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Below are the rules of Pacers Digest. After you have read them, you will have a very good sense of where we are coming from, what we expect, what we don't want to see, and how we react to things.

Rule #1

Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

"Anyone who __________ is a liar / a fool / an idiot / a blind homer / has their head buried in the sand / a blind hater / doesn't know basketball / doesn't watch the games"

"People with intelligence will agree with me when I say that __________"

"Only stupid people think / believe / do ___________"

"I can't wait to hear something from PosterX when he/she sees that **insert a given incident or current event that will have probably upset or disappointed PosterX here**"

"He/she is just delusional"

"This thread is stupid / worthless / embarrassing"

"I'm going to take a moment to point and / laugh at PosterX / GroupOfPeopleY who thought / believed *insert though/belief here*"

"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

In general, if a comment goes from purely on topic to something 'ad hominem' (personal jabs, personal shots, attacks, flames, however you want to call it, towards a person, or a group of people, or a given city/state/country of people), those are most likely going to be found intolerable.

We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

If you see a problem that we haven't addressed, the best and most appropriate course for a forum member to take here is to look over to the left of the post in question. See underneath that poster's name, avatar, and other info, down where there's a little triangle with an exclamation point (!) in it? Click that. That allows you to report the post to the admins so we can definitely notice it and give it a look to see what we feel we should do about it. Beyond that, obviously it's human nature sometimes to want to speak up to the poster in question who has bothered you, but we would ask that you try to refrain from doing so because quite often what happens is two or more posters all start going back and forth about the original offending post, and suddenly the entire thread is off topic or otherwise derailed. So while the urge to police it yourself is understandable, it's best to just report it to us and let us handle it. Thank you!

All of the above is going to be subject to a case by case basis, but generally and broadly speaking, this should give everyone a pretty good idea of how things will typically / most often be handled.

Rule #2

If the actions of an administrator inspire you to make a comment, criticism, or express a concern about it, there is a wrong place and a couple of right places to do so.

The wrong place is to do so in the original thread in which the administrator took action. For example, if a post gets an infraction, or a post gets deleted, or a comment within a larger post gets clipped out, in a thread discussing Paul George, the wrong thing to do is to distract from the discussion of Paul George by adding your off topic thoughts on what the administrator did.

The right places to do so are:

A) Start a thread about the specific incident you want to talk about on the Feedback board. This way you are able to express yourself in an area that doesn't throw another thread off topic, and this way others can add their two cents as well if they wish, and additionally if there's something that needs to be said by the administrators, that is where they will respond to it.

B) Send a private message to the administrators, and they can respond to you that way.

If this is done the wrong way, those comments will be deleted, and if it's a repeating problem then it may also receive an infraction as well.

Rule #3

If a poster is bothering you, and an administrator has not or will not deal with that poster to the extent that you would prefer, you have a powerful tool at your disposal, one that has recently been upgraded and is now better than ever: The ability to ignore a user.

When you ignore a user, you will unfortunately still see some hints of their existence (nothing we can do about that), however, it does the following key things:

A) Any post they make will be completely invisible as you scroll through a thread.

B) The new addition to this feature: If someone QUOTES a user you are ignoring, you do not have to read who it was, or what that poster said, unless you go out of your way to click on a link to find out who it is and what they said.

To utilize this feature, from any page on Pacers Digest, scroll to the top of the page, look to the top right where it says 'Settings' and click that. From the settings page, look to the left side of the page where it says 'My Settings', and look down from there until you see 'Edit Ignore List' and click that. From here, it will say 'Add a Member to Your List...' Beneath that, click in the text box to the right of 'User Name', type in or copy & paste the username of the poster you are ignoring, and once their name is in the box, look over to the far right and click the 'Okay' button. All done!

Rule #4

Regarding infractions, currently they carry a value of one point each, and that point will expire in 31 days. If at any point a poster is carrying three points at the same time, that poster will be suspended until the oldest of the three points expires.

Rule #5

When you share or paste content or articles from another website, you must include the URL/link back to where you found it, who wrote it, and what website it's from. Said content will be removed if this doesn't happen.

An example:

If I copy and paste an article from the Indianapolis Star website, I would post something like this:

http://www.linktothearticlegoeshere.com/article
Title of the Article
Author's Name
Indianapolis Star

Rule #6

We cannot tolerate illegal videos on Pacers Digest. This means do not share any links to them, do not mention any websites that host them or link to them, do not describe how to find them in any way, and do not ask about them. Posts doing anything of the sort will be removed, the offenders will be contacted privately, and if the problem becomes habitual, you will be suspended, and if it still persists, you will probably be banned.

