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    Originally posted by Sollozzo View Post
    I really didn't have too much of a problem with the finale. It entertained me, which is more than I can say about the majority of this season's crappy filler episodes. I do think that ending up with Robin was a bit....forced...but I was glad that Robin and Barney broke up. I thought they were awful together. My main problem with Robin and Ted is that Robin never really seemed to love Ted. He tried about a billion different times to get her, but she didn't take any of the opportunities. Yet as a lonely 50 year old, she finally realizes that she loves him? And why didn't she meet any new friends/lovers in the 13 or so years after divorcing Barney? She traveled the world as a famous reporter, yet it seems as though she didn't meet a single new person. She was like that woman in Home Alone.

    Of course, I could live with all of that if the mother wasn't so tragically unused this season. After hyping up this mother for 9 years, they owed it to their fans to have FAR MORE scenes of her interacting with Ted, either in the present or the future. It's a shame because her and Ted had great chemistry on camera. Also, there were barely any scenes of her with the rest of the gang. It's just all a shame. The show was named for her, but she just seemed like a bunch of underused filler this season.

    And just because they shot those scenes with the kids doesn't mean that they had to use them. I absolutely loved this show, but I feel that this was about the worst final season I've ever seen from a quality TV show. The finale was entertaining, but it was just the final nail in the coffin of severely ignoring golden opportunities to do a bit more with the mother. I mean the mother was served up to them on a silver platter this season and gave them an opportunity to reignite some spark into the show, but instead they gave us lame filler slap episodes while Marshall was driving with that annoying woman for like half of the season.
    I don't think they intended to give the mom more air time because she was a means to an end. They could have done the whole series without the title and the kids scenes and played it out with her leaving Barney eventually and going with Ted. The shallowness of having the kids point out the story was not about their mom but robin fit Ted's shallow world I guess.

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      At least last night's episode of Bate's Motel made up for the Pacers and the above.

      Spoiler Spoiler:

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        Originally posted by SycamoreKen View Post
        At least last night's episode of Bate's Motel made up for the Pacers and the above.

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        I wondered about that too. Still loving the show though.

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          Agents of Shield was interesting tonight. Will be interesting to see where it goes.

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            I'm totally shocked by the HIMYM finale. Totally shocked.

            The whole thing just makes Ted look like a colossally shallow douche.

            I usually abhor predictable endings, but in this case all of these twists just leave a huge damper on an otherwise great show. I don't think I'll ever be able to watch it the same way again.

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              Originally posted by Since86 View Post
              Looks like I'm in the minority again, but I loved HIMYM finale. It all makes perfect sense, why Ted started his story with him meeting Robin. All of it. Last night I kept wondering if this was the plan all along, and then reading an article today it hit me how dumb that question was......Ted's kids never got older. Come to find out, they shot the last scene with an older Ted and the kids 8 years ago. The writers knew this ending when they did the pilot and shot that scene just so the actors playing the kids wouldn't age. I never thought about it until it was staring me in the face.
              I read about the extra footage of the kids many years ago. So i knew they would factor into the series end. But this ending seemed very forced. Of course it makes sense, because even the 2nd to last episode was about Ted and Robin. But I thought they really put a stop in that whole Ted and Robin idea just 2 episodes ago with Ted gave Barney the locket.

              I think I read at one point they wanted a full 10 seasons so they could realistically wrap it up the way they wanted it, but CBS was tired of the show and only gave them 9. After seeing that Last episode its clear they should not have tried to cram all that in with a 1 hour episode. There were some major themes that could have been explored. The death of the mother, 2 kids, Robin's thoughts of Ted at the Apartment party.

              Originally posted by SycamoreKen View Post
              The way the show ended made Ted seem really douchey. I think he took so long to get married because he thought it might end sooner. Got a lucky break with the death. Why no funeral scene?
              I think this is my only real beef with the Finale. The idea that it took TED, they guy who said he can't wait to get there, to be a husband; 7 years to marry that girl just doesn't make any sense! Maybe he was scared off that idea after getting left at the alter? I just feel like they never really gave a real reason for that.

              And where is the front porch scene in their retirement years? That could have been final scene, with Lily and Marshall settling their bet.
              You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                That was one of the strongest episodes of Agents of SHIELD yet. This next week is going to be fun...the repercussions of Captain America: The Winter Soldier on SHIELD is going to be fascinating as well as how that affects the TV show itself. Can't wait
                Don't ask Marvin Harrison what he did during the bye week. "Batman never told where the Bat Cave is," he explained.

