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  • #16
    Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

    It is not entirely out of the question but the music dept. there is very competitive. He's never been to the IU campus AFAIK. I just don't think it has ever crossed his mind...even tho one of his best friends is there on a full ride studying Opera.

    Sports programs mean diddly squat to him as long as they have a golf course and tennis courts (he plays either worse than I do, but he loves em) HE does enjoy going up to the big house for football tho.

    Here's an odd thing to note....at his HS last year he was heavily involved in the musical theater group. Of the 12 seniors that graduated from that group last year four earned full ride scholarships to study either music or theater. Just seems like an awfully high percentage IMO.
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    • #17
      Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

      Originally posted by indygeezer
      Here's an odd thing to note....at his HS last year he was heavily involved in the musical theater group. Of the 12 seniors that graduated from that group last year four earned full ride scholarships to study either music or theater. Just seems like an awfully high percentage IMO.
      Not sure what you're saying there.



      He should definitely go down to the campus. Go in the fall, it's gorgeous. I may have had my share of complaints with some things IU, but the campus certainly wasn't one of them.

      IU also has tons of tennis courts, many golf options, and even some good indoor tennis courts where I played a lot my last year.
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      • #18
        Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

        Originally posted by Robobtowncolt View Post
        Not sure what you're saying there.



        He should definitely go down to the campus. Go in the fall, it's gorgeous. I may have had my share of complaints with some things IU, but the campus certainly wasn't one of them.

        IU also has tons of tennis courts, many golf options, and even some good indoor tennis courts where I played a lot my last year.
        Just that 4 out of 12 seems like a heckuva % receiving full ride scholarships for any group of students.
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        • #19
          Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

          Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
          Just that 4 out of 12 seems like a heckuva % receiving full ride scholarships for any group of students.
          Maybe they were pretty good?

          Not many kids get full rides there. Especially to a program as crazy-competitive as that one.
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          • #20
            Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

            Saying U of M to me is like saying Purdue to an IU person, but even I think if you can get a free ride to to a school like that you should take it. As for his mom thinking it's too far from home it is, but free makes up for a lot.

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            • #21
              Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

              Originally posted by grace View Post
              Saying U of M to me is like saying Purdue to an IU person, but even I think if you can get a free ride to to a school like that you should take it. As for his mom thinking it's too far from home it is, but free makes up for a lot.

              Yeah it shore do. I've tried to tell her that for what we'd be saving I could buy her an airline ticket to Ann Arbor whenever she wanted to go. Heck if he's at Butler he won't see her anymore than if he was up there. You know he has better things to do than playing 20 Questions with his mom on his weekends.



              Grace-----> Spartan or Buckeye?
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              • #22
                Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
                It is not entirely out of the question but the music dept. there is very competitive. He's never been to the IU campus AFAIK. I just don't think it has ever crossed his mind...even tho one of his best friends is there on a full ride studying Opera.

                Sports programs mean diddly squat to him as long as they have a golf course and tennis courts (he plays either worse than I do, but he loves em) HE does enjoy going up to the big house for football tho.

                Here's an odd thing to note....at his HS last year he was heavily involved in the musical theater group. Of the 12 seniors that graduated from that group last year four earned full ride scholarships to study either music or theater. Just seems like an awfully high percentage IMO.
                The performance programs are the competitive ones where people fight tooth and nail for positions and opportunities. Music Ed is not particularly competitive.

                But I am not recommending IU because of the music school exactly, in fact it is one of the more restrictive programs on campus.

                I would say the biggest problem that "renaissance kids" experience when they go into school is they choose their major based on what they *think* they might want and then feel trapped by their initial decision. A TON of kids like this end up changing their majors and transferring schools. That usually doesn't happen until they've been miserable for 2 years trying to force a square peg into the proverbial round hole. Look out, you just added another year of undergrad because of a decision you made way back in High School.

                The reason I recommend IU is not because of the music school per se. In fact, I excelled at music in HS and even considered it briefly as a career. The music school at IU was NOT right for me in the least. He'll know if he's "got the stuff" for the music program before he even goes - they require a formal audition and acceptance to get into the music school. Once you're in, you're in, you just go to classes and practice your butt off and go through the program on auto-pilot. Sure it's hard, but it's not hell unless you really didn't want to do it in the first place.

                You've got a diversified kid, so he needs to go to a diversified school and choose his major only when he's absolutely certain. (perhaps even after his freshman year). That's the real strength of IU, there is plenty of flexibility to change majors early in the process without having to add time. They REQUIRE that you take classes outside of your major.

                He can major in German and still take theater and music classes. He can minor in meteorology or anatomy. He can study Shakespeare one day and arc welding the next. If I recall correctly, you don't have to MAJOR in music to be a part of the marching band or pep band, you just have to audition for a spot. (That may have changed recently).

                The Theater program is considered cream of the crop, but is not restrictive the way the music program is.

                Yes, it would be much easier if your son was only good at one thing and only wanted to do that one thing, like computer programming or something. But one thing is for sure, flexibility will ensure his happiness and his success in the long run, and in that regard, IU is a decent choice.
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                • #23
                  Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                  To answer your question Geez, Spartan. U of M = evil.

                  Anyway, I seriously considered Miami of Ohio, because I had a couple band camps there (American Pie jokes not only welcome, but encouraged ), and I loved the campus. Never got the J-Crew vibe, but not only was this 15 years ago, but I was also there in the summer.