The legal means of watching or listening to NBA games are NBA League Pass Broadband (for US, or for International; both cost money) and NBA Audio League Pass (which is free). Look for them on NBA.com.

Rule #7

Provocative statements in a signature, or as an avatar, or as the 'tagline' beneath a poster's username (where it says 'Member' or 'Administrator' by default, if it is not altered) are an unwanted distraction that will more than likely be removed on sight. There can be shades of gray to this, but in general this could be something political or religious that is likely going to provoke or upset people, or otherwise something that is mean-spirited at the expense of a poster, a group of people, or a population.

It may or may not go without saying, but this goes for threads and posts as well, particularly when it's not made on the off-topic board (Market Square).

We do make exceptions if we feel the content is both innocuous and unlikely to cause social problems on the forum (such as wishing someone a Merry Christmas or a Happy Easter), and we also also make exceptions if such topics come up with regards to a sports figure (such as the Lance Stephenson situation bringing up discussions of domestic abuse and the law, or when Jason Collins came out as gay and how that lead to some discussion about gay rights).

However, once the discussion seems to be more/mostly about the political issues instead of the sports figure or his specific situation, the thread is usually closed.

Rule #8

We prefer self-restraint and/or modesty when making jokes or off topic comments in a sports discussion thread. They can be fun, but sometimes they derail or distract from a topic, and we don't want to see that happen. If we feel it is a problem, we will either delete or move those posts from the thread.

Rule #9

Generally speaking, we try to be a "PG-13" rated board, and we don't want to see sexual content or similarly suggestive content. Vulgarity is a more muddled issue, though again we prefer things to lean more towards "PG-13" than "R". If we feel things have gone too far, we will step in.

Rule #10

We like small signatures, not big signatures. The bigger the signature, the more likely it is an annoying or distracting signature.

Rule #11

Do not advertise anything without talking about it with the administrators first. This includes advertising with your signature, with your avatar, through private messaging, and/or by making a thread or post.
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  • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

    Originally posted by presto123 View Post
    Still enjoying Bates Motel immensely.
    I tried this one, just couldn't do it. Felt too uncomfortable with the constant barrage of incestual tension. I mean, I get that you should be prepared for that already if you know anything about Psycho, but still, it just kind of made my skin crawl when I watched.

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      Originally posted by Dr. Hibbert View Post
      I fear the decision to "save" Frank is a bit deus ex machina (I mean...really? at that point), but I'm willing to see how it plays out. If it spins the character in a new, interesting direction, i.e. he's somewhat damaged from it, or really does have to go stone cold sober (and really tries to do it, versus the one-episode kind of stuff), then it becomes a compelling move to me. If he just goes back to being Drunk Frank, then I think this season will feel a bit pointless in retrospect.

      I do like the direction they're taking Bonnie's character. That had the potential to be a complete "jump the shark" thing, and I would have said that a few weeks ago. But I like what they revealed with the van and her family. It kind of sets her up as a Bizarro Fiona. It was the first thing to intrigue me about her character, and Carl's relationship with her. That has some potential, finally.

      Not a huge fan of the Kev/V storyline this season. Seems pretty silly and predictable. And Kev sticking up Mickey wasn't really wholly believable, seemed to just be unnecessary drama/conflict.

      Interested to see where they take the last two episodes. Glad they're not going to dwell on Fiona at rock bottom, apparently. She's bottomed out and they gave the perfect amount of time to that downward spiral. Now comes repentance.
      It really kind of is. I listened to a podcast that had Emmy Rossum on it and the intention was originally for Frank to die. Then they got renewed for another season and, well...deus ex machina!

      Agree completely with the Bonnie character.

      Another thing I learned from that podcast was the whole Kev and V having babies thing was because the actress who played V was pregnant in real life, so they wrote that into the storyline. Still, it's gotten out of hand.

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      • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

        Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
        Thankfully there is just one more week left until How I Met Your Mother puts us all out of our misery. God this season has been absolutely awful. It's as if the writers just decided to be giant douches and give the finger to the show's fans this season. I've never seen so much wasted potential in a show's final season. This was the ultimate mailing in. The show has taken its name way too literally, and it looks like the very last scene of the show will be Ted meeting the mother. They should have gotten this damn wedding out of the way at the beginning of the season and developed the mother for the rest of the year. Such a waste. A few of the recent episodes have been better, but this season gets a giant F overall. I'll remember this show for the hilarious show that it used to be, not for the train wreck of a final season that it put us through.
        I dunno... I've enjoyed this season for the most part. I think its a pretty great show. I'm definitely sad to see it go. I think people give the show an unfair criticism based on the fact that there has always been this singular point to the show from the beginning. "Meet the MOTHER Already!" People were clamoring for him to meet the mother back in season 2 for pete sake. For that alone it seems like folks are just unwilling to let it be a sitcom. Like there always has to be progress.

