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Pacers Digest is intended to be a place to discuss basketball without having to deal with the kinds of behaviors or attitudes that distract people from sticking with the discussion of the topics at hand. These unwanted distractions can come in many forms, and admittedly it can sometimes be tricky to pin down each and every kind that can rear its ugly head, but we feel that the following examples and explanations cover at least a good portion of that ground and should at least give people a pretty good idea of the kinds of things we actively discourage:

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"Remember when PosterX said OldCommentY that no longer looks good? "

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We also dissuade passive aggressive behavior. This can be various things, but common examples include statements that are basically meant to imply someone is either stupid or otherwise incapable of holding a rational conversation. This can include (but is not limited to) laughing at someone's conclusions rather than offering an honest rebuttal, asking people what game they were watching, or another common problem is Poster X will say "that player isn't that bad" and then Poster Y will say something akin to "LOL you think that player is good". We're not going to tolerate those kinds of comments out of respect for the community at large and for the sake of trying to just have an honest conversation.

Now, does the above cover absolutely every single kind of distraction that is unwanted? Probably not, but you should by now have a good idea of the general types of things we will be discouraging. The above examples are meant to give you a good feel for / idea of what we're looking for. If something new or different than the above happens to come along and results in the same problem (that being, any other attitude or behavior that ultimately distracts from actually just discussing the topic at hand, or that is otherwise disrespectful to other posters), we can and we will take action to curb this as well, so please don't take this to mean that if you managed to technically avoid saying something exactly like one of the above examples that you are then somehow off the hook.

That all having been said, our goal is to do so in a generally kind and respectful way, and that doesn't mean the moment we see something we don't like that somebody is going to be suspended or banned, either. It just means that at the very least we will probably say something about it, quite possibly snipping out the distracting parts of the post in question while leaving alone the parts that are actually just discussing the topics, and in the event of a repeating or excessive problem, then we will start issuing infractions to try to further discourage further repeat problems, and if it just never seems to improve, then finally suspensions or bans will come into play. We would prefer it never went that far, and most of the time for most of our posters, it won't ever have to.

A slip up every once and a while is pretty normal, but, again, when it becomes repetitive or excessive, something will be done. Something occasional is probably going to be let go (within reason), but when it starts to become habitual or otherwise a pattern, odds are very good that we will step in.

There's always a small minority that like to push people's buttons and/or test their own boundaries with regards to the administrators, and in the case of someone acting like that, please be aware that this is not a court of law, but a private website run by people who are simply trying to do the right thing as they see it. If we feel that you are a special case that needs to be dealt with in an exceptional way because your behavior isn't explicitly mirroring one of our above examples of what we generally discourage, we can and we will take atypical action to prevent this from continuing if you are not cooperative with us.

Also please be aware that you will not be given a pass simply by claiming that you were 'only joking,' because quite honestly, when someone really is just joking, for one thing most people tend to pick up on the joke, including the person or group that is the target of the joke, and for another thing, in the event where an honest joke gets taken seriously and it upsets or angers someone, the person who is truly 'only joking' will quite commonly go out of his / her way to apologize and will try to mend fences. People who are dishonest about their statements being 'jokes' do not do so, and in turn that becomes a clear sign of what is really going on. It's nothing new.

In any case, quite frankly, the overall quality and health of the entire forum's community is more important than any one troublesome user will ever be, regardless of exactly how a problem is exhibiting itself, and if it comes down to us having to make a choice between you versus the greater health and happiness of the entire community, the community of this forum will win every time.

Lastly, there are also some posters, who are generally great contributors and do not otherwise cause any problems, who sometimes feel it's their place to provoke or to otherwise 'mess with' that small minority of people described in the last paragraph, and while we possibly might understand why you might feel you WANT to do something like that, the truth is we can't actually tolerate that kind of behavior from you any more than we can tolerate the behavior from them. So if we feel that you are trying to provoke those other posters into doing or saying something that will get themselves into trouble, then we will start to view you as a problem as well, because of the same reason as before: The overall health of the forum comes first, and trying to stir the pot with someone like that doesn't help, it just makes it worse. Some will simply disagree with this philosophy, but if so, then so be it because ultimately we have to do what we think is best so long as it's up to us.

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Michael Irvin accused of rape

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  • Michael Irvin accused of rape

    Don't these people learn anything from Kobe? Or in Irvin's case from the last bogus rape claim.

    http://www.miamiherald.com/news/brea...y/1463608.html






    A woman who says she was raped by football star Michael Irvin at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino filed a civil lawsuit against him Thursday in Broward Circuit Court.

    Although no criminal charges have been filed, the Broward State Attorney's Office has been looking into the case and is expected to reach a conclusion next week, said spokesman Ron Ishoy.

    The woman said the attack happened in 2007, in the late hours of July 4 or early July 5. The suit doesn't name the woman, referring to her as Jane Doe.

    Irvin's lawyer, Larry Friedman, called the accusations ``totally untrue.''

    When asked to describe her contact with Irvin, Friedman said, ``Beyond, perhaps, meeting her, there was nothing.''

