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Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

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  • #16
    Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

    You'd think a 'reminder' notice to everyone about the rules of the HMA and responsibilities everyone has might've been a nicer first notice/warning....

    -Bball
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    • #17
      Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

      I've never understood the legal thinking that allows these organizations their quasi-governmental power.
      Ever notice how friendly folks are at a shootin' range??.

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      • #18
        Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

        Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
        I've never understood the legal thinking that allows these organizations their quasi-governmental power.
        I think it's kind of like high school. You (or your parents) basically sign your rights away when you agree to attend that school or move in to that neighborhood.

        I really hate all that crap, though. And because of what I want to do for a living I will probably always live in a city, although I'd love nothing more than to live out in the country and do whatever the hell I want with my home without and neighbors or anything bothering me about it. Part of the American dream is being able to own your own land, the last thing anyone wants to go with that is Bob from accounting leaving snooty letters on your doorstep about mowing your lawn.

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        • #19
          Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

          Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
          I've never understood the legal thinking that allows these organizations their quasi-governmental power.
          That's simple - when you agree to accept the covenents when you move into a neighborhood you've entered into a civil contract and agreed to allow the association to enforce that contract. You're breaking no laws by not fulfilling the terms of the contract - the local governing entity won't enforce issues beyond what their ordinances state. However it is a contract which is civily enforceable.

          Pretty much like any other private contract you may enter into. If the guy who rents my ground doesn't pay me when the contract says he should, I can't go to the sheriff and get anything done - I have to bring a civil suit against him. The difference is that in this case you've also granted the HA enforcement authority. If I was kegboy and this really pissed me off I'd get with the other folks who received notices and write a letter to the HA about how they've overstepped their bounds and present it at the next meeting.

          I'm assuming you know that already.

          Wouldn't surprise me if they went a bit overboard in this case because they've heard about people cutting their grass less often because of the high price of gas and want to nip it in the bud. Still seems a bit overzealous.

          BTW - lawns are going to seed extremely fast around here because of how cold it is. The grass is stressed and like any plant, it responds to stress by frantically tring to make more little plants.
          The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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          • #20
            Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

            FYI, here's the email I sent to the board:

            Subject: lawn care notices

            Too whom it may concern,

            I wish to take a moment to address the lawn care notices put out on Friday, May 23rd. Just to be clear, I do not wish to quibble with the action. And while the content was harsh, I understand the reasoning behind it. The last thing we want are overgrown lawns giving our community a black eye.

            However, I do wish to address the timing. In the future, I would recommend not putting out 24-hour notices on a day when it is raining. Also, considering that it is a popular vacation weekend, I would hope you do not take action against home owners who may be out of town and will not even see their notice for a couple days.

            Lastly, if you wish to set a higher standard for lawn care, I would recommend starting with the common areas. Of the properties with notices that I observed, a number of them had grass that was no higher than what I have observed in the common area behind my property this spring.

            Thank you for your time,

            Third B. Kegboy
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            • #21
              Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

              Oh Kegboy, I sympathize with you. We had opportunity to live in a subdivision like yours, and we chose to buy a house on a platted lot within the city, not in a subdivision or area under a HOA. Working in county government, I have seen it get ugly WAAY too often to ever be willing to live under a set of covenants and restrictions. DK is dead on that the local gov't won't do anything to help (either the HOA enforce their covenants or you avoid them) and the matter would be handled as a civil matter.

              Originally posted by SoupIsGood View Post
              I've always lived in a middle of a ton of corn. The way most nieghborhoods are so snitchy and prissy has always struck me as ridiculous......
              A great example of why adhere to the same feeling as SIG:

