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Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

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  • #16
    Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

    Originally posted by Hicks
    That's just sad, dude.



    Thanks for the invite, Jonny Boy, but my husband might have a say in that!!!!
    Besides, don't let the Babe part of my name fool you. I'm probably old enough to be your mom

    Hicks, don't much like the insult, however! I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. I haven't posted much on here, because I feel like nobody cares what I say. That might have just put the icing on the cake. I'll probably just keep lurking and keep my questions and opinions to myself. And to think I almost insisted that my husband and I go to the forum party.

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    • #17
      Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

      Uncle Buck & Jon Bender will forever be one of life's great mystery's to me.

      If I didn't know better I would think he likes him just to be contrary to me

      He is everything you hate in basketball but yet you have always professed love for the guy.

      Oh well, probably no worse than what you think of me & Foster.

      Well since I'm the resident conspirocy person I don't want to dissapoint anyone so here is today's question.

      Why in the name of God did the Pacers wait till after the season started to have an MRI of Jon's knee???

      I understand why they don't just do routine MRI's on everyone but with Jon I would think that this would be something they would do before ever allowing him on the floor.

      This is probably a question for Kaufman, can you explain is there a risk reason why they wouldn't do this?

      On another front, PacerMuncieBabe is right. If Jon is going to continue to take the money then he really should be up here doing with the team.


      Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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      • #18
        Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

        Originally posted by MunciePacerBabe

        Thanks for the invite, Jonny Boy, but my husband might have a say in that!!!!
        Besides, don't let the Babe part of my name fool you. I'm probably old enough to be your mom

        Hicks, don't much like the insult, however! I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. I haven't posted much on here, because I feel like nobody cares what I say. That might have just put the icing on the cake. I'll probably just keep lurking and keep my questions and opinions to myself. And to think I almost insisted that my husband and I go to the forum party.
        I'm not sure Hick's saw this but I thought I better jump in on this.

        He was not insulting you at all. If anything he was talking about JonTheodore.

        I've met Hicks & trust me the last thing he would want was for you to be insulted by this remark. He is quite a nice young man and would probably be hurt if you quit posting over this.

        I hope some day to meet you & your husband at the party, is he a big fan btw?

        Please, if anything, post more often.


        Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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        • #19
          Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

          Originally posted by Hicks
          That's just sad, dude.
          Really sad.

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          • #20
            Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

            Originally posted by MunciePacerBabe

            Thanks for the invite, Jonny Boy, but my husband might have a say in that!!!!
            Besides, don't let the Babe part of my name fool you. I'm probably old enough to be your mom

            Hicks, don't much like the insult, however! I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. I haven't posted much on here, because I feel like nobody cares what I say. That might have just put the icing on the cake. I'll probably just keep lurking and keep my questions and opinions to myself. And to think I almost insisted that my husband and I go to the forum party.
            That's just sad, dude.
            I am 100% certain that what Hicks said wasn't directed at you but at a poster on this board propositioning women as if this was some sort of internet singles cafe.
            The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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            • #21
              Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

              Originally posted by MunciePacerBabe
              My question still stands:

              Why is he not sitting on the bench with the team like he still belongs to the Pacers? I think it seems weird that he isn't part of the team. Jamaal sits with the team, doesn't he? Ehat makes this situation different? I have been curious for a long time.
              Good question.


              Where does Jon go nowadays?!
              You, Never? Did the Kenosha Kid?

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              • #22
                Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                Originally posted by Peck
                Uncle Buck & Jon Bender will forever be one of life's great mystery's to me.

                If I didn't know better I would think he likes him just to be contrary to me

                He is everything you hate in basketball but yet you have always professed love for the guy.

                Oh well, probably no worse than what you think of me & Foster.

                Well since I'm the resident conspirocy person
                I don't want to dissapoint anyone so here is today's question.

                Why in the name of God did the Pacers wait till after the season started to have an MRI of Jon's knee???

                I understand why they don't just do routine MRI's on everyone but with Jon I would think that this would be something they would do before ever allowing him on the floor.

                This is probably a question for Kaufman, can you explain is there a risk reason why they wouldn't do this?

                On another front, PacerMuncieBabe is right. If Jon is going to continue to take the money then he really should be up here doing with the team.
                Bball might ya there.
                You, Never? Did the Kenosha Kid?

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                • #23
                  Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                  I'm confused to whether Bender could ever be part of a trade. If he could then I understand this a little... assuming you don't take what he says about returning literally. But then saying anything at all about maybe coming back wouldn't help even if he could be traded and another reap the reward of a salary dump.

                  So I am going to take it at face value and just say Bender is being selfish... if not flat out contrary.

                  He's not that good if healthy... let alone injured. IOW, even at 100% he isn't much (certainly not 'superstar') and if he can never be 100% then he's worthless because his athleticism was all he ever had for a game anyway.

                  I'd say he could retire and do the Pacers a favor, and then if in a few years a miracle occurred and it appeared he could make a comeback, he could do just that. But I suppose he knows deep down, once he leaves the NBA, NOBODY is going to grease the skids for him like the Pacers have. He'd have to EARN his way back into the NBA. It would likely never happen for him. The first summer league game he decided to sit out, or just leave entirely, would be 'it' for him. The first icebag on a knee would likely doom him. That's assuming someone would even give him a shot in summer league a few years from now.

                  I will forever see Bender as the symbol of why Donnie Walsh's team have trouble getting over the hump. It's loyalty to a fault... It's overpaying our own... It's refusing to admit a mistake and holding on too long... It's stubbornly refusing to 'cut our losses' and just move on.