        I think you are right that it might end with a "Haaaave You Met Ted?" Moment. Which will be very abrupt, but it would be neat to have it go full circle like that back to the first episode.

        I agree with you some that the Wedding has taken up too much space. I don't mind the season over a weekend idea. But it seemed like every other episode Robin was having a nervous break down about getting married, or a break down about what kind of person Barney is. So yea more time could have been spend up to this point fleshing the Mother out a bit more. But they are leaving her character just outside of arms reach for a reason. They are giving you clues all throughout the season about her personality and how it matches up with Ted. The audience gets to see how perfect she is for Ted before he gets to. Its also pretty neat that she has had profound effect on every character's story ark before Ted even see's her. If they spent the whole season developing her and Ted's relationship, then you the audience would have the opportunity to judge her.

        I think one area they have really messed up on is that they have already showed their 1st date, the proposal on the light house, along with some sort of anniversary dinner in the future. Those flash forwards are forcing a chemistry or connection before the audience has even had the chance to see it happen. As a fan of the show I definitely wanted to see the 2 characters lock eyes for the first time and have a real connection before seeing those kinds of scenes. I'm not even sure I needed to see the proposal at all.

        Still love the show though.
        You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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        • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

          How I Met Your Mother. Very disappointing. That's all I'll say for now.

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          • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

            How I Settled For Your Mother When I Realized That The Woman I Really Loved Was Marrying A Childish Sociopath Who Also Happened to Be My Best Friend - Which Inevitably Would Crash in Flames - But Thanks to Your Mother's Tragic Death I Will Finally Be Able to Have This Woman Who Doesn't Look Nearly as Attractive With The Hairstyle She Wears in Her 40's - Which Reminds Me of How The Writers Never Did Take Enough Advantage of This Actress's Hotness, Particularly in Later Seasons

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            • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

              Or Why I Met Your Mother (so my kids could ok my going with choice A)

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              • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                A few recent thoughts...

                1. Walking Dead finale ... I liked it, but I didn't realize it was the finale until after. The whole Claimers vs Rick scene was one of the darkest I've seen on non-premium cable for quite some time. When that one claimer was about to rape Carl, I just looked over at my friend with a WTF expression on my face. Didn't think that series would go there. But I liked the compare/contrast effort with survivalism and zombies, essentially. You do what you have to in order to survive and protect those you love, no matter how barbaric. And I liked the gang finally getting back together at Terminus, no matter how clumsy its execution may have been. Series operates better when everyone is in one place. My only criticism was the final line. I get that they can't drop the f-bomb on AMC, but "screwed with the wrong people" just sounded cheesy.

                2. Shameless continues to surprise and amaze me. More top 5 episodes this season than any other season. This last episode was no exception. It's probably a bit deus ex machina that writers allowed Frank to survive, but it made for an interesting and touching episode in his post-op delusion, apologizing to a "young Fiona" as the adult Fiona had totally lost her innocence. I also like that Mickey & Ian aren't the stereotypical gay couple you see in every other TV series. They've done a nice job of adding depth and character to those two. I still think that ends in tragedy sooner rather than later, but to a larger point, I just like that Shameless writers take risks, and in the process, have shown they can flesh out relatable, entirely human characters. Some of their decisions are a bit hit-or-miss, but in general, I find the series depicts more honest, realistic relationships than any other series on TV. I'm really starting to like the Carl-Bonnie dynamic, too, after I thought they'd jumped the shark with the armed robbery a few weeks ago. As I said before, she's basically bizarro Fiona, and I get the sense she is a victim of sexual abuse as well (got the same sense from Frank this week). It's a dynamic that really humanizes Carl's character, which was a character in need of humanization.

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                • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                  Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
                  This Woman Who Doesn't Look Nearly as Attractive With The Hairstyle She Wears in Her 40's - Which Reminds Me of How The Writers Never Did Take Enough Advantage of This Actress's Hotness, Particularly in Later Seasons
                  I agreed with everything you said, but especially this. Hoping she gets looped into SHIELD now that they finally put a bullet to this once great show.
                  Come to the Dark Side -- There's cookies!