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                  Originally posted by Since86 View Post
                  Looks like I'm in the minority again, but I loved HIMYM finale. It all makes perfect sense, why Ted started his story with him meeting Robin. All of it. Last night I kept wondering if this was the plan all along, and then reading an article today it hit me how dumb that question was......Ted's kids never got older. Come to find out, they shot the last scene with an older Ted and the kids 8 years ago. The writers knew this ending when they did the pilot and shot that scene just so the actors playing the kids wouldn't age. I never thought about it until it was staring me in the face.
                  Originally posted by SycamoreKen View Post
                  The way the show ended made Ted seem really douchey. I think he took so long to get married because he thought it might end sooner. Got a lucky break with the death. Why no funeral scene?
                  Originally posted by Shade View Post
                  I'm totally shocked by the HIMYM finale. Totally shocked.

                  The whole thing just makes Ted look like a colossally shallow douche.

                  I usually abhor predictable endings, but in this case all of these twists just leave a huge damper on an otherwise great show. I don't think I'll ever be able to watch it the same way again.
                  What is so Douchey about it? He waited 6 years after the mother's death. With the proper pretext, it was was established that Aunt Robin had been over for many dinners over the years. I think the major mistake they made was rushing through the romanticism of that moment. It deserved more than a happy gaze down from her window.
                  You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                    Because it gives the underlying feeling that Robin was always really Ted's #1 choice. Even the daughter pointed out as much at the end.

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                      Originally posted by Shade View Post
                      Because it gives the underlying feeling that Robin was always really Ted's #1 choice. Even the daughter pointed out as much at the end.
                      BUt didn't we already know that from watching the show over the years. The only reason Ted gave up on Robin was because she was going to marry Barney. Up until that point Ted always thought that maybe there was a chance, he gave it one last shot on the roof top moments before Barney was to execute his final play from the playbook. I don't think that means Ted never truly loved the mother, I think the revelation everyone has to catch up with is that the entire story is told with the knowledge that Tracy was already dead for 6 years. Everyone knows this but the viewer.

                      What I find is the most interesting yet frustrating reveals of the show is that Robin has always loved Ted, but always let her career or current relationships get in the way. They broke up the first time because she didn't' feel like she could give Ted what he ultimately wanted...the wife and kids deal. Yet when Ted was going to marry Stella, she had a very strong reaction to it and even openly questioned why isn't Ted marrying me? Then the whole Robin and Barney thing happened, and again Robin is pining for Ted on her wedding day. Then again when Ted already deeply entrenched in his own happiness with the mother.
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                      You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                        The problem is that for nine years they've been hyping up "the mother," and she turns out to be largely irrelevant to the story in the end. Sure Ted loved her, but we're led to believe that he was actually meant to be with Robin in the end. And, IMO, Tracy was a much better fit for Ted than Robin, so I really don't see what the message is supposed to be here.

                        Kind of like Barney having a kid with some random woman that we never even meet. What was the point?

                        The entire final season was spent focused on a marriage that quickly ended in divorce in the final episode? Really?

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                          Originally posted by Shade View Post
                          The problem is that for nine years they've been hyping up "the mother," and she turns out to be largely irrelevant to the story in the end. Sure Ted loved her, but we're led to believe that he was actually meant to be with Robin in the end. And, IMO, Tracy was a much better fit for Ted than Robin, so I really don't see what the message is supposed to be here.

                          Kind of like Barney having a kid with some random woman that we never even meet. What was the point?

                          The entire final season was spent focused on a marriage that quickly ended in divorce in the final episode? Really?
                          I haven't seen the finale or the final season yet, but I have read the spoilers. So speaking from personal experience, other shows that have used the format and based on the previous seasons that I have seen...

                          That the way it ended, was the only thing that fit the narrative in my opinion. To carry on a long talk about how he met their mother meant there was a reason for doing it and it would be odd to mention every fling and to continually mention Robin if that was the end. I don't think it's so much that they were meant to be together but their lives were consistently crossing paths and they were finally on the same wave length.

