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  • #46
    Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

    I think that most of you guys are totally missing the point. Everyone seems to think that in one instance we are talking about a man's career and in the other instance, we are talking about a man's personal life.

    Bull****!!!

    If you tell me that you will not take a chance on me, you aren't saying a word about my career.

    You are talking about my character, clear and simple.

    Magic Johnson makes a statement about a man's character, the back, the man (Artest) responds back, and you somehow think the two are not the same? I suppose the only thing Artest would be guilty of is not putting himself above it all and simply "turning the other cheek".

    Now I don't know about you guys, but the most important things to me are the health/safety of my family and our reputations.

    In the workplace, the only thing of importance that I take to work and come home with every day is my reputation. If you attack that, then it forces me to defend it.

    In Ron's case, the mistake he made really couldn't be defended. And he said as much in his interview. So, human nature being what it is, he did what he thought was the next best thing. He reduced the power of the attack on his character by pointing out the hypocrisy of the one who made the statement.

    Bottom line is that when you attack the character of someone else, then by default your own character becomes fair game to the one you attacked.

    In this regard, I don't think Artest is any different than any of us.

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    • #47
      Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

      Originally posted by beast23
      I think that most of you guys are totally missing the point. Everyone seems to think that in one instance we are talking about a man's career and in the other instance, we are talking about a man's personal life.

      Bull****!!!

      If you tell me that you will not take a chance on me, you aren't saying a word about my career.

      You are talking about my character, clear and simple.

      Magic Johnson makes a statement about a man's character, the back, the man (Artest) responds back, and you somehow think the two are not the same? I suppose the only thing Artest would be guilty of is not putting himself above it all and simply "turning the other cheek".

      Now I don't know about you guys, but the most important things to me are the health/safety of my family and our reputations.

      In the workplace, the only thing of importance that I take to work and come home with every day is my reputation. If you attack that, then it forces me to defend it.

      In Ron's case, the mistake he made really couldn't be defended. And he said as much in his interview. So, human nature being what it is, he did what he thought was the next best thing. He reduced the power of the attack on his character by pointing out the hypocrisy of the one who made the statement.

      Bottom line is that when you attack the character of someone else, then by default your own character becomes fair game to the one you attacked.
      Amen.

      Originally posted by beast23
      In this regard, I don't think Artest is any different than any of us.
      Except for this.

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      • #48
        Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

        So if your boss ever fires you then a perfectly valid reply would be to say that his wife should divorce him because he's cheated on her? After all, your boss has just said that you are unfit to work for him, and you have to defend your reputation.

        Maybe Ron should challenge MJ to a duel, you know to protect his honor.

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        • #49
          Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

          Originally posted by Fool
          So if your boss ever fires you then a perfectly valid reply would be to say that his wife should divorce him because he's cheated on her? After all, your boss has just said that you are unfit to work for him, and you have to defend your reputation.
          Magic is Ron's boss?

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          • #50
            Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

            Originally posted by Fool
            Maybe Ron should challenge MJ to a duel, you know to protect his honor.

            It would probably look something like this.



            Basketball isn't played with computers, spreadsheets, and simulations. ChicagoJ 4/21/13

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            • #51
              Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

              Fool, if your boss fires you, it is almost always after you have had multiple discussions with him/her regarding a shortcoming in your performance or the quality of your work.

              During those earlier discussions you will amost always be given the opportunity to be heard. And there is ample opportunity to discuss the shortcomings of your boss and how an improvement in his shortcomings will help you to improve yourself in your own problem areas.

              As one who has both fired others, and has been fired himself, you could say I've been on both ends of the stick. Being fired very rarely has anything whatsoever to do with a knock on one's character. Firing (as opposed to being a victim of a cutback) almost always is about a problem with production or quality of work.

              So stating that I simply don't have enough knowledge or prior training to "get the job done" is in no way equivalent to a character attack.

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              • #52
                Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                Originally posted by beast23
                I think that most of you guys are totally missing the point. Everyone seems to think that in one instance we are talking about a man's career and in the other instance, we are talking about a man's personal life.

                Bull****!!!

                If you tell me that you will not take a chance on me, you aren't saying a word about my career.

