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Rule #1

Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

"People with intelligence will agree with me when I say that __________"

"Only stupid people think / believe / do ___________"

"I can't wait to hear something from PosterX when he/she sees that **insert a given incident or current event that will have probably upset or disappointed PosterX here**"

"He/she is just delusional"

"This thread is stupid / worthless / embarrassing"

"I'm going to take a moment to point and / laugh at PosterX / GroupOfPeopleY who thought / believed *insert though/belief here*"

"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

In general, if a comment goes from purely on topic to something 'ad hominem' (personal jabs, personal shots, attacks, flames, however you want to call it, towards a person, or a group of people, or a given city/state/country of people), those are most likely going to be found intolerable.

We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

If you see a problem that we haven't addressed, the best and most appropriate course for a forum member to take here is to look over to the left of the post in question. See underneath that poster's name, avatar, and other info, down where there's a little triangle with an exclamation point (!) in it? Click that. That allows you to report the post to the admins so we can definitely notice it and give it a look to see what we feel we should do about it. Beyond that, obviously it's human nature sometimes to want to speak up to the poster in question who has bothered you, but we would ask that you try to refrain from doing so because quite often what happens is two or more posters all start going back and forth about the original offending post, and suddenly the entire thread is off topic or otherwise derailed. So while the urge to police it yourself is understandable, it's best to just report it to us and let us handle it. Thank you!

All of the above is going to be subject to a case by case basis, but generally and broadly speaking, this should give everyone a pretty good idea of how things will typically / most often be handled.

Rule #2

If the actions of an administrator inspire you to make a comment, criticism, or express a concern about it, there is a wrong place and a couple of right places to do so.

The wrong place is to do so in the original thread in which the administrator took action. For example, if a post gets an infraction, or a post gets deleted, or a comment within a larger post gets clipped out, in a thread discussing Paul George, the wrong thing to do is to distract from the discussion of Paul George by adding your off topic thoughts on what the administrator did.

The right places to do so are:

A) Start a thread about the specific incident you want to talk about on the Feedback board. This way you are able to express yourself in an area that doesn't throw another thread off topic, and this way others can add their two cents as well if they wish, and additionally if there's something that needs to be said by the administrators, that is where they will respond to it.

B) Send a private message to the administrators, and they can respond to you that way.

If this is done the wrong way, those comments will be deleted, and if it's a repeating problem then it may also receive an infraction as well.

Rule #3

If a poster is bothering you, and an administrator has not or will not deal with that poster to the extent that you would prefer, you have a powerful tool at your disposal, one that has recently been upgraded and is now better than ever: The ability to ignore a user.

When you ignore a user, you will unfortunately still see some hints of their existence (nothing we can do about that), however, it does the following key things:

A) Any post they make will be completely invisible as you scroll through a thread.

B) The new addition to this feature: If someone QUOTES a user you are ignoring, you do not have to read who it was, or what that poster said, unless you go out of your way to click on a link to find out who it is and what they said.

To utilize this feature, from any page on Pacers Digest, scroll to the top of the page, look to the top right where it says 'Settings' and click that. From the settings page, look to the left side of the page where it says 'My Settings', and look down from there until you see 'Edit Ignore List' and click that. From here, it will say 'Add a Member to Your List...' Beneath that, click in the text box to the right of 'User Name', type in or copy & paste the username of the poster you are ignoring, and once their name is in the box, look over to the far right and click the 'Okay' button. All done!

Rule #4

Regarding infractions, currently they carry a value of one point each, and that point will expire in 31 days. If at any point a poster is carrying three points at the same time, that poster will be suspended until the oldest of the three points expires.

Rule #5

When you share or paste content or articles from another website, you must include the URL/link back to where you found it, who wrote it, and what website it's from. Said content will be removed if this doesn't happen.

An example:

If I copy and paste an article from the Indianapolis Star website, I would post something like this:

http://www.linktothearticlegoeshere.com/article
Title of the Article
Author's Name
Indianapolis Star

Rule #6

We cannot tolerate illegal videos on Pacers Digest. This means do not share any links to them, do not mention any websites that host them or link to them, do not describe how to find them in any way, and do not ask about them. Posts doing anything of the sort will be removed, the offenders will be contacted privately, and if the problem becomes habitual, you will be suspended, and if it still persists, you will probably be banned.

The legal means of watching or listening to NBA games are NBA League Pass Broadband (for US, or for International; both cost money) and NBA Audio League Pass (which is free). Look for them on NBA.com.

Rule #7

Provocative statements in a signature, or as an avatar, or as the 'tagline' beneath a poster's username (where it says 'Member' or 'Administrator' by default, if it is not altered) are an unwanted distraction that will more than likely be removed on sight. There can be shades of gray to this, but in general this could be something political or religious that is likely going to provoke or upset people, or otherwise something that is mean-spirited at the expense of a poster, a group of people, or a population.

It may or may not go without saying, but this goes for threads and posts as well, particularly when it's not made on the off-topic board (Market Square).

