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Rule #1

Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

"People with intelligence will agree with me when I say that __________"

"Only stupid people think / believe / do ___________"

"I can't wait to hear something from PosterX when he/she sees that **insert a given incident or current event that will have probably upset or disappointed PosterX here**"

"He/she is just delusional"

"This thread is stupid / worthless / embarrassing"

"I'm going to take a moment to point and / laugh at PosterX / GroupOfPeopleY who thought / believed *insert though/belief here*"

"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

In general, if a comment goes from purely on topic to something 'ad hominem' (personal jabs, personal shots, attacks, flames, however you want to call it, towards a person, or a group of people, or a given city/state/country of people), those are most likely going to be found intolerable.

We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

If you see a problem that we haven't addressed, the best and most appropriate course for a forum member to take here is to look over to the left of the post in question. See underneath that poster's name, avatar, and other info, down where there's a little triangle with an exclamation point (!) in it? Click that. That allows you to report the post to the admins so we can definitely notice it and give it a look to see what we feel we should do about it. Beyond that, obviously it's human nature sometimes to want to speak up to the poster in question who has bothered you, but we would ask that you try to refrain from doing so because quite often what happens is two or more posters all start going back and forth about the original offending post, and suddenly the entire thread is off topic or otherwise derailed. So while the urge to police it yourself is understandable, it's best to just report it to us and let us handle it. Thank you!

All of the above is going to be subject to a case by case basis, but generally and broadly speaking, this should give everyone a pretty good idea of how things will typically / most often be handled.

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A) Start a thread about the specific incident you want to talk about on the Feedback board. This way you are able to express yourself in an area that doesn't throw another thread off topic, and this way others can add their two cents as well if they wish, and additionally if there's something that needs to be said by the administrators, that is where they will respond to it.

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If this is done the wrong way, those comments will be deleted, and if it's a repeating problem then it may also receive an infraction as well.

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When you ignore a user, you will unfortunately still see some hints of their existence (nothing we can do about that), however, it does the following key things:

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Regarding infractions, currently they carry a value of one point each, and that point will expire in 31 days. If at any point a poster is carrying three points at the same time, that poster will be suspended until the oldest of the three points expires.

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We prefer self-restraint and/or modesty when making jokes or off topic comments in a sports discussion thread. They can be fun, but sometimes they derail or distract from a topic, and we don't want to see that happen. If we feel it is a problem, we will either delete or move those posts from the thread.

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Where the #$%& are my glasses??

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  • Where the #$%& are my glasses??

    I'm not real popular 'round here tonight. I got home from work, took out my disposable contacts, threw them away and opened up my glasses case.

    Empty!!

    I've been turning over everything in the house trying to find them. I guess that makes me "crabby".

    So if you've seen them, let me know.

    (Perhaps my hero Chuck Person ate them - seems he's eaten about everything lately.)
    Why do the things that we treasure most, slip away in time
    Till to the music we grow deaf, to God's beauty blind
    Why do the things that connect us slowly pull us apart?
    Till we fall away in our own darkness, a stranger to our own hearts
    And life itself, rushing over me
    Life itself, the wind in black elms,
    Life itself in your heart and in your eyes, I can't make it without you


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    Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

    I hate when that happens! Toss the contacts and I'm suddenly blind till I find my glasses..... and realize I broke em!
    You, Never? Did the Kenosha Kid?

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    • #3
      Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

      Every once in a while, I have to tighten the screws on my glasses our they just fall right out. I hate when that happens. Without my glasses, I pretty much cant see a damn thing!

      And no, I wont even bother with contact lenses!!
      "Remember the pain of my fist. That is my power!"

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      • #4
        Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

        Originally posted by Fireball Kid
        Every once in a while, I have to tighten the screws on my glasses our they just fall right out. I hate when that happens. Without my glasses, I pretty much cant see a damn thing!

        And no, I wont even bother with contact lenses!!
        I used to play Bball with glasses on, thank god, not anymore now.
        2012 PD ABA Fantasy Keeper League Champion, sports.ws

        2011 PD ABA Fantasy Keeper League Champion, sports.ws

        2006 PD ABA Fantasy League runner up, sports.ws

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        • #5
          Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

          Ok so those people with contacts, help me out here. I haven't been to go home, so I can't see an optomotrist. I started wearing contacts in early January, and after a week, my eyes started turning red. So I don't know what the problem is. It didn't actually hurt at all though. Is it the contacts or the solution?
          Don't ask Marvin Harrison what he did during the bye week. "Batman never told where the Bat Cave is," he explained.

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          • #6
            Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

            Well, Suave, I don't know about your particular case, but telling my history with contacts might help plus it's a very interesting story on itself. I've been meaning to tell you guys about it for a long time.

            Here goes.

            I started wearing contacts when I was about 14 years old. The first 3 or 4 years I had no significant problems but when I hit college the misery began. I remember it very well, like it was only 2 or 3 years ago: it was in a chemistry class and my eyes were hurting so much (stupid power point presentations) I had to leave class and hurry home to get them *****es out of my eyes.