                You are talking about my character, clear and simple.
                Agreed. Magic has chosen a job that has him speaking his opinion. If he can't handle tough responses to his opinion, that's on him. I have no problem with Ron saying this.

                p.s. I went to a couple Lakers message boards and the opinion seems pretty split -those who feel Ron insulted the whole organization and those who think Magic deserved it.
                "If you ever crawl inside an old hollow log and go to sleep, and while you're in there some guys come and seal up both ends and then put it on a truck and take it to another city, boy, I don't know what to tell you." - Jack Handy

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                • #53
                  Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                  Pretty low by Ron. Magic makes a legit comment in his role as a commentator and Ron decides to drag his personal life into this?

                  Oldest trick in the book - instead of actually dealing with your own problems, deflect the criticism by talking about something totally unrelated - and if it somehow involves sex, drug addiction, or any other serious character defect, all the better.

                  Carl Rove would be proud.
                  The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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                  • #54
                    Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                    Originally posted by DisplacedKnick
                    Pretty low by Ron. Magic makes a legit comment in his role as a commentator and Ron decides to drag his personal life into this?

                    Oldest trick in the book - instead of actually dealing with your own problems, deflect the criticism by talking about something totally unrelated - and if it somehow involves sex, drug addiction, or any other serious character defect, all the better.

                    Carl Rove would be proud.
                    Well said.

                    Also, Kstat mentioned this, but Artest is now persona non grata in LA. The Pacers just lost some leverage with the rest of the league. Not to mention the domino effect..just take a look around the league at how many of Magic's close friends are in positions of power with different teams.

                    When it comes down to it, this is just another case of Ron screwing over the Pacers. Couldn't they somehow get a retraining order to prevent him from making public comment?

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                    • #55
                      Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                      Originally posted by Jasikevicius fan3
                      "It's like saying, 'Magic, should your wife give you another chance?'" Artest said "He's saying Ron Artest should have no more second chances. What's worse -- me saying I want to be traded or you cheating on your wife?"
                      redneck. you can hardly come up with a dumber comparison. I mean, wasn't Magic cheating before he got infected? and it's none of Artest's business anyways.

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                      • #56
                        Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                        Originally posted by Mr._Basketball
                        When it comes down to it, this is just another case of Ron screwing over the Pacers. Couldn't they somehow get a retraining order to prevent him from making public comment?

                        Even if they could, he wouldn't obey it.

                        From the Pacers and Artest's own good, the best thing Ron could do would be to check in the hospital for elective surgery so they could cut out his tongue.

                        For everyone else though, that would really detract from the entertainment value.
                        The poster formerly known as Rimfire

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                        • #57
                          Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                          Originally posted by Harmonica
                          I guess if you don't consider passing HIV onto your partner and unborn child a threat, okay.
                          I'm not saying what Magic did was alright. He had a pretty major character flaw, and I'd say he paid for it dearly.

                          That said, don't you think Cookie knew he was a cad? Even if you want to believe she didn't, she still chose to stay with him. If you think she shouldn't have, that's fine, that's your opinion. Should she be criticized for it? I don't know, it's not like he was beating her or anything.

                          If you want to say Magic was criminally negligent for sleeping around, that's your opinion. Pretty damning statement, considering how many people in society sleep around, let alone pro athletes. Whether they actually contracted an STD is immaterial, because they all take the chance.

                          Even if you take as hardline a position as possible with Magic's HIV and his getting Westhead fired, I don't see how it can be compared with all the **** Ron's done.
                          Come to the Dark Side -- There's cookies!

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                          • #58
                            Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                            Originally posted by Kegboy
                            That said, don't you think Cookie knew he was a cad? Even if you want to believe she didn't, she still chose to stay with him. If you think she shouldn't have, that's fine, that's your opinion. Should she be criticized for it? I don't know, it's not like he was beating her or anything.
                            Yes, like Hilary Clinton, I believe she knew her husband was a dog. However, I would imagine that the last person Magic slept with wasn't the one who transmitted the virus to him. So you can probably safely conclude that he passed it along to others, who passed it along to others, and so on and so forth. Because of his celebrity and lack of self-control, he had the opportunity to hurt a great number of innocent (and not-so-innocent) people.

