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  • #46
    Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

    Originally posted by indypacerfan View Post
    Some of you folks are pathetic. It doesn't mean Tyler is an a** because he's shy and has trouble dealing with people in certain situations. There are many people in the world like that. I am one of them. In certain company, I'm sure he's warm and outgoing with people. Maybe he just doesn't like chumming it up in an autograph line with hundreds of people he doesn't know. Just because he has a 'slamming girlfriend' doesn't change this fact. Stop being judgmental when you have no idea really about anything .
    Sorry, but when Tyler is at a PS&E function, he needs to be as upbeat and positive as he possibly can be.

    That's part of his JOB.

    If you approach him away from Conseco, and the Pacers, when he's out for dinner or something then that's one thing. He's on his own time. But when he's representing the Pacers, you have to be able to step out of your shell and atleast pretend to be interested in the people who pay money to see you. Money that ends up paying them.

    If that means posing for 1,000 pictures, then he should be smiling in each and every one of them, unless they're going for a different type of picture.

    Yes, I know that can be taxing on someone, especially an introvert, but this comes part of the business.

    If I'm at work, and a customer comes up to me, I do my damnedest to put my personal feelings aside and help them. Whether he likes it or not, interacting with STH is a big part of his job, it's not just all about basketball.

    It shouldn't be that hard to put a smile on your face and be polite. No one is asking him to do magic tricks.


    Being even the slightest bit stand-offish at a Pacer function should be a big no-no. You have to be in sell mode the entire time.
    Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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    • #47
      Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

      Originally posted by Pacersalltheway10 View Post
      I would probably look the same way if I had a big mouth shouting over my shoulder. Someone even said Travis thought that was just ridiculous and that she was annoying.
      lol yeah Travis Diener even made a comment about the whole scenario to me saying the same things.

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      • #48
        Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

        Originally posted by tikitomoka View Post
        Both hansbrough and mcbobs are, and always have been, the two most unfriendly guys on the team. If you guys are looking for good interaction, lance PG dahntay or TJ are the way to go
        Apparently I had a completely different experince than everyone. Tyler is just shy I get that I am too but like I said he was cool and talked to me and seemed interested in what I had to say.
        J-Mac was one of the easiest ones to talk to. I talked to him for some time while standing in the line for Tyler. Again we were talking about the Milwaukee trip and he seemed really interested in what I was saying and asked questions. I though Josh was one of the coolest ones.
        I also thought AJ was really cool. I bought his jersey last season with his #22 then this offseason he changed to #12. So I went up to him and I said something like, "AJ we need to talk.." He looks at me like who the heck is this guy. Then I tell him about how I'm "upset" he changed numbers after I bought his jersey. He laughed and joked a bit.
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        • #49
          Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

          Originally posted by Since86 View Post
          Sorry, but when Tyler is at a PS&E function, he needs to be as upbeat and positive as he possibly can be.

          That's part of his JOB.

          If you approach him away from Conseco, and the Pacers, when he's out for dinner or something then that's one thing. He's on his own time. But when he's representing the Pacers, you have to be able to step out of your shell and atleast pretend to be interested in the people who pay money to see you. Money that ends up paying them.

          If that means posing for 1,000 pictures, then he should be smiling in each and every one of them, unless they're going for a different type of picture.

          Yes, I know that can be taxing on someone, especially an introvert, but this comes part of the business.

          If I'm at work, and a customer comes up to me, I do my damnedest to put my personal feelings aside and help them. Whether he likes it or not, interacting with STH is a big part of his job, it's not just all about basketball.

          It shouldn't be that hard to put a smile on your face and be polite. No one is asking him to do magic tricks.


          Being even the slightest bit stand-offish at a Pacer function should be a big no-no. You have to be in sell mode the entire time.
          Completely disagree. Playing basketball and winning is his number 1 job priority. Selling himself or whatever is way behind that. He isn't hired as marketing/sales.