                  -Bball
                  Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

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                  "A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player. Losing yourself in the group, for the good of the group, that’s teamwork."

                  -John Wooden

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                  • #24
                    Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                    Originally posted by MunciePacerBabe

                    Thanks for the invite, Jonny Boy, but my husband might have a say in that!!!!
                    Besides, don't let the Babe part of my name fool you. I'm probably old enough to be your mom

                    Hicks, don't much like the insult, however! I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. I haven't posted much on here, because I feel like nobody cares what I say. That might have just put the icing on the cake. I'll probably just keep lurking and keep my questions and opinions to myself. And to think I almost insisted that my husband and I go to the forum party.
                    I'm sure Hicks' "insult" wasn't directed at you. I feel quite confident he felt Jon Theodore's comment might've made you uncomfortable or insulted you and that was his point. He didn't want you thinking this place was full of stalkers and perverts and was afraid you might take JT's comment that way.

                    So IOW his comment is having the absolute opposite effect than what he intended. He wanted to defend you so you wouldn't leave by not feeling comfortable here.

                    -Bball
                    Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

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                    "A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player. Losing yourself in the group, for the good of the group, that’s teamwork."

                    -John Wooden

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                    • #25
                      Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                      MunciePacerbabe, I care, and your opinion is just as good as anyone else's as far as I'm concerned!

                      I concur with the guys that say Hicks wasn't insulting you. If fact when I first read your post I thought you were saying that Hicks didn't like you being insulted by Jon. I read it that way because it just never occurred to me that Hicks would insult someone. I don't know him personally except for on here, but I've read thousands of his posts and he's not a person that insults people.

                      Keep posting please! I like reading what the distaff side has to say about the Pacers.

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                      • #26
                        Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                        As for your question about Bender, the Star said he was going to announce his retirement and then before it could happen the Ron mess happened. So like has been said, I think it has been put off until Artest is traded. The Pacer's know this so there is no reason for him to sit on the bench if he doesn't want to, since he will never play again.

                        As for Jon Theodore, if he was serious about falling in love, more power to him. However, he should have messaged you privately.

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                        • #27
                          Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                          Originally posted by MunciePacerBabe
                          My question still stands:

                          Why is he not sitting on the bench with the team like he still belongs to the Pacers? I think it seems weird that he isn't part of the team. Jamaal sits with the team, doesn't he? Ehat makes this situation different? I have been curious for a long time.
                          I'm hoping it means 'because the Pacers finally realized he was a bust and was in fact a distraction himself'. For whatever reason, players had to wonder/worry about their own roles when/if Bender declared himself ready for his 15 minutes. It was obvious Bender was going to get the chance to prove his contract and all this time (and money) wasn't a waste.

                          I think towards the end there was a change... Bender dressed and Carlisle still didn't put him. All of a sudden he was getting treated the way he deserved (he couldn't keep moving ahead of players in the rotation and then declaring himself 'injured' for a game or two (or more... many times many more) and then expect to get his spot back. It's an impossible situation for everybody).

                          So I think TPTB finally said "enough".

                          I'm just starting to think Bender isn't ready to say "enough" and I'm unconvinced he isn't doing this out of spite. If that is true that would really be selfish because this organization did WAY WAY WAY more for him than any other NBA team ever would've. He would never have gotten an extension anywhere else.

                          He could've been Marcus Haislip. He probably should have been.
                          For that matter, I would have rather had Marcus Haislip all these years over Bender.

                          FWIW... I'm HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY that Bender isn't on the bench. If he can't play consistent games, if his future role with the team is a giant question mark, then we're better off without that distraction.

                          In other words (by retiring due to injury):

                          Bender still has one last opportunity to finally make a real contribution to this team, to pay back their loyalty, and he isn't doing it.


                          -Bball
                          Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

                          ------

                          "A player who makes a team great is more valuable than a great player. Losing yourself in the group, for the good of the group, that’s teamwork."

                          -John Wooden

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                          • #28
                            Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                            Thank you all for supporting me correctly on this. MPB, I was referring only to Jon asking you out, I was in no way attempting to insult you, and I'm sorry if you felt that I was. Hopefully no harm done.

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                            • #29
                              Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                              MunciePacerBabe, if you and your husband are Pacer fans then you need to make it to a forum party. It is not a singles meet or anything remotely like that.

                              I can tell you this....There have been fathers and sons there, boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, and every person has been respectful because first and foremost they are good people who enjoy the common love for the Pacers. Hopefully one of our youngest female members will be able to come to the party with her family. Also it has been mentioned BillS plays on making it to the next party with his wife.

                              P.S.... Hicks, I understand perfectly what you were trying to say and if someone was trying a pickup line with my wife I would appreciate what you were trying to do.....And Jon, that's not a put down toward you. You didn't know, but a good example on how things can get misconstrued easily.
                              You know how hippos are made out to be sweet and silly, like big cows, but are actually extremely dangerous and can kill you with stunning brutality? The Pacers are the NBA's hippos....Matt Moore CBS Sports....

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                              • #30
                                Re: Stop the insanity... Bender... Will it end? (Indy Star Article)

                                Originally posted by RWB
                                And Jon, that's not a put down toward you. You didn't know, but a good example on how things can get misconstrued easily.
                                Personally, IMO asking someone out should be done privately, which is why there's a Private Message feature on this board ...
                                The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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