                          As far as Barney goes, he needed to learn how to love and he wasn't going to ever do that through hound-dogging or being in a monogamous relationship. Seeing as his lifestyle was a reflection of his childhood and the moment where he lost his love to a douchebag in a suit, having a child or a reason to change was what will help him to mature or change.

                          The final part is a reflection on life in general I think, there so many things in life that we think are the milestone or the destination yet end up being irrelevant or just a another point in our lives.
                          Originally posted by Natston;n3510291
                          I want the people to know that they still have 2 out of the 3 T.J.s working for them, and that ain't bad...

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                            Originally posted by Shade View Post
                            The problem is that for nine years they've been hyping up "the mother," and she turns out to be largely irrelevant to the story in the end. Sure Ted loved her, but we're led to believe that he was actually meant to be with Robin in the end. And, IMO, Tracy was a much better fit for Ted than Robin, so I really don't see what the message is supposed to be here.

                            Kind of like Barney having a kid with some random woman that we never even meet. What was the point?

                            The entire final season was spent focused on a marriage that quickly ended in divorce in the final episode? Really?
                            I don't think the mother was irrelevant, she was part of Ted's journey and that what the show was about from the beginning. The show was never about "my life with your mother" It was always about the journey of getting there and the people who got him there. I think alot of people are critical of the show over the years just because of the title. I think the show was just as much about Robin as it was Ted.

                            I think Barney's ending was a bit of a cop out from the divorce. I don't think they could justify throwing him back to the same character he was on day one of the show. So they gave him a very real and very sobering consequence of "just wanting to be me" That ultimately changed him for the better. I was not disappointed to never meet #31. That's Barney's style, he gave the relationship thing a go once and probably had no use for the woman.

                            I totally understand you criticisms though. Both my wife and i were not enjoying this while we watched it last night. We were confused, shocked, and just generally in disbelief at it all. I'm not sure why the creators stuck with he original ending, when it was clear that characters and their stories had out grown that ending of Ted and Robin. People have been talking for years how they wrote themselves into a corner if they were ever try and make the Ted and Robin thing work again.

                            I think an alternate ending could have been just showing them meeting at the train station and going on that first date the next day, and the show ending when when Ted says "I'm just remembering this". I think everyone would have been thrilled with that.
                            You can't get champagne from a garden hose.

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                              What makes the How I Settled For Your Mother finale unlikable to some is that Robin showed time and time again through the 9 years of the series that she never loved Ted like he loved her. I mean she married freaking Barney even though he was about 0.000001% as stable and loyal as Ted. The only time Robin really showed romantic interest is when she couldn't have him, such as when she wanted to run off with him before the wedding, or when she was looking at him and his wife at the roof Halloween party in the future. Yet as a 50 year old who seemingly didn't meet a single new romantic interest despite being a world famous reporter, she's finally willing to settle for widower Ted? It's just a bit....meh. With Ross and Rachel in Friends, you always got the sense that the love was pretty equal between them, so them ending up together at the end made sense, even if it was very predictable. But with Ted and Robin, it was always severely one sided. Ted chased her around like a puppy, but she never really reciprocated like him.

                              Naston makes a good point in that life cannot always be perfectly mapped out. So I'm fine with them killing off the mother, because that does help make the show more "real" in that stuff like that does tragically happen. My problem is that the mother was criminally underused throughout the season. I haven't been shy about the fact that revolving the entire season around a wedding between two characters who never made sense together and ultimately get divorced in the future was a terrible idea. But if they were hell bent on sticking to that putrid format and not advancing the show in the present, they could have at the very least shown far more of Ted and the mother in the future. There's just soooooooo much more that could have been done with the series in its final season. Great actors, great writing in the past, great show.......everything was so underused.

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                                Originally posted by graphic-er View Post
                                I think this is my only real beef with the Finale. The idea that it took TED, they guy who said he can't wait to get there, to be a husband; 7 years to marry that girl just doesn't make any sense! Maybe he was scared off that idea after getting left at the alter? I just feel like they never really gave a real reason for that.

                                And where is the front porch scene in their retirement years? That could have been final scene, with Lily and Marshall settling their bet.

                                HuffPo had a good write up about it. The point was that once Ted found "the one" he no longer carried about the ceremonial wedding. He just wanted to live his life. All the questions that he had about life disappeared. He stopped planning, and just lived.



                                And Ted has ALWAYS been douchey.
                                Just because you're offended, doesn't mean you're right.” ― Ricky Gervais.

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