    In the suit, the woman said Irvin bought her alcohol to get her drunk, then lured her to his hotel room. That's where he and another man tried stuffing money into her clothes, the suit said.

    She said Irvin and the other man insisted on sexual favors. She said no.

    That's when the unidentified man held her down and covered her mouth, according to the suit, then Irvin raped her, she said. When Irvin was done, the other man forced her to perform oral sex.

    Afterward, Irvin's brother, Derrick Irvin, came in and took her to another room and ``assisted in covering the sexual assault and rape up,'' according to the civil lawsuit.

    The one man is unidentified because the woman doesn't know who he is, said her lawyer, David Lister.

    It was reported to Seminole police on July 20, 2007, Seminole Tribe spokesman Gary Bitner said.

    ``They investigated it thoroughly,'' Bitner said. ``Although by that time there was no longer any forensic evidence or surveillance video.''

    A day later, the woman signed a waiver of prosecution, which Bitner attributed to ``her desire to essentially put it behind her and not have it be splashed all over the newspapers.''

    Bitner said the tribe turned over its findings to Broward prosecutors.

    The woman's lawyer, Lister, said he had no comment about the Seminole police investigation.

    He said his client had passed a polygraph test.

    Lister also said his client and Irvin's counsel had been in negotiations for a financial settlement, but those talks stalled, prompting the lawsuit filed three days before the Super Bowl is being played in Miami.

    ``There were discussion back and forth between the parties,'' Lister said, adding that Irvin's representatives had asked for a settlement figure. ``Nothing came of it.''

    Friedman, Irvin's attorney, called the discussions attempts at extortion.

    He said the woman came forward last year, after Irvin appeared on a few episodes of the television show Dancing With the Stars.

    First, she wanted $1 million, Friedman said, then came down to $800,000.

    Each time, Friedman said no.

    ``This complaint is tantamount to criminal extortion,'' Friedman said. ``There is no merit to the complaint.''

    Irvin, an NFL Hall of Famer, grew up in Fort Lauderdale and was a star at the University of Miami before joining the Dallas Cowboys.

    He's had run-ins with the law, including pleading no contest to a cocaine charge in 1996.

    Later in that same year, Irvin and a teammate were accused with sexually assaulting a woman. An investigation revealed the woman had made up the story and she soon recanted.

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    Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

    Originally posted by Basketball Fan View Post
    Don't these people learn anything from Kobe? Or in Irvin's case from the last bogus rape claim.

    http://www.miamiherald.com/news/brea...y/1463608.html
    Well if Irvin's lawyer is telling the truth that beyond just "meeting her", that the rest of the story is false ... then what is he to learn? To not leave his house?

    -- Steve --

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      Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

      I seriously doubt there is anything to this story other than greed and attempted extortion. Probably happens to celebrities more than we know...



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        Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

        I'll take it seriously if criminal charges are pressed.

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          Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

          Originally posted by Pacersfan46 View Post
          Well if Irvin's lawyer is telling the truth that beyond just "meeting her", that the rest of the story is false ... then what is he to learn? To not leave his house?

          -- Steve --


          True but I guess they could go to extremes like Albert Pujols does and makes sure he's never alone with a woman anywhere.

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            Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

            Well that was fast

            http://sportsmediablog.dallasnews.co...n-1033-be.html

            Michael Irvin out ESPN 103.3; Ben & Skin are in
            10:02 AM Fri, Feb 05, 2010 | Permalink
            Barry Horn/Reporter E-mail News tips

            I got the word from Bristol about two minutes ago.

            Michael Irvin has done his last radio show for ESPN 103.3.

            "The show was not performing and we had previously determined to end the show," ESPN spokesman Josh Krulewitz told me.

            Krulewitz said news of a lawsuit filed in Fort Lauderdale alleging a rape in 2007 simply expedited the situation.

            Irvin's also had was falling ratings.

            Ben & Skin start today.

            Irvin's other employer, NFL Network, told me earlier this morning they had not decided if Irvin would work any more Super Bowl studios.

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              Re: Michael Irvin accused of rape

              Well he's going to countersue

              http://cbs11tv.com/local/michael.irv...2.1473908.html

              Irvin Countersues Rape Accuser, Wants $100 Million
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              Former football player Michael Irvin arrives at Spike TV's 2009 "Guys Choice Awards" held at the Sony Studios on May 30, 2009 in Los Angeles, California.

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              Just hours after ESPN canceled Michael Irvin's radio show, the former Dallas Cowboys star has counter-sued the woman who is accusing him of rape.

              The lawsuit was filed Friday afternoon. In it, Irvin asks a judge to award him more than $100 million. He says the woman is trying to extort money from him.

              In the lawsuit, Irvin claims that the woman first went to Florida police in 2007, shortly after the alleged rape occurred. But the lawsuit claims the woman signed two waivers of prosecution, and says the police department stopped investigating the case.

              Next week, the state attorney's office in Broward County, Florida, is expected to look into possible criminal charges against Irvin in connection with the rape.

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