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  • Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

    No, I'm not moving, but I get the pleasure of helping someone else move next week. Really I think that is the worst job of all - helping someone else move. When you yourself are moving you have control, you can throw a lot of stuff out ahead of time, you can pack ahead of time, you can get organized - but when you are helping someone else move and you are the only other person helping - you have as much work, but can't control what is going to take place. So I am dreading it, especially if it is as hot as it likely will be.

    So I ask if anyone has any good tips on moving. We have a u-haul truck reserved. I keep asking him questions about him getting boxes, or starting to pack - I fear he hasn't starting
    doing anything.

    If you want to relate any moving nightmares - or stories of your easiest and quickest move- I would love to read them

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    Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

    U-Haul screwed me royally. I moved from TN to Fort Wayne. They had me drive 1 1/2 hours out of my way to pick up a truck. We passed a dozen U-Haul places.

    We get the truck, which is a Canadian truck so everything is in Kilometers, no big deal. I took a shorter route than suggested, and then I called to drop off the truck.

    The dude was not even there, he said to put the keys and paper work in the passenger side, and if I went over in miles he would comp me. I was under in miles.

    Everything was fine for a few months until I recieved a letter for small claims court. They said that I went 300 miles or so out of my way and went above the calculated charge.

    I called them and they pushed me around to diffrent branches and districts. I called the regional manager in Toledo and he accused me of lying. When I said that I could not have gone over in miles, because the truck was in kilometers, he said that the guy who I dropped the truck off at would have used the conversion chart. When I did the math over the phone he refused to listen to me.

    So I called down to the guy in whom I recieved the truck. I made the same suggestion and he said, "Oh **** yes, the know better". Then he gave me the number to his district manager. After 5 hours on the phone I was sent to the affadvit department. And everything was peachy king in their books.

    I was irate, I spent more time getting this thing taken care of then actually picking up the truck. The reason I had to drive so far out of my way was because the truck needed to be returned to Canada.

    So it is all Newman's fault.

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    • #3
      Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

      i had a span in my life where i moved 12 times in 12 years...things i learned from it are:

      - be careful...even with the slightest move...i went to pick up a screw from the floor in one of the moves and messed up my back.

      - if one can, go with professionals...it might be a bit more but you don't have to worry about anything getting scratched, broken.

      - do not go for the low budget "movers" they're the worst - looking to finish the job as soon as possible and are never careful with fragile items.

      - don't leave it to the last second...moving a house is not a one day chore - no matter how small the place is...once you start moving you realize just how much items you really have.

      - pack/box according to each room for the future apartment. it makes life a lot easier unpacking that way.

      these are just some things off the top off my head...good luck with helping

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      • #4
        Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

        1. My wife has a delightful story about U-Haul. She was moving home from boarding school many years ago and rented a trailer. While she finished the paperwork, one of the U-Haul employees fixed the hitch and connected the trailer to her car. She asked, "Are you sure it is connected right?" and the guy insisted that it was.

        A few seconds later, after my wife had pulled from the garage to the edge of the street, the trailer came loose, rolled forward, smashed through my wife's back window and came to a stop a few inches from her head. She says it was all worth the trouble just to fill out the accident report and the insurance claims:

        Where did the accident happen: "In the U-Haul parking lot."
        How fast were you driving? "Five miles an hour."
        How far had you gone? "Fifty feet."

        They paid.


        2. Buck, I agree with you about this. I had a college buddy who moved a lot. And when I and a couple of others would show up early on the appointed day to help him, he would greet us at the door saying, "Well, I think I'm just about ready." By which he meant he was just about ready to start beginning to commence packing. By the third time, we were bringing the boxes with us.

        My wife is a genius about packing and moving. We've done it a lot, back and forth from overseas. We never lose anything, we never break anything, none of the boxes are ridiculously heavy, every box is marked denoting in which room of the new house it should be unpacked, the first things you'll need at the new place are accessible.

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        And I won't be here to see the day
        It all dries up and blows away
        I'd hang around just to see
        But they never had much use for me
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          Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

          Horse trailers. We used them for moving 3 times. Fun stuff.

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          • #6
            Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

            Don't move from one apartment to another on an icy February day. That's all I've got.

            No, wait. I've got more.

            If you are moving from Indianapolis to Chicago, and you have Pacers season tickets, then do not schedule to close on your new house on June 12, 2000. Absolutely DO NOT under any circumstances pick up your truck from Ryder on June 14, 2000, even if your buddy is using the tickets that night. If you do pick up the truck, pack the television and DirecTV receiver LAST so that you can still watch Game #4 before you leave.

            If you pack the television and receiver, and all the packing is done, do NOT attempt to drive the moving truck up I-65 while listening to Game #4 on the radio. If you do that, you will lose the radio broadcast just north of Lafayette, (right after Sam Perkins hits the three to send it to overtime) and then discover that ESPN 1000 in Chicago has preempted the Finals to broadcast a White Sox game.