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          • #50
            Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

            Originally posted by oxxo View Post
            Completely disagree. Playing basketball and winning is his number 1 job priority. Selling himself or whatever is way behind that. He isn't hired as marketing/sales.
            Basketball IS marketing and sales. All the other stuff goes right along with it. Just like practice.....
            Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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            • #51
              Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

              Originally posted by Since86 View Post
              Basketball IS marketing and sales. All the other stuff goes right along with it. Just like practice.....
              We should have never drafted Tyler. His Combine scores on the handshake drills, baby kiss, and standing rapport were awful. He did pretty good on rapport when he had a running start though.

              All kidding aside, I agree that he should be giving his best on the PR bull**** (although suggesting its as important as basketball is absurd). Anecdotal reports indicate that he's doing alright, but needs to work on his consistency.

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              • #52
                Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                Basketball IS marketing and sales. All the other stuff goes right along with it. Just like practice.....
                Agrred. you are right on that my friend.

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                • #53
                  Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                  Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                  Basketball IS marketing and sales. All the other stuff goes right along with it. Just like practice.....
                  But all we can ask is for him to do his best. Guys are going to be better at it or worse at it than others, but if it isn't their primary job get off their case.

                  That'd be like getting on Spud Webb because he couldn't guard Shaquille O'Neal. Hey, playing defense is part of his job...
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                  • #54
                    Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                    Originally posted by judicata View Post
                    All kidding aside, I agree that he should be giving his best on the PR bull**** (although suggesting its as important as basketball is absurd). Anecdotal reports indicate that he's doing alright, but needs to work on his consistency.
                    I probably worded it wrongly.

                    I don't mean it's as important as basketball when you sit back and you make a ranked list. I mean when you're in the moment, when you're at a STH function, it needs to be treated just as importantly.

                    Whether people want to acknowledge it or not, kissing *** to the STH who pretty much pay a player's salary, is a big deal. Without STHs there isn't a Pacer franchise.

                    I know it was before my time, but I'm sure some other posters can give their memories when the Pacers needed to have a telethon just to keep going.

                    To sum it up "Don't bite the hand that feeds you."
                    Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                    • #55
                      Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                      Originally posted by BillS View Post
                      But all we can ask is for him to do his best. Guys are going to be better at it or worse at it than others, but if it isn't their primary job get off their case.

                      That'd be like getting on Spud Webb because he couldn't guard Shaquille O'Neal. Hey, playing defense is part of his job...
                      I know this. But if he's coming off as stand-offish then is it really his best?

                      It's not all that hard to smile and interact with people.

                      I don't want to seem like I'm trying to kick the guy, I like Tyler. I doubt he even knows how his actions are being perceived. But someone should bring it to his attention, in a totally "hey man, loosen up" kind of way.

                      I thought you didn't like hyperbole statements? Getting a better attitude isn't anywhere near growing 17 inches in height and putting on 120lbs.
                      Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                      • #56
                        Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                        Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                        I know this. But if he's coming off as stand-offish then is it really his best?

                        It's not all that hard to smile and interact with people.

                        I don't want to seem like I'm trying to kick the guy, I like Tyler. I doubt he even knows how his actions are being perceived. But someone should bring it to his attention, in a totally "hey man, loosen up" kind of way.

                        I thought you didn't like hyperbole statements? Getting a better attitude isn't anywhere near growing 17 inches in height and putting on 120lbs.
                        Not really, a lot of people think that someone is being "stand-offish" when in actuality, they are just shy.

                        Remember last season when an opponent asked Troy if Tyler ever talked..and Troy said no.

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                        • #57
                          Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                          Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                          It's not all that hard to smile and interact with people.
                          You'd be surprised. For folks who aren't nervous about it, sure it isn't that hard. For anyone who is shy, it can be a worse fear than a fear of falling (not hyperbole, psychological studies have shown this). For someone with that kind of issue, it IS just as bad as asking a little guy to guard Shaq.