We do make exceptions if we feel the content is both innocuous and unlikely to cause social problems on the forum (such as wishing someone a Merry Christmas or a Happy Easter), and we also also make exceptions if such topics come up with regards to a sports figure (such as the Lance Stephenson situation bringing up discussions of domestic abuse and the law, or when Jason Collins came out as gay and how that lead to some discussion about gay rights).

However, once the discussion seems to be more/mostly about the political issues instead of the sports figure or his specific situation, the thread is usually closed.

Rule #8

We prefer self-restraint and/or modesty when making jokes or off topic comments in a sports discussion thread. They can be fun, but sometimes they derail or distract from a topic, and we don't want to see that happen. If we feel it is a problem, we will either delete or move those posts from the thread.

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Rule #10

We like small signatures, not big signatures. The bigger the signature, the more likely it is an annoying or distracting signature.

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Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

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  • #16
    Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

    Ghosts: Possibly.

    Aliens: Yes, most definitely

    UFO's: Yes, by the very definition, anything that isn't identified while flying in the air is a UFO.

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    • #17
      Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

      Ghosts: Maybe

      Aliens: Yes, whether or not they have visited us, I don't know, but I do believe they exist just by the very deifinition.

      UFO's: yes by the definition, but that doesn't particularly mean they are from outer space.

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      • #18
        Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

        I have never beeived in UFO's, I beleive most of them are military planes that are being tested.

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        • #19
          Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

          A ghost thread from a while back:

          http://www.pacersdigest.com/forums/s...ead.php?t=1808
          You're caught up in the Internet / you think it's such a great asset / but you're wrong, wrong, wrong
          All that fiber optic gear / still cannot take away the fear / like an island song

          - Jimmy Buffett

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          • #20
            Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

            Ahh. Those stories were kind of scary/spooky.

            Has anyone ever felt that quick breeze when alone? (No, it's not the AC )

            I liked "Are You Afraid of the Dark" though. It was a great show.

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            • #21
              Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

              Originally posted by Bball View Post
              Well, this happened back in high school. I had just gotten my license maybe a couple of months beforehand. I was at a party out in the country. There was a keg, a pretty good fire going, and several other high schoolers there.

              Some I knew and some I didn't. Since I lived in the largest town in the county it wasn't unusual for kids from other schools to make their way into town and end up at these get togethers. I had not had my license all that long so I wasn't too inclined to drink too much that night. That made me a bit of an outcast and the party was getting boring for me as people were drinking more and more.

              Sitting in the dark was a pretty girl and she didn't seem to be having much fun herself. I made a couple of jokes and struck up a conversation. She was very pretty and we talked for a couple of hours. She said her friends had left her behind and that she couldn't find them. I was more than happy to offer her a ride even though I didn't even know where her home was.

              She told me that she stayed with her grandmother. It turns out that was in a town of at least 45 minutes away. But she was pretty, we were teenagers, and she was going to be in my car. We took off at a little before midnight and headed toward her town. She directed me to the outskirts and near a sparsely populated housing addition which is where I assumed was where she lived.

              She had me pull over short of any of the houses tho and we got out of the car and talked some more. The sky was very clear and just a bit chilly for October. You could see your breath in the night air. I was certainly enjoying her company and so didn't mind the chill. We took off walking, and thinking back I guess she was leading though I didn't know it at the time. We walked along a trail and got deeper into the woods. Admittedly, it was a little spooky in there but I figured that was in my favor. Farther back we went. That's when I heard a sound behind us. I turned to try and see what it was. I heard sticks breaking and something that might've been an owl altho I've heard owls since and none sounded exactly like that. I saw nothing and the sound ceased.

              I turned back around and the girl was gone!

              I thought she was playing games at first and I looked around where we had stopped. If she had gone far I should've heard brush shuffling and sticks cracking in this wooded area. I didn't see how she could've gotten around me to go back toward the car because I had turned to look behind us in the first place. I should've seen her.

              I walked just a few more feet forward and saw the wooded area lead to a clearing. It was a cemetary. I was nearly certain that she was messing with me now... and it was working. It was pretty scary in that little old cemetary. But after about 20 minutes of searching I found no sign of her. I didn't want to leave there without her. I began to worry that the noise I'd heard and her disappearance were connected and this wasn't a game afterall. Still, that seemed pretty unlikely but so did anything else at this point. Being by myself now my bravery was starting to waver. Particularly as time passed and I saw no sign of this girl.

              I made my way back down the path and to the road. No sign of her in my car. No sign of her walking along the road. I looked up and down the road at the few houses that were there and not a one of them had more than a nightlight on. No sign that anyone had just gotten back home.

              At this point I decided I was going to have to tell someone what had happened. I drove into town and found the small police station there. There was only two policeman there and they listened to my story and looked at each other. I don't know what I expected them to do when I finished but I expected them to do something. "Aren't you going to make a report or send a car out there or something?"

              One of them got serious "Son, about every fall some kid comes in here and plays this same tune. Did your friends put you up to it?"

              I explained that a police station was the last place I wanted to be if I didn't have to be there.

