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ABADays
12-16-2005, 10:09 PM
$20.00 GC would be nice.

$1,000 GC will buy her true love.

Kegboy
12-16-2005, 10:11 PM
First off, thanks for making this readable. ;)

I'd vote no. If you're not really into her, getting something for her and not anyone else could cause all kinds of drama. Even if you're not into dating people from work, that will be the impression created.

Now, I preface this with I don't know the girl at all, take this at face value, yada yada, but I get the impression she's playing you. If you get her something, especially if you've told her you don't do gifts, then you're her b!tch. I've seen this many times before, where a girl isn't getting the guy she wants, so she leads another guy on just to make herself feel wanted.

If you're really into her, you can give it a shot, but it sounds like you're not. Better to occupy yourself with Girls A through J instead.

SycamoreKen
12-17-2005, 01:13 AM
Hey man, ticks grow on you too, but you don't encourage them. Just joking. The first thing I would stop doing is trying to figure women out. It's geneticly impossible for males to do so. If you like her give her a gift that doesn't mean more than it is.

Since86
12-19-2005, 02:54 PM
Sounds like she wants you to ask her out, and doesn't have the guts to do it herself. She's sending out a lot of hints, but doesn't want to get to direct.

I say you should just ask her straight up if she want's to kick it, and you'll find out quick enough.

Harmonica
12-19-2005, 05:51 PM
No. No gift certificate! I vote no. That's what I vote. It's final. No going back or changing my mind.

sweabs
12-19-2005, 06:49 PM
Have you tried pulling her hair or calling her "stupid head"?

Works, every, time.

Shade
12-19-2005, 10:05 PM
VA, she's flirting with you like crazy. If you like her, ask her out.