            For about a half year I couldn't wear any contacts anymore. I had to use my glasses and I truly hate wearing glasses. Now, since about a year ago, I'm back to wearing contacts, but only on occasional times: when I do sports, or just during the day, never longer than 10 hours though and mostly I have to take a day off every once in a while. My eyes just can't cope that well anymore with the lenses.

            Moral of this (true) story? Even though it is the case that, eventually, as you get older, you won't be able to wear contacts anymore, there are many ways of postponing that hell of glasses. I strongly recommand you don't wear them any longer than 10 hours a day or that you, whenever you feel your eyes get irritated with the contacts, take them out. Less TV/computer won't hurt either (and if you do watch TV/computer, lots of blinking has to be done). Generally I can also feel my eyes cope with the contacts much better if I'm outside in the fresh air.

            Of course your personal set of eyes will largely determine how you'll deal with contacts. Some people have the 'talent' to cope with them very well, others don't. For instance, I have very dry eyes, which is very, very bad if you want to use contacts (eye drops help in my case). However I do think the general advice above will prolongue your happy marriage with contact lenses.

            Hope this helped.
            Word on the street is he doesn't want your money, he only wants to please your ears...
            Bum in Berlin on Myspace

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            • #7
              Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

              Originally posted by Mourning
              I used to play Bball with glasses on, thank god, not anymore now.
              And how must he feel now when he reads things like this?

              Looks aren't everything, Mourning.
              Word on the street is he doesn't want your money, he only wants to please your ears...
              Bum in Berlin on Myspace

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              • #8
                Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                I had lasik a year and half ago.

                I love it. No more glasses or contacts. The surgery was completely painless and over in minutes.

                I have better than 20/20 vision now.

                I can remember looking many a days for my glasses. I feel for you Jay.

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                • #9
                  Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                  Originally posted by Jay@Section204
                  So if you've seen them, let me know.
                  They're on top of your head.
                  You're caught up in the Internet / you think it's such a great asset / but you're wrong, wrong, wrong
                  All that fiber optic gear / still cannot take away the fear / like an island song

                  - Jimmy Buffett

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                  • #10
                    Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                    I wish.

                    They're not at the office either.



                    BTW, Suave,

                    I wear disposables because my eyes had problems with the cleaning chemicals. We tried heat-cleaning my daily wear contacts in pure saline (no chemicals) and that didn't work, either.

                    So I went to the disposables - the ones I have I put in, wear for a month (sleep in them) and then pitch them. No handling, no chemicals, no problem.

                    I usually just wear my glasses for a week before I put the next pair in.

                    I can't tell if Lasik is in my future.
                    Why do the things that we treasure most, slip away in time
                    Till to the music we grow deaf, to God's beauty blind
                    Why do the things that connect us slowly pull us apart?
                    Till we fall away in our own darkness, a stranger to our own hearts
                    And life itself, rushing over me
                    Life itself, the wind in black elms,
                    Life itself in your heart and in your eyes, I can't make it without you

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                    • #11
                      Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                      Originally posted by Suaveness
                      Ok so those people with contacts, help me out here. I haven't been to go home, so I can't see an optomotrist. I started wearing contacts in early January, and after a week, my eyes started turning red. So I don't know what the problem is. It didn't actually hurt at all though. Is it the contacts or the solution?
                      Most likely neither. It's probably not washing your hands before you put them in.

                      That's always what happens if I'm in a hurry and dont, and it burns like a *****.
                      Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                        Originally posted by Jay@Section204

                        So I went to the disposables - the ones I have I put in, wear for a month (sleep in them) and then pitch them. No handling, no chemicals, no problem.

                        I usually just wear my glasses for a week before I put the next pair in.
                        That's what I pretty much do, as a matter of fact I'm on my glasses week right now.
                        Originally posted by Natston;n3510291
                        I want the people to know that they still have 2 out of the 3 T.J.s working for them, and that ain't bad...

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                        • #13
                          Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                          Originally posted by Jay@Section204
                          I wish.

                          They're not at the office either.



                          BTW, Suave,

                          I wear disposables because my eyes had problems with the cleaning chemicals. We tried heat-cleaning my daily wear contacts in pure saline (no chemicals) and that didn't work, either.

                          So I went to the disposables - the ones I have I put in, wear for a month (sleep in them) and then pitch them. No handling, no chemicals, no problem.

                          I usually just wear my glasses for a week before I put the next pair in.

                          I can't tell if Lasik is in my future.
                          Lasik is definitely in my future.

                          I used to use the normal soft contacts. Take 'em out every night, clean 'em once a month.

                          But a couple years ago, my eyes started having a strange reaction. Finally figured out it was the contacts. Apparently, I've been wearing contacts for so long that my eyes finally started developing a "resistance" to the proteins that build up naturally on lenses.

                          I tried going to monthlys and even weeklys, but after one day, my eyes can't take the same pair. So now I have to sparingly use the uber-expensive "Wear one day and throw away" kind.

                          It's just not worth the expense over a couple years, when I could have paid about the same for Lasik.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                            You won't regret the Lasik.

                            Its awesome.

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                            • #15
                              Re: Where the #$%& are my glasses??

                              Originally posted by Gyron
                              You won't regret the Lasik.

                              Its awesome.
                              But they cut my eye. I can't get over that.

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