              "So you actually went walking with her, huh? I don't think anyone has ever added that to the story" one policeman said.

              I told them both how we'd talked and hit it off over the course of the night.

              "Let me guess, you didn't get a full name tho did you? Nobody ever gets a name" he said.

              But I did get a name. I told him the name that she'd given me and I saw both officers turn white and simply stare at each other for several long seconds. One of them finally left the room and I heard him rummaging thru some files.

              "What did I say?" I asked the remaining officer.

              "That girl... You are sure you got the name right?"

              "Yes..."

              "She was killed in a hit and run 15 years ago in that same area. We never caught the person who did it. Her friends in the car survived but they all moved away. She's buried in that cemetary you saw. Her grandmother committed suicide soon after all this. She's buried there too. Poor old woman couldn't take the stress."

              The other policeman returned holding a file and showed me a picture of the girl that they were talking about... it was her!

              Needless to say, I never went back there or anywhere near there again.

              -Bball
              lol, this guy has quite the imagination

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              • #22
                Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                There are billions upon billions of stars up there. All it takes is the right set of circumstances for life to develop. In my IU Astronomy class we did an exercise to illustrate the chance of life generating circumstances on a planet. While the circumstances are very rare when you multiply them by the amount of stars it becomes much more likely. Remember we trying to find life in our very own solar system, whether it be ancient life or things that are living today. Mars and Europa both could have had, (or could still have), life on them.

                When I was in highschool I was driving late at night in the country with a friend of mine. Suddenly this bright light shot up from the ground from behind a large grove of trees. At first it looked like a giant white firework had been lit. But the more I looked at it I realized that the firework was not moving or burning out. It looked like 50 white lights all the shape of a circle. Then as quickly as it had appeared it shot into the sky at an unblievable speed. I know it wasn't my imagination because my buddy saw it to. I don't know if it was aliens but it was definetly a UFO.

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                • #23
                  Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                  lol you guys, turn off the sci-fi channel and start living in the real world.

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                  • #24
                    Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                    I dunno, I have always been staunchly against ghosts or apparitions or that sort of thing, but I have had some odd experiences at night before. Whether they were my mind playing tricks on me or not I can't say. I can say that there have been times when I am fairly convinced I am not alone. Also I am fairly level headed person so I just dont jump at every ghostly thing.


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                    • #25
                      Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                      Originally posted by Leisure Suit Larry View Post
                      lol you guys, turn off the sci-fi channel and start living in the real world.
                      I don't think an Indiana University class counts as being part of the Sci-fi channel. Why don't you learn a little more about the galaxy and then try again.

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                      • #26
                        Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                        I believe that somewhere in the universe there has to be other living creatures. There is no way we are the only ones, wheather or not they will ever make contact with our planet is something different.

                        I have had some weird stuff happen to me in the past. Most at my moms old house out in the country. There was one time my mother and I were sitting on the couch watching tv when the basement door creeped open then slammed shut and a few second later we could hear footsteps in the kitchen.

                        Another at the same house was my VCR was unplugged when I went to use it and there was no one else in the house.

                        Also we saw some odd coloured lights in the sky at the same house. And the house my dad lives in I have heard the door bell ring gone and no one there, not even nicky nick nine door type people, also hear the phone ring and picked it up with no one on the other end. And just the other day I was going into the back yard and I saw a person for a second out of the corner of my eye.

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                        • #27
                          Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                          Originally posted by Leisure Suit Larry View Post
                          lol, this guy has quite the imagination
                          You know who has an even better imagination? MagicRat.



                          Sorry man, I couldn't resist.
                          This space for rent.

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                          • #28
                            Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                            Originally posted by DisplacedKnick View Post
                            Ghosts - yes. Never encountered one but a couple of people I respect pretty well have very convincing stories - including a friend of mine who I saw with a handprint on his arm for two days when he said he could feel someone grabbing him. That was whacked - it wasn't just what you could see but if you ran your hand over his arm you could feel the indentations. Wierd. Though I guess we could get into the ghost/poltergeist, etc. discussion.

                            Aliens - yes, just not on this planet.
                            This conversation wasn't by chance preceeded by your finding a nearly empty gallon size zip lock of funny looking mushrooms was it?

                            Nevermind...

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                            • #29
                              Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                              I believe in fiber. And regularity. Regularity is good.

                              I don't believe so much in either ghosts or aliens.

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                              • #30
                                Re: Do you believe in Ghosts/Aliens?

                                Originally posted by Bball
                                Are you saying an entity grabbed him and you could still see/feel the handprint two days later or are you saying something grabbed him and held on for two days?

                                -Bball
                                He told us he woke up in the middle of the night and thought someone had grabbed him. Flipped on the light - nothing. Went back to sleep. Woke up about an hour later - same thing but saw the handprint on his arm & went through his apt wondering if someone was screwing with him (this was in college). Kept having this feeling of a hand on his arm, kept brushing it off. Showed it to us the next day said it still felt like someone's hand was on his arm. Plus you could see & feel it.

                                Wierd.
                                The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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