainly a practice... There are many non-religious individuals who are not sexually active, nor are they sexually attractive to either sex... Not certain what the name or cause of these types of disorders are, but if we are going to be all inclusive as we are, should we not include saying that abstinance is ok, so these kids dont commit suicide?? Further, if they are educating them and NOT discussing abstinance, then they are encouraging them simply by providing one path if you will, encouragement... And you just mentined that we should not do either...
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                    Originally posted by bballpacen View Post
                    A. Do you have stats to back these up, where these kids are aware enough to truely be gay?? I would wager that this "a lot of" statistic that you speak of simply cannot be proven/disproven and is mostly speculation.

                    B. Sin is taught in schools, but it is not called sin... My son, who is in the second grade has been dealing with an issue where he is stealing from his classmates... The school does not appreciate that saying that it is "not nice"... Same with lying, same with cheating, same with killing and even pretend killing... I dont mind this being taught, but I will concede your point, because I know there are parents out there who dont want their child subjected to this for some bizarro reason...

                    C. Abstinance is most certainly a practice... There are many non-religious individuals who are not sexually active, nor are they sexually attractive to either sex... Not certain what the name or cause of these types of disorders are, but if we are going to be all inclusive as we are, should we not include saying that abstinance is ok, so these kids dont commit suicide?? Further, if they are educating them and NOT discussing abstinance, then they are encouraging them simply by providing one path if you will, encouragement... And you just mentined that we should not do either...
                    A. My best friend growing up was gay. He wasn't driven quite that far, but I know for a fact he was tormented by it. The biggest regret in my life is that I didn't see it sooner.

                    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide...ts_and_studies

                    Some very good info there.

                    U.S. government study, titled Report of the Secretary's Task Force on Youth Suicide, published in 1989, found that LGBT youth are four times more likely to attempt suicide than other young people.
                    Apparently the number has gone up since 1989:
                    NEW YORK, April 29, 2011 (LifeSiteNews.com) - Teens who self-identify as homosexual are five times more likely than their heterosexual counterparts to attempt suicide, according to a study released last week.
                    B. They're discouraged because they are against the law. Homosexuality is not, thankfully.

                    C. Addressed in my earlier edit. By informing students of the risks of sex, you're essentially giving that platform for abstinence without the religion.
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                      Originally posted by Kstat View Post
                      A. My best friend growing up was gay. He wasn't driven quite that far, but I know for a fact he was tormented by it. The biggest regret in my life is that I didn't see it sooner.

                      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide...ts_and_studies

                      Some very good info there.



                      B. They're discouraged because they are against the law. Homosexuality is not, thankfully.

                      C. Addressed in my earlier edit. By informing students of the risks of sex, you're essentially giving that platform for abstinence without the religion.
                      A. Again, those are estimations, not proven with numbers... I will concede that the suicide rate is more than likely higher for gay kids, but it is also higher in broken family homes... The point being I would bet there are other issues that lead to suicide that may or may not be in conjuction with confusion on sexuality...

                      B. Fair, but they were made illegal because they were sin... Without injecting my religious views, I will simply say I disagree...

                      C. You dont have to teach abstinance with a religious theme... You simply tell them it is ok to abstain, and there is nothing wrong with that as well... Just because you teach the children about STDs and late night trips to Taco Bell, does not give them a platform for abstinance... Unless you tell the kids that abstinance is an option, and valid practice, then you are not presenting both sides to the argument, and therefore are swaying the kids one way...
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                      • Re: Jason Collins about to sign 10 day contract with Nets expected to start tonight vs Lakers

                        Question to you....mainly for clarification.

                        You said this:

                        Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                        I have actually seen the curriculum it is talking about where they were showing actual diagrams on how 2 people , including homosexuals have sex....to kids in elementary school.
                        Maybe it is due to poor wording on your part....but is the point that you have here that you have obvious concerns about teaching Sex education of any sort ( whether it be about Homo or Hetero-sexuality ) to kids in Elementary School?

                        I assume that you'd be equally offended if the curriculum had included actual diagrams of 2 people of the opposite ( as opposed to the same ) sex having sex.

                        The reason I say this is that suggesting that being against the inclusion of ANY type of Sex Ed ( whether it be in regards to homosexual or heterosexual sex ed ) to Elementary school kids is different than simply suggesting that there should be NO education about homosexuality at all ( due to personal belief ).