                          Considering the "good" Tyler stories seem to be involving one-on-ones and the "bad" ones seem to involve when he is surrounded or crowded (like autograph sessions), I would say he has trouble with pressure situations involving bunches of people he doesn't know. It would be nice if he didn't, but we can't expect every NBA player to be personable beyond just not being an a$$ - and for someone who is shy, something seemingly as simple as not coming off as a jerk is a lot of work.
                          BillS

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                          • #58
                            Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                            I think I'm coming off a harder on him, than what I mean too.
                            Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                            • #59
                              Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                              Originally posted by Peck View Post
                              I get your point and I agree with it however there are some real scum bags that have no problem sending kids up to get autographs to then turn around and put them up for sale.
                              Are you serious??

                              Edit...Figure what the he!! as I doubt I'll be doing it again. I was Peyton M's NO person for about 6 years, but I was pretty friendly about it and usually yelled at the idiots who pushed and shoved the kids. Usually every year Petyon would go over some items he could/would not sign, but as time went along (later years) he would ease up on things he wouldn't sign before. One thing that never changed was he would not sign an Official NFL football. For many years he refused to sign Sports Illustrated, but later would. He did not like signing jerseys or Colt shirts in general if the person was wearing the item. He did not like signing a person's body and the only time I witnessed an exception was the one Colt fan that is covered in tattoos. However, there were many times before he relented (two/three) years ago he would just ignore the tattoo guy.

                              Back on topic with Peck's post. While my concern more than anything was to make sure somebody didn't get p!ssed and take a swing or something Peyton was always pretty insistent in looking for folks who had already received an autograph or the ebay dealers. Anyway one time this fat little chunk of a piggy kid kept trying to push his way to get and autograph and Peyton would refuse to sign. As Peyton would go down the line Petyon kept ignoring him. After about half and hour the kid would not give up and finally under my breath I tell him "this kid is pretty persistent, you want to sign his ball". Peyton kind of looks at me with a disgusted look and says yeah get the ball. Well I get the ball from the kid and Peyton signs it. I'm feeling pretty good for the kid since he was trying so hard. Next thing I hand it back to him and I hear "woo hoo, I just made $20 bucks". Talk about dagger stares from Peyton, he knew what the little *****s plan was and I didn't catch it.

                              In a controlled setting absolutely the players can and should be accomodating, but as others have stated many of these guys even though they are in the limelight really are shy. And of course there are @sses as well.
                              Last edited by RWB; 02-16-2011, 03:46 PM. Reason: Oh, what the he!!
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                              • #60
                                Re: Autograph question about Tyler Hansbrough

                                Originally posted by RWB View Post
                                Peyton was always pretty insistent in looking for folks who had already received an autograph or the ebay dealers. Anyway one time this fat little chunk of a piggy kid kept trying to push his way to get and autograph and Peyton would refuse to sign. As Peyton would go down the line Petyon kept ignoring him. After about half and hour the kid would not give up and finally under my breath I tell him "this kid is pretty persistent, you want to sign his ball". Peyton kind of looks at me with a disgusted look and says yeah get the ball. Well I get the ball from the kid and Peyton signs it. I'm feeling pretty good for the kid since he was trying so hard. Next thing I hand it back to him and I hear "woo hoo, I just made $20 bucks". Talk about dagger stares from Peyton, he knew what the little *****s plan was and I didn't catch it.
                                Don't be too hard on yourself for that one RWB. You came to this with the idea that the kid might genuinely be trying hard to get the auto for himself. There are a lot of kids and even adults that might look like they want to get the auto to just turn around and put it on e-bay, but some are just well-prepared. At some events including the National Sports Collectors Convention, I see grown men carrying a stack of 8X10's but many are just being prepared for being able to get an auto from any number of players---but to any individual player, that might be enough to think that he was just out to make some money. In the end, you probably got some right and some wrong, but I think you probably gave people the benefit of the doubt, which is nice.

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