              Friends of ours moved into one of the snootier subs in our community. They had to have a 15K gift from mommy & daddy for a down payment to do it, but they got in. They were thrilled at their upward mobility and were looking forward to socializing with some of the movers & shakers of our community on a much more personal level.
              They were moving stuff in, having had possession for two days...My friend noticed the old battle-axe next door coming up the driveway to greet them. He put on his best smile, put down his load, and headed out to meet her with a smile. He said hello, and her first words were, "When are you going to mow that awful lawn?" Welcome to the f#*king neighborhood, indeed.
              The following week, still their FIRST WEEK in the new digs, there were three packages delivered from UPS and left on their front porch. Both of our friends (husband and wife) work in the courthouse with my wife and I, so we got to witness this first-hand. The neighbor across the street from our friends noticed that the packages had been there for a couple of hours and nobody had gotten those unsightly things indoors, and she had to keep looking at them...(what an inconvenience, I tell you!) The nosy neighbor knew that my friend's father was retired, and knew his cell number. She called him saying she was concerned about the packages being outside so long. (This is not Indy we are talking about; there was very little worry about theft.) My friend's father then called his daughter-in-law at work to tell her about the grave circumstance that was on their front porch. She then called my friend, her husband, and he felt the need to leave for lunch early to go and get those packages indoors so that the neighbor wouldn't be subjected with having to look at them while apparently sitting on her front porch and watching their house.

              They were there ONE WEEK and wished they hadn't bought the $170,000 beautiful house that was basically their dream home. Pretty sad.

              I will NEVER live under covenants & restrictions or a HOA. I will live under a bridge first. I'm not in any way kidding.



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              • #22
                Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                Originally posted by Kegboy View Post
                (Note: Name and address may have been changed to protect someone from ever having to host a forum party.)

                Oh come on, I'm sure the muscrats would make us some great ice cream. Yum, yum.

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                • #23
                  Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                  As i keep telling my wife, white rock makes a great yard. Not only is it convienent for you, but look at all that water you conserve.

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                  • #24
                    Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                    To good neighbors!

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                    • #25
                      Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                      And yet, nah meverm,mind...I consider them para-governmental with a bunch of political wannabe's. Anyone can run for the board but the elections are not monitored...and that is one of my objections. They have power with little oversight. They may change the ordinances with no input from the governed and in my case, each time I brought up my desire for a matching utility barn (architecturally similar to my home) I've been stonewalled.
                      There are 7 sections to my subdivision...each with it's own set of regulations. Which side of the street you live on can determine whether or not you're allowed a utility barn, a satellite dish, a motorhome or even a place for your boat. Then there is a whole different set for those living "lake front".

                      and yet, it's a compromise...my wife is suburb and I'm country. (she wins)

                      It is equidistant between her work, my mother, and her mother.
                      Ever notice how friendly folks are at a shootin' range??.

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                      • #26
                        Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                        To date my desire to not have anything to do with this crap -- meetings or subdivision politcs has far outweighed my desire to be involved and voice desire for changes.

                        As long as they are doing basic common sense stuff to take care of the communal common sense chores I write checks and we're all happy.

                        They don't bother me and I don't have to bother them.

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                        • #27
                          Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                          Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
                          They may change the ordinances with no input from the governed...
                          The very first president of our HOA was a brilliant guy who of course each subsequent board memeber has hated with the white hot fire of a thousand suns. The reason he was brilliant is that he foresaw the jackassery that was to follow him in HOA leadership. He got all of the things in that make sense, and then instituted a rule that henceforth, ANY change to the covenants required a vote in favor from two thirds of the homeowners in the association. Since barely 10% of the people here even care enough to attend the meetings, this has basically prevented them from being able to pass any asinine rule that they wish. Every, and I mean EVERY association meeting begins with a vote to try to overturn that two thirds requirement.

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                          • #28
                            Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                            I hate this stuff. I will never get a condo because of the condo associations.
                            “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” - Winston Churchill

                            “If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning.” - Catherine Aird

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                            • #29
                              Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                              Simple solution. Invite all of us over for a Pacer party. When bad neighbors approach let us your guest know. We will let them know you're disturbing our friend and we know where you live. End of problem.
                              You know how hippos are made out to be sweet and silly, like big cows, but are actually extremely dangerous and can kill you with stunning brutality? The Pacers are the NBA's hippos....Matt Moore CBS Sports....

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                              • #30
                                Re: Rot in Hell Homeowners Associations

                                Originally posted by Twes View Post
                                To good neighbors!

                                I saw my neighbor yesterday.

                                I was mowing pasture out near my section of woods and he was picking up branches in his section of woods.

                                We waved. That'll do for our contact for the next 3 months.

                                Good neighbor even though one of his tree branches occasionally falls into my fence and shorts it out.
                                The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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