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  • OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

    Guys I know this belongs somewhere else, move it when you must but I want to show you how far beyond decency KtK can and has gone.

    His post on the IS site is directed at TripleThreat

    "There you go making stuff up again. I always respond when necessary. Don't you have a box of toothpicks to drop on the floor or something? I bet you spend all day doing that!"

    http://www2.indystar.com/forums/show...07#post3016307



    Now for those who do not know....T2 has two autistic children. the toothpick comment refers to a scene in the movie Rainman.

    Please, whatever banning you have given this jerk, make it permanent.
    Ever notice how friendly folks are at a shootin' range??.

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    Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

    Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
    Guys I know this belongs somewhere else, move it when you must but I want to show you how far beyond decency KtK can and has gone.

    His post on the IS site is directed at TripleThreat

    "There you go making stuff up again. I always respond when necessary. Don't you have a box of toothpicks to drop on the floor or something? I bet you spend all day doing that!"

    http://www2.indystar.com/forums/show...07#post3016307



    Now for those who do not know....T2 has two autistic children. the toothpick comment refers to a scene in the movie Rainman.

    Please, whatever banning you have given this jerk, make it permanent.
    I agree. Even without having seen that post, it was obvious that KTK is the sort that can ruin an online neighboorhood in record time.

    And by the way, the continued lack of moderation by the Star keeps reminding me why this board is such a better place to be.

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      Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

      Originally posted by indygeezer View Post
      Guys I know this belongs somewhere else, move it when you must but I want to show you how far beyond decency KtK can and has gone.

      His post on the IS site is directed at TripleThreat

      "There you go making stuff up again. I always respond when necessary. Don't you have a box of toothpicks to drop on the floor or something? I bet you spend all day doing that!"

      http://www2.indystar.com/forums/show...07#post3016307



      Now for those who do not know....T2 has two autistic children. the toothpick comment refers to a scene in the movie Rainman.

      Please, whatever banning you have given this jerk, make it permanent.
      Just to put some positive light on this....

      I have two autistic sons. I attended a special olympics regional track meet yesterday near Pike High School. There were what seemed like hundreds of volunteers and maybe a couple thousand people there. It was a wonderful event, as all the special olympics events are. The goodness of people in that community is almost overwhelming.

      As for KtK's comments, they probably hurt some people more than others. I am not particularly sensitive because I expect that type of thing from a certain segment of the population. I also expect a lack of understanding from the general public, because it's really impossible to comprehend unless you live through it as a parent. It only highlights the fact that we (myself included) could learn more from other people's experiences.

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        Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

        Originally posted by BlueNGold View Post
        Just to put some positive light on this....

        I have two autistic sons. I attended a special olympics regional track meet yesterday near Pike High School. There were what seemed like hundreds of volunteers and maybe a couple thousand people there. It was a wonderful event, as all the special olympics events are. The goodness of people in that community is almost overwhelming.

        As for KtK's comments, they probably hurt some people more than others. I am not particularly sensitive because I expect that type of thing from a certain segment of the population. I also expect a lack of understanding from the general public, because it's really impossible to comprehend unless you live through it as a parent. It only highlights the fact that we (myself included) could learn more from other people's experiences.

        I agree about the goodness in the SO community. My kids are not quite 5 yet, so we haven't gotten them involved just yet (still working on that whole "talking" thing LOL).

        I also agree that the comments should not be taken to heart, but at the same time, these types of people still need to know that those comments are not without consequence. Would I beat the guy down for making those comments? Probably not...but IMO, people like him need a special tattoo on their forehead so that people know what is truly in their hearts.

        Geezer...thanks for the support by creating this thread here. I really appreciate it.
        Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
        - Margaret Mead

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          Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

          Hey Triple, I didn't know you popped in over here. Great to see you.

          I'm assuming that Kobe didn't know about your kids since it sounded like he was trying to imply that you are "Rainman" because you were being so picky about stuff (in his opinion only I think).

          I hope so because otherwise that's a punch-in-the-face comment to me and if you think he meant it that way and are able to take it so well then your a better man than me.


          And to the point, KtK is one of man reasons I got tired of sifting through stuff at Star as much, while Triple Threat is one of the reasons I regret not checking in there more often. I have a buddy list there of about 8-10 guys and TT is right at the top. I think me being a former Houston resident helps with that.

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            Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

            Originally posted by Naptown_Seth View Post
            Hey Triple, I didn't know you popped in over here. Great to see you.

            I'm assuming that Kobe didn't know about your kids since it sounded like he was trying to imply that you are "Rainman" because you were being so picky about stuff (in his opinion only I think).

            I hope so because otherwise that's a punch-in-the-face comment to me and if you think he meant it that way and are able to take it so well then your a better man than me.


            And to the point, KtK is one of man reasons I got tired of sifting through stuff at Star as much, while Triple Threat is one of the reasons I regret not checking in there more often. I have a buddy list there of about 8-10 guys and TT is right at the top. I think me being a former Houston resident helps with that.
            Even worse is that KTK knows about my kids situation, and made the comment to imply that I entertain myself with their disability by dropping toothpicks on the floor so that they count them.

            He's truly a POS of the lowest grade. He made other comments, but they were about me personally, not necessarily about my kids. This one was just over the top, and my friends on the board recognized the attack, and are showing their support for me.

            He's been banned from RATS now, as well, and the thread has been deleted. I'm sure he'll resurface, but hopefully, we'll never know who he is, because he'll mind his P's and Q's. (i'm fairly certain that he's already got a new moniker, and has been using it for a while now, but I have no proof of that just yet.)