            About the only good advise I can give you is this - get the truck unpacked on the fifteenth and morning of the 16th so that you still have time to drive back to Indianapolis for Game #5.
            Why do the things that we treasure most, slip away in time
            Till to the music we grow deaf, to God's beauty blind
            Why do the things that connect us slowly pull us apart?
            Till we fall away in our own darkness, a stranger to our own hearts
            And life itself, rushing over me
            Life itself, the wind in black elms,
            Life itself in your heart and in your eyes, I can't make it without you

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            • #7
              Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

              LOL! Moving sucks so much. When we moved into this house, after lugging a loveseat, a couch (that destroyed the brand new never before used light fixture in the stairway) and a washer and dryer upstairs with my dad as others just looked on, my exact quote to my wife was, "I hopE you like this MFing house, because I'm never moving again!"

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              • #8
                Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                Actually when I moved several years ago back to Indy from Fort Wayne, I sold, donated or threw out almost everything. TV, sofa, computer desk, computer, coffee table, tons of other stuff - such as food, cleaning supplies, all were tossed. The only real thing I moved was my matress and box springs a couple of lamps, a few dishes........it was the easiest move I have ever been involved in. But I have helped a couple of friends move a few times and I am getting sick and tired of moving that old beat up trunk that weighs 50lbs that he never even uses. But he never throws anything away, so he has lost someone to help him move - it was his choice, me or the trunk

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                • #9
                  Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                  My first advice would be what belli said, hire movers. How many of you are helping? Divide the cost of the movers between you nad sit back and enjoy the day. It is more than worth it.

                  If you are not going o do that, here are a couple of things I have learned having moved way too many times in my life.

                  1. Get the biggest truck you can. One time we got one that was too small and had to make more than one trip plus fill up other cars. A nice big truck gives you plenty of elbow room and options on getting packed.

                  2. Put someone in charge of organizing the stuff in the truck. I usually do this because I can get the most stuff into a space possible.

                  3. As Putty said, encourage your friend to pack in light, easy to carry boxes. Also, tell him to go buy boxes or get computer boxes that are not beat up. We got a bunch of Dell computer boxes before one move and they were perfect. They were all the sme size and had built in handles. Sturdy boxes mean less chance of crushing as well.

                  4. Empty all dresser and desk drawers. This sounds like common sense, but sometimes ine tries to save time at the expense of a lot more work.

                  5. Hire movers. Especially if there are steps and weird angled doors involved. I'm still not sure how movers got some of our furniture into some fo the places we have lived. I'm just glad i didn't have to do it.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                    Encourage him to find the nearest goodwill store and donate heavily.

                    Use sturdy boxes that are not overloaded and that are well-marked for exactly what room they go to in the new place. When you get there, walk through with everyone and show what room is what ( "This is BR1, this is the dining room, this is the study", etc.)

                    The truck will need to be bigger than you think it needs to be. Have one guy in charge of arranging stuff in the truck, tightly and safely/neatly.

                    Dissassemble furniture, dressers, tables, etc. as much as possible before moving day. Bubble wrap/ blanket & duct tape mirrors, glass, picture frames, etc.

                    If possible borrow or rent a hand truck to wheel stuff in, rather than killing your back. A big old utility cart borrowed from work can help too if there is room in the truck. Never lift and carry what you can wheel around.

                    Make sure the power is on at the new place, the AC is cranked to the max, and the fridge is stocked with water/sodas and the pizza guy is on speed dial.

                    All of this is bypassed if you can hire movers, which is a good plan in my book, but expensive.
                    The poster "pacertom" since this forum began (and before!). I changed my name here to "Slick Pinkham" in honor of the imaginary player That Bobby "Slick" Leonard picked late in the 1971 ABA draft (true story!).

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                    • #11
                      Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                      You have to be careful with U-Haul. Those trucks aren't very well maintained. I've heard a lot of scary stories...many of them having to do with faulty brakes.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                        Bankers boxes = greatest boxes on earth. They are not too big, so they won't be over-stuffed with heaviness, they have handles for easy carrying, And you can stack them 8 high without worrying about collapsing.

                        Also, Use a hand truck as much as possible.
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                        • #13
                          Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                          The "-" in U-Haul is replacing a "g"...Ughaul.
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                          • #14
                            Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                            I disagree with this:

                            My first advice would be what belli said, hire movers. How many of you are helping? Divide the cost of the movers between you nad sit back and enjoy the day. It is more than worth it.
                            Hefting heavy objects is something that men ought to do with alacrity. Not to show off muscles, but because being willing to do honest work cheerfully when it needs doing is just about the sexiest thing going to women. (Ask 'em.)

                            Your problem, Buck, is that you're helping a guy. You ought to be helping a young woman.
                            And I won't be here to see the day
                            It all dries up and blows away
                            I'd hang around just to see
                            But they never had much use for me
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                            • #15
                              Re: Anyone with any good do it yourself moving tips

                              UgHaul brags about their low box height for easy access but it really means that the wheel wells stick up in the floor and waste floor space (plus can be a pain for fitting things in that are large and need to turn when you're at the last 1/4 of the box). More importantly, the ramps are short so that low box doesn't really make the ramp less steep than a true dock height truck because the short ramp negates that advantage.

                              I prefer a Penske or Budget truck any day....

                              But I have a lot of truck pack dimension cases and UgHaul isn't really truck pack dimensions inside the box.

                              We've had an UgHaul blow an engine... and we've had a Budget caliper explode. Budget sent someone to fix the truck where it was broke down. UgHaul was more of a mess and caused us to burn a couple of days dealing with them.
                              Nuntius was right for a while. I was wrong for a while. But ultimately I was right and Frank Vogel has been let go.

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