                            That said, no one is criticizing Cookie. Where did that come from? Now, I don't know what your beliefs are, or how you were raised, but a lot of people consider cheating on their partner a form of abuse. Certainly Chelsea suffered and her family suffered because of Clinton's philandering. I'm sure Magic's philandering has left some emotional scars on his family as well.

                            Originally posted by Kegboy
                            If you want to say Magic was criminally negligent for sleeping around, that's your opinion. Pretty damning statement, considering how many people in society sleep around, let alone pro athletes. Whether they actually contracted an STD is immaterial, because they all take the chance.

                            Even if you take as hardline a position as possible with Magic's HIV and his getting Westhead fired, I don't see how it can be compared with all the **** Ron's done.
                            I'm not suggesting Magic was criminally negligent. Again, where did that come from? Secondly, you're gathering opinions of mostly men here. Ask any woman whose deeds were worse: Ron's basketball antics or Magic's grotesque promiscuity? You'll get an entirely different picture altogether.

                            Let me be clear on one thing: Ron should have kept his mouth shut; that would have been the mature and wise thing to do. But the remark itself, whether you want to admit it or not, is pretty truthful. And as Vicious Tyrant said, "Magic has chosen a job that has him speaking his opinion. If he can't handle tough responses to his opinion, that's on him."

                            The problem I have with Ron's remarks are that they continue to hurt the organization.

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                            • #59
                              Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                              Originally posted by Fool
                              So if your boss ever fires you then a perfectly valid reply would be to say that his wife should divorce him because he's cheated on her? After all, your boss has just said that you are unfit to work for him, and you have to defend your reputation.

                              Maybe Ron should challenge MJ to a duel, you know to protect his honor.
                              I agree with you. We're talking about the character of both, but with Ron it's about what he's done as a basketball player, with Magic Ron is hitting his home life, not what he did in the NBA.

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                              • #60
                                Re: Artest distastefully responds to Magic Johnson

                                Originally posted by beast23
                                I think that most of you guys are totally missing the point. Everyone seems to think that in one instance we are talking about a man's career and in the other instance, we are talking about a man's personal life.

                                Bull****!!!

                                If you tell me that you will not take a chance on me, you aren't saying a word about my career.

                                You are talking about my character, clear and simple.

                                Magic Johnson makes a statement about a man's character, the back, the man (Artest) responds back, and you somehow think the two are not the same? I suppose the only thing Artest would be guilty of is not putting himself above it all and simply "turning the other cheek".

                                Now I don't know about you guys, but the most important things to me are the health/safety of my family and our reputations.

                                In the workplace, the only thing of importance that I take to work and come home with every day is my reputation. If you attack that, then it forces me to defend it.

                                In Ron's case, the mistake he made really couldn't be defended. And he said as much in his interview. So, human nature being what it is, he did what he thought was the next best thing. He reduced the power of the attack on his character by pointing out the hypocrisy of the one who made the statement.

                                Bottom line is that when you attack the character of someone else, then by default your own character becomes fair game to the one you attacked.

                                In this regard, I don't think Artest is any different than any of us.
                                Did you listen to Magic's statement? He said if Ron did ONE more crazy thing after he gets traded then he's out. He actually said that this was Ron's last chance to act properly. But then again you can't teach an old dog new tricks. If youre fine with how Ron responded to Magic's statement then so be it, but how can you say Magic is a hypocrite? Because he obtained AIDS he can't call out a player for acting unprofessionally? This is the NBA ang not the ghetto. Act accordingly or be bashed by the media and fined. And with how Ron reacted I just think he just doesn't and will never know any better. Some people just don't understand the concept of diplomacy, professionalism, respect and taking responsibility for you actions. He said he knew he dug himself a hole and after everything he's done, is it really SHOCKING for people to say that when he gets traded that he should be in his best behaviour? If Ron was offended with that and did not get the essence of what Magic said that he really has to straighten up, then he's really just an immature stupid kid who doesn't even know how to respect rules and has too much pride too really look within himself to correct his crap and rather dig crap from another than to just reform.
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