            Thanks to everyone for taking the time to read this.
            Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
            - Margaret Mead

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              Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

              That was wrong of him, to say the least. He was already out for good here, for the record. As soon as he fired up his schtick the writing was on the wall IMO; after enough rounds with people like that it becomes obvious early.

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                Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                Originally posted by TripleThreat View Post
                I agree about the goodness in the SO community. My kids are not quite 5 yet, so we haven't gotten them involved just yet (still working on that whole "talking" thing LOL).

                I also agree that the comments should not be taken to heart, but at the same time, these types of people still need to know that those comments are not without consequence. Would I beat the guy down for making those comments? Probably not...but IMO, people like him need a special tattoo on their forehead so that people know what is truly in their hearts.

                Geezer...thanks for the support by creating this thread here. I really appreciate it.
                Triple - I agree with you. The fact it was done with knowledge of your situation makes it heinous.

                My sons are 13 and 10 now and the period of time you are going through is very difficult. When my oldest was 5, I would tell him I loved him and he just stared into space with no expression and was completely unresponsive. In short, it can be incredibly painful and I understand your reaction. The good news is that for many of these kids, there are various degrees of improvement. I saw some improvement in my oldest's language between the ages of 5 and 7. I hope you see similar things or better.

                I will leave you with one more thing. Have you looked into ABA therapy? We tried a multitude of things over the years including enzymes, GFCF diet, several products from Kirkmans, etc...but we did not try ABA therapy. We knew about it at the time, but it was quite controversial and was only one of many ideas. It might still be controversial, but now there is some scientific evidence it might help. ...and it is possible to get the schools to pay for it, but you will need a good special ed. attorney. I wish you and your family the best.

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                  Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                  The remark is even low for KTK. What a tu.d. I'm glad he's banned form RATS now but as you say, he'll show up with another moniker until someone figures out who he is and it won't take long.
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                    Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                    People like this, they just, they just make me sick. Knowing that he knows about your situation, what a scumbag.


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                      Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                      Originally posted by Roferr View Post
                      The remark is even low for KTK. What a tu.d. I'm glad he's banned form RATS now but as you say, he'll show up with another moniker until someone figures out who he is and it won't take long.
                      He's already back...his new moniker? RainMan.

                      Karma has a knack for making it's way back around, though...I only hope it's not at the sake of another Autistic child that he finds out just how I feel.

                      Originally posted by BlueNGold View Post
                      Triple - I agree with you. The fact it was done with knowledge of your situation makes it heinous.

                      My sons are 13 and 10 now and the period of time you are going through is very difficult. When my oldest was 5, I would tell him I loved him and he just stared into space with no expression and was completely unresponsive. In short, it can be incredibly painful and I understand your reaction. The good news is that for many of these kids, there are various degrees of improvement. I saw some improvement in my oldest's language between the ages of 5 and 7. I hope you see similar things or better.

                      I will leave you with one more thing. Have you looked into ABA therapy? We tried a multitude of things over the years including enzymes, GFCF diet, several products from Kirkmans, etc...but we did not try ABA therapy. We knew about it at the time, but it was quite controversial and was only one of many ideas. It might still be controversial, but now there is some scientific evidence it might help. ...and it is possible to get the schools to pay for it, but you will need a good special ed. attorney. I wish you and your family the best.
                      We have several ABA therapists who work with our kids. We are also on the GFCF diet, and have a rigid supplement schedule. We spent well over $12,000 out of pocket in the first 6 months following the diagnosis, and are budgeted to spend closer to $30K this year once we start Chelation therapy.

                      The medical community refuses to accept Autism as a medical condition, calling it a behavioral disorder...therefore, there is not a lot that is covered by insurance.

                      Luckily for me, I do pretty well salary-wise. We downsized our house last year, and I have quite a bit of equity in this new one, so we have that to fall back on.

                      I'm trying NOT to wreck the sizeable 401(k) that I have, so if necessary, I'll take a second job, but...

                      Good luck with your sons. I have a boy and a girl affected. My NT son is awesome with his siblings. I couldn't be prouder of him.
                      Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
                      - Margaret Mead

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                        Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                        Originally posted by Roferr View Post
                        The remark is even low for KTK. What a tu.d. I'm glad he's banned form RATS now but as you say, he'll show up with another moniker until someone figures out who he is and it won't take long.
                        RainMan has already been banned. He got one post off before they zapped him again.

                        We'll see what he comes up with next. Here's a list of ones he can use.

                        JMac
                        DustinHoffman
                        Einstein (rumored to be autistic)

                        I'm not going to get into this with him. If he keeps finding a way back...I'm just going to say screw RATS and start posting over here more often. At least I know I don't have to listen to people like that POS ever again.
                        Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
                        - Margaret Mead

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                          Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                          Autism is considered a behavior disorder in the medical community? That's surprising to me; I didn't know that. So does that mean they consider it an acquired behavior?

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                            Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                            they don't consider it a medical condition. The FDA will not approve treatments which not only have proven to be effective, even though there are THOUSANDS of autistic children who have been able to shed the label, and lose their diagnosis...undistinguishable from their peers, after following the DAN! (Defeat Autism Now!) Protocol.

                            For the record, I called it. After RainMan was banned, he came back with DustinH. How creative of him.
                            Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
                            - Margaret Mead

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                              Re: OT: KobetheKing goes beyond he limits

                              Don't they have some way of permanently blocking an IP? I believe that eventually happend to PFFL over there.
                              Ever notice how friendly folks are at a shootin' range??.

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