                        Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                        and Cablekc , yes I was being sarcastic.. only because here we have a sitting president who doesn't honor our war veterans at Arlington, totally snubs his nose at every tradition that has been a yearly staple at the White House... yet on the news you see a picture of Michelle Obama with Jason Collins with a quote from her how she is honoring him that day at the White House, and she is soooo proud of him for being so "brave" as she put it for coming out ... That just totally blew me away.... So Collins is brave and deserves to be honored, but our war veterans aren't?
                        I'm not going to delve into the majority of your post here...as most of what you have suggested is skewed more towards talking points from Faux News.

                        The only part that I would comment on is that I do think that Collins coming out is "Brave". Brave...not in the poor worded analogy that you give.....but "Brave" in the sense that doing so in such a public manner isn't easy for any Homosexual nor something that should be considered trivial by any means.

                        To be fair...ignoring what he did entirely....would Teams have likely considered signing him at this stage in his career even if he didn't come out? Probably not....as he is a borderline "End of the Bench" at this point in his career that can serve as a Healthy Big Man that can defend the paint Type of Role Player on any Team. But I am fairly confident that some Teams will now ( although I think that they shouldn't ) take this into consideration ( how it will be handled from a PR perspective, could it affect the Locker room? etc. ) when it comes to signing him or not to a contract. He didn't have to add that consideration to his "resume".....but he chose to....maybe to get publicity as much as to bring greater awareness of homosexuality in Professional sports. But whatever the reason, I ( and Michelle Obama ) do applaud him for doing this.
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                          Who needs a time machine back to the 1950s when you have this thread?

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                            Originally posted by Kstat View Post
                            Second part. Abstinence is a belief. Condoms are a tool. There's a difference. Schools should not encourage nor discourage kids during sex ed, they should inform, so that as they get older they can make responsible, informed decisions. By informing a class of the dangers and drawbacks of sex, they are essentially providing the case for abstinence. All that's left out is a religious aspect that has no business in public schools.
                            I agree with nearly everything but I think you are discarding abstinence because of abstinence-ONLY "education".

                            I do NOT believe in "abstinence-ONLY" sexual education. However, I DO believe that we fail if we don't at least let kids know that abstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100% effective. EVERY OTHER TOOL has failure rates, and when they are old enough to assess those risks they should already know about them.

                            Failing to talk openly about abstinence is as much of a disservice to pre-teens as failing to talk openly about any other form of birth control.
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                            • Re: Jason Collins about to sign 10 day contract with Nets expected to start tonight vs Lakers

                              Originally posted by BillS View Post
                              I agree with nearly everything but I think you are discarding abstinence because of abstinence-ONLY "education".

                              I do NOT believe in "abstinence-ONLY" sexual education. However, I DO believe that we fail if we don't at least let kids know that abstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100% effective. EVERY OTHER TOOL has failure rates, and when they are old enough to assess those risks they should already know about them.

                              Failing to talk openly about abstinence is as much of a disservice to pre-teens as failing to talk openly about any other form of birth control.
                              You really think kids need to be told that the only sure-fire way to avoid the complications and consequences of sex is to not have sex?

                              I mean, there's no harm in that, but really?

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                              • Re: Jason Collins about to sign 10 day contract with Nets expected to start tonight vs Lakers

                                Originally posted by Kemo View Post
                                no I am NOT afraid of gays lmao.. I don't even dislike them...matter of fact I have a family member who is ... but I DO dislike their behavior.. and yes I find their sexual behavior "SICKENING AND ABHORRENT" .......... BEHAVIOR..... stop putting words in my mouth, I said BEHAVIOR... you don't like it lump it ...... since it seems I have to "lump it" by hearing all this praise for all these brave souls who come out the closet ...

                                And yes, when our kids are being taught in ELEMENTARY SCHOOL , for instance, how 2 guys butt humping each other is a perfectly A-OK and it is A-OK for them to "experiment" .. YEA SICKENING AND ABHORRENT BEHAVIOR..... Have you seen the stuff they are teaching kids as early as 1st and 2nd grade in some of these schools? Sorry , but tolerance AND ABSTINENCE should be taught ............NOT a how-to guide in indoctrinating young children in the ways of homosexuality...
                                What schools have you been going into


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