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                  • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                    The funniest thing about Shameless is that it got moved to the comedy category for the Emmy's when it's anything but these days. Some dark humor, sure, I guess, but that's not Emmy comedy. Frank needs to go though. He's great, but Will Macy's not the reason anyone's watching anymore and I doubt they're about to pick up new viewers. I...enjoyed, for lack of a better word, the quick bit of background when Frank was delirious post-surgery that explained quite a bit, but it doesn't make up for the pretzel they twisted to keep him around.

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                    • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                      I maybe in the minority, but I really enjoyed the entire season and the final of The Walking Dead. Love the TV Show, the Comics and the TellTale games.


                      How I Met Your Mother series final was a disappointing cluster ****.


                      I just finished re-watching the 1st season of Veronica Mars. Great TV Show. I'm going to re-watch season 2 and 3 before I see the new Movie.
                      If you haven't seen it, it's a really good series. Season 1 and 2 were awesome, season 3 was good. A series well worth watching.
                      "Just look at the flowers ........ BANG" - Carol "The Walking Dead"

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                      • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                        As a fan of How I Meet Your Mother since the first episode I still do not know how I feel about the series finale. There were parts that I really liked and then other parts that I did not like at all.

                        Now the season finale of The Walking Dead I loved! I love this entire season and finally glad we got some direction for the series. So glad to have rid ourselves of Farmer Rick and got leader Rick back. The only thing I disliked about this season was that they turned Glenn into a bumbling idiot.

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                        • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                          The Veronica Mars movie is pretty good. If you liked the series, no doubt you'll like the movie. It was basically a 90-minute fan service project funded by fans. I can't imagine it would be half as fun/funny if you hadn't ever seen the series.

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                          • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                            Looks like I'm in the minority again, but I loved HIMYM finale. It all makes perfect sense, why Ted started his story with him meeting Robin. All of it. Last night I kept wondering if this was the plan all along, and then reading an article today it hit me how dumb that question was......Ted's kids never got older. Come to find out, they shot the last scene with an older Ted and the kids 8 years ago. The writers knew this ending when they did the pilot and shot that scene just so the actors playing the kids wouldn't age. I never thought about it until it was staring me in the face.
                            Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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                            • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                              Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                              Looks like I'm in the minority again, but I loved HIMYM finale. It all makes perfect sense, why Ted started his story with him meeting Robin. All of it. Last night I kept wondering if this was the plan all along, and then reading an article today it hit me how dumb that question was......Ted's kids never got older. Come to find out, they shot the last scene with an older Ted and the kids 8 years ago. The writers knew this ending when they did the pilot and shot that scene just so the actors playing the kids wouldn't age. I never thought about it until it was staring me in the face.
                              I really didn't have too much of a problem with the finale. It entertained me, which is more than I can say about the majority of this season's crappy filler episodes. I do think that ending up with Robin was a bit....forced...but I was glad that Robin and Barney broke up. I thought they were awful together. My main problem with Robin and Ted is that Robin never really seemed to love Ted. He tried about a billion different times to get her, but she didn't take any of the opportunities. Yet as a lonely 50 year old, she finally realizes that she loves him? And why didn't she meet any new friends/lovers in the 13 or so years after divorcing Barney? She traveled the world as a famous reporter, yet it seems as though she didn't meet a single new person. She was like that woman in Home Alone.

                              Of course, I could live with all of that if the mother wasn't so tragically unused this season. After hyping up this mother for 9 years, they owed it to their fans to have FAR MORE scenes of her interacting with Ted, either in the present or the future. It's a shame because her and Ted had great chemistry on camera. Also, there were barely any scenes of her with the rest of the gang. It's just all a shame. The show was named for her, but she just seemed like a bunch of underused filler this season.

                              And just because they shot those scenes with the kids doesn't mean that they had to use them. I absolutely loved this show, but I feel that this was about the worst final season I've ever seen from a quality TV show. The finale was entertaining, but it was just the final nail in the coffin of severely ignoring golden opportunities to do a bit more with the mother. I mean the mother was served up to them on a silver platter this season and gave them an opportunity to reignite some spark into the show, but instead they gave us lame filler slap episodes while Marshall was driving with that annoying woman for like half of the season.

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                              • Re: What TV Show Did You Last Watch

                                Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                                Sometimes I feel like Ted is a lesser douchey Ross Gellar. I hate the fact that I know just how douchey Ross Gellar was, btw.
                                The way the show ended made Ted seem really douchey. I think he took so long to get married because he thought it might end sooner. Got a lucky break with the death. Why no funeral scene?

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