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Rule #1

Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

If you see a problem that we haven't addressed, the best and most appropriate course for a forum member to take here is to look over to the left of the post in question. See underneath that poster's name, avatar, and other info, down where there's a little triangle with an exclamation point (!) in it? Click that. That allows you to report the post to the admins so we can definitely notice it and give it a look to see what we feel we should do about it. Beyond that, obviously it's human nature sometimes to want to speak up to the poster in question who has bothered you, but we would ask that you try to refrain from doing so because quite often what happens is two or more posters all start going back and forth about the original offending post, and suddenly the entire thread is off topic or otherwise derailed. So while the urge to police it yourself is understandable, it's best to just report it to us and let us handle it. Thank you!

All of the above is going to be subject to a case by case basis, but generally and broadly speaking, this should give everyone a pretty good idea of how things will typically / most often be handled.

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If this is done the wrong way, those comments will be deleted, and if it's a repeating problem then it may also receive an infraction as well.

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Regarding infractions, currently they carry a value of one point each, and that point will expire in 31 days. If at any point a poster is carrying three points at the same time, that poster will be suspended until the oldest of the three points expires.

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In Loving Memory

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  • In Loving Memory

    I lost my best friend Jack today at 5:48 pm to a Hip Displacia. We had to put him down due to being too much pain... He was the best dog anyone could ask for and he will be deeply missed.

    Jackdog (2000-2011)


    Last edited by Constellations; 05-27-2011, 03:38 AM.
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    I am truly sorry. I have 3 beagles, one whose name is also Jack. I consider them a part of family no different than anyone.
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      I'm sorry about your loss buddy. Losing a good dog is a tough one.

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        I am very sorry to hear that. There is nothing more special than a good dog. I have a 14 year old golden retriever who obviously doesn't have an abundance of time left and I know I'll be an absolute wreck when she goes. Again, very sorry to hear this.

        Why is it that dogs have such short lifespans when other creatures can live for decades? It's just not fair.
        Last edited by Sollozzo; 05-27-2011, 12:13 AM.

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          Sorry to hear that. It hurts to lose a friend and pets can be one of your most loyal friends... basically another member of your family.
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            I'm sorry for your less.

            Brings back bad memories. We got Abby, a basset/beagle mix, before I started 1st grade. I had to carry her out to the middle of the minivan (her back legs were pretty much failing) in early 2005, my third year in college, to take her to her final trip to the vet. I just sat with her and kept feeding her a single froot loop at a time to snack on during the ride and then right up until the vet's shot put her out forever.... That memory still kills me..... I'm fighting back tears right now.

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              Originally posted by Hicks View Post


              I'm sorry for your less.

              Brings back bad memories. We got Abby, a basset/beagle mix, before I started 1st grade. I had to carry her out to the middle of the minivan (her back legs were pretty much failing) in early 2005, my third year in college, to take her to her final trip to the vet. I just sat with her and kept feeding her a single froot loop at a time to snack on during the ride and then right up until the vet's shot put her out forever.... That memory still kills me..... I'm fighting back tears right now.


              Just reading that about made me tear up - can't imagine how painful that must have been for you. When you have an extremely old dog like I do, these sort of discussions really bum you out. I almost didn't watch "Marley and Me" for that reason.

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                Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
                Just reading that about made me tear up - can't imagine how painful that must have been for you. When you have an extremely old dog like I do, these sort of discussions really bum you out. I almost didn't watch "Marley and Me" for that reason.
                Ya my dog is young but just cant take things for granted when you have a good dog gotta cherish all the good times with your best friend because life is short.

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                  I'm sorry to hear of your loss. The only thing worse is not being around to comfort the dog and be there during the painful but humane process. I was away at college when our family pet died, and the task fell to my parents and siblings. I still relive the painful call I received at school with the bad news.

                  I know there is no replacing a cherised pet, but I hope that when the time comes and you are ready, you will consider adopting a rescue dog. I have one now, a real junk yard dog. She needed us as much as we needed her and often rekindles the fond memory of the friend that I lost many years ago.

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                    Originally posted by joeyd View Post
                    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. The only thing worse is not being around to comfort the dog and be there during the painful but humane process. I was away at college when our family pet died, and the task fell to my parents and siblings. I still relive the painful call I received at school with the bad news.

                    I know there is no replacing a cherised pet, but I hope that when the time comes and you are ready, you will consider adopting a rescue dog. I have one now, a real junk yard dog. She needed us as much as we needed her and often rekindles the fond memory of the friend that I lost many years ago.
                    Ya I have a shelter dog they make the best dogs no doubt in my mind.

                    the bold part holds very true got mine a day before she was set to be put down due to over crowding. Then she had a infection due to the shelter and all the dogs. Took awhile to get her back to health but she is all you could want in a dog.

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                      Sorry man. I lost my dog of 14 years to something similar about 3 months ago. Had to do the whole last-vet-visit thing, too. It still isn't the same around the house.

                      Agree on the rescue dog thing. Good advice.
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                        Just wanted to thank everybody for their concerns and sharing their losses as well.

                        Jack was so special to me. I was lucky to have owned him, he really was amazing. I still get teared up thinking about him. I have his collar on my key-chain and it gets me every time.

                        I just remember hugging him the last time and him looking up at me with that "What's wrong" face. I just can't take the feeling that when he knows he's going into the vet, but he just doesn't know that he isn't coming out... I'll miss hearing his collar jingle when he's making his rounds in the house. I'll miss being in the kitchen grabbing some chips or some bag that makes a ripple noise and instantly I hear the plop of him jumping off the bed and coming to raid the kitchen for scraps. I'm gonna miss his scared faces when I'm yelling at the T.V. during Pacers games. I'm gonna miss him scratching the front door when he needs to go out.

                        He will be missed deeply.
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                          I'm very sorry for your loss.

                          Even though it's been probably 8 or 9 years, when I lost my Shetland Sheepdog, I was an absolute wreck. One of the few times I've literally just sat there and bawled my eyes out (A few other times for loss of close family members). I loved that dog like nothing you could imagine, and he was as much a part of the family as anybody else.

                          Currently, I've got 2 dogs. We found one in Meijer and took her because they would've sent her to have her put down. She's one of the sweetest dogs that you could imagine.

                          The other dog we adopted through Sheltie rescue and he's de-barked. Again, one of the sweetest dogs you could imagine.

                          They're now 9 and 11 years old so time is obviously on the down swing. When that time comes, I'm more than positive I'll once again revert back to being an absolute wreck. I love those two like crazy.

                          Again, I'm terribly terribly sorry for your loss. It's hard, but just try to remember that they're in a better place and the suffering is over.
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                            Hip Displacia is horrible. My parents had to put down one of their collies because of it. It really hit me because he grew up with me through my teenage years.

                            I am sorry for your loss. A lot of people do not get how much a loss of a pet can hit someone. Just remember all of the good times you had with Jack.

                            I have a shi tzu who is only three and is a big spoiled brat. lol

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                              I am so sorry for your loss. I know the feeling.

                              Losing a pet is one of the most difficult things anyone can go through.

                              Hope all gets better soon.

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