                  As for IU's music school, I know two guys who went through it. One became a race car driver and was just elected to Noblesville's City Council (both thanks to his dad's money), the other last I heard manages a Hertz (he was engaged to a friend of mine but she dumped him when she realized he was a loser.)
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                  • #24
                    Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                    This all points to what I believe is one bad choice on his part. In order to fit the AP Asvanced music Composition course he wants to take in HS....he's dropping Physics.

                    Not good IMO.
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                    • #25
                      Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                      Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
                      This all points to what I believe is one bad choice on his part. In order to fit the AP Asvanced music Composition course he wants to take in HS....he's dropping Physics.

                      Not good IMO.
                      Or he really has made his choice in major, and it really is what he wants to do. They teach both classes in college. This isn't that big of a deal. Look at it this way: if he hates the composition class, you just saved yourself a lot of grief. If he loves it, then your choice is easy.

                      Please be strong enough to be the first parent EVER to spare his kid the "I told you so" speech if he switches majors.
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                      • #26
                        Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                        Originally posted by indygeezer View Post

                        But I don't know how he'd do at a large school. He's currently at Cathedral (small school by Indy standards). Talk about getting you ready for college! We went to open house there and followed his daily schedule. He was never in the same building two periods in a row. By the end of the evening we were exhausted from trying to get from class to class on time. (We were given the same amount of time between periods as they get during a normal school day. Now add to that the bookbags kids lug around today and I think most of them could go straight into battle...no boot camp needed.
                        I followed a similar path to Btown to IU. I attended College Wood elementary from k to 5 then went to Our Lady of Mount Carmel for 6-8. I then attended Brebeuf for high school. If Cathedral was his choice for high school I suggest you take the college decision out of his hands. I kid.

                        Anyways I had no problem adjusting to IU freshman year. The size thing is overrated mainly because you are only around your dorm floor pretty much anyway. Also Brebeuf, Cathedral and schools of their ilk all do a good job of preparing you for the college experience.

                        I also know a couple people in the music and education schools. My RA this year was a sophomore in the music school and its top notch and he really enjoys it. Take the Geez Jr. and the rest of the family down for a football game this fall. The campus is beautiful that time of year and plus we actually might have a pretty decent football atmosphere next year. However if you can score tickets to a Bball game next year then you might be able to convince him to go to IU on the spot if he enjoys sports at all. I see several advantages for you and him if he attends IU. Good music school, and I could see the costs being very little. He is an in state student to begin with and from what you have said about his grades he has similar qualifications to some of my friends who pretty much go to IU for free. He would be accepted into the Honors college immediately and could be a fantastic candidate for the Wells scholarship. Plus if he gets to IU and doesn't like his original major choice he can change to another one easily. Like I said earlier there are probably 20 people in my graduating class that are transferring from their original college choice to IU along with the nearly 40 or 50 that attended IU starting freshman year. Mind you my graduating class had like 192 people in it.


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                        • #27
                          Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                          Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
                          This all points to what I believe is one bad choice on his part. In order to fit the AP Asvanced music Composition course he wants to take in HS....he's dropping Physics.

                          Not good IMO.
                          Sciences are overrated I only took three in HS. Of course then again I have known that I would be a business major for ten years.

                          I read what you said about tennis courts and golf. If there is something IU has a lot of its tennis courts. We have more tennis courts than basketball courts to be honest. Also the golf course takes campus access (basically and IU credit card) and you go and hit balls or play 9 or 18 for a pretty good deal.


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                          • #28
                            Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                            Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
                            This all points to what I believe is one bad choice on his part. In order to fit the AP Asvanced music Composition course he wants to take in HS....he's dropping Physics.

                            Not good IMO.
                            Either I wasn't smart enough for AP or it wasn't offered when I was in HS (I'm not exactly sure which it was). I know people can get along just fine in college without taking AP classes in HS; therefore, it is my average educated guess that he should take the physics class (both my brothers did).

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                            • #29
                              Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                              I'd be the last person to condemn anyone for changing their major or college.

                              Lessee.I started out at Indiana State...transfered to Ind Central College (now Uni of Indy) then IUPUI...back to Uni Indy....back to IUPUI....Butler....and finally graduated from Uni of Indy and then on to Butler for grad school. WHY? I was letting my employer pay for my classes so everytime I thought I wanted a class I looked to see where it was offered.

                              I started out as a Biology ed major (mom and dad insisted) and immediately switched to Radio/TV and broadcast journalism. Later switched to Biology...then business...then law. Finished with a degrees in Microbiology and Geology. 40 years later I finally left that biology job I hated for nearly every minute I was there and now sell Real Estate and absolutely love what I am doing.
                              So no...I won't critisize anyone for changing majors or schools.

                              Oh, and there was 72 in my HS graduating class. There were 76 but we had a rash of pregnancies right before graduation ....back then you had to quit school if you were prego (the girls not the guys)
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                              • #30
                                Re: College choices....Geezer Jr.

                                Originally posted by grace View Post
                                he should take the physics class (both my brothers did).








                                While I question the value of an advanced placement composition class, I think he should take it cause it'll give him a better idea of what he wants to do (not like he's gonna